Trust me, I’m a professional…
A lot of my fans are chronic masturbators…jerking off at least a couple times a day to porn. Orgasms are really good for you, medically & mentally. It reduces your chances of getting prostate cancer, reduces stress, etc. So let’s talk about masturbating BETTER! Specifically how to masturbate to have better sex (if you get the opportunity).
1. Make sure your dick will be ready to fuck a real pussy! If your dick only knows your hand & you jerk the same way every time you may struggle to keep your boner or to ejaculate when it’s “business time”.
Experiment with lighter grips & hand positions/use your other hand. Don’t always do exactly the same thing.
Masturbate while wearing a condom! (I’m told this is called a “Posh Wank” in the UK). Get your dick used to fucking with a rubber (often free at clinics).
Get a Fleshlight or other masturbation device that feels more like a vagina. You can shop on the internet discreetly for that stuff or your local sex shop.
Or make your own home made one! I googled “DIY masturbation device” and found this helpful article, I’m sure there’s more (Feel free to comment below if you have a DIY tip to share): http://www.literotica.com/s/homemade-pussy-device
That DIY (do-it-yourself) article reminded me of when I was a horny, resourceful teen. I made an ‘insertable’ by wrapping tissues around the neck of a wine bottle (to make it softer & more life-like) & securing a condom over it with an elastic band. Yup, I was THAT serious about safe sex. Ha ha:-)
2. Build a better orgasm AND learn orgasm control by ‘edging’ yourself. Bring yourself close to orgasm then ease off…let it build again & just before you ejaculate, ease off or stop…repeat several times (or for hours!) before finally enjoying a powerful release. This will help you have more control if you do have sex with a woman (no one likes a minute man!)
3. Try different things. It’s okay to like what ya like…but experiment with variations of what you like. This will help you keep a boner & ejaculate at the right time when in situations other than just that one specific way you’re used it. You can watch different porn, or hell, use your imagination once in a while (worst advice ever from a smut peddler, eh?)…Try sitting, standing, laying down, in the shower, maybe sneak one off at work or in the car (don’t get caught).
That should keep you busy for awhile. Remember, sex takes practice and your biggest sex organ is your brain. That means if you’re nervous you might find your penis not behaving as you like. There’s a lot more to sex then just intercourse…like touching, kissing, massage, teasing…You always have a mouth & if you learn to lick pussy like a champ your lady won’t mind if it takes your dick awhile to catch up.
Best,
Mistress T
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Mistress T,
Lovely, sexy advice as always. I myself am not a chronic masturbator of course, but I will pass these tips on to my friend. He sometimes struggles with this minute man syndrome of which you speak.
Thanks so much!
Twice at day – yeah, i wish i only masturbated that much.
Thanks your teaching.
But I think it’s hard to get it without Mistress T’s great instruction clip.
A part from some basic experiment in my teens, involving foam, my experience with mastrubation devices isn’t big. Nothing beats the real thing.
But along the years the hand has proved helpful on many occasions. And it’s a great training tool. At first it was all about coming. but with age came knowledge.
Today masturbation involves taking it right to the edge, over and over again, sometimes for days. and then as a reward sitting on a big butplugg letting it go. Almost heaven. It’s only gets better when a mistress is involved 🙂
The condom is only used when I’m going to eat my own cum. I’m not as sensitive as I used to. But that always involves a mistress.
Thank you for your blog and videos. It helps.