Update and stuff

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It’s been a year since my last blog post. And what a year it has been.

For the casual observer, things probably look fine. For the careful observer, you likely know that things have been very different for me during the pandemic. I have not been seeing fans in person for sessions or filming. I have changed my business model to focus mostly on my fan page: https://www.loyalfans.com/Mistress-T

That has been amazing for the fans who have used it but it’s not for everyone, I suppose. It’s also more about giving a lot of attention to fewer fans for a profit, rather than giving free attention to many more fans (like twitter).

But anyway. How ya been? Alright? Been a bit rough?

I turned 45 in April and didn’t make a big announcement about it but received some lovely gifts and tributes from fans. Much appreciated. Gift cards for Etsy helped me pick up a few new things for my summer wardrobe while supporting small business owners.

From October 2020 until early summer I focused on writing my 2nd book. A fiction. It was tremendously good for my mental health to have a creative project to focus on. I would often walk solo in the woods trying to work out some snag in the story line or some pickle the main character got herself into. I had three people read it and give feedback. I made changes and it is now in the hands of a very good, but busy editor. When she’s done I will present it to some publishers. I had been advised to seek a literary agent but upon more research that may not be the right strategy, though I’m still open to it. I wrote the book to be easily adapted to a screen play for a movie or TV series. Ideally I would find a literary agent that does all of that and so far I’ve only found agents that don’t work with screenplays. It’s all a learning experience and I welcome any advice from those in the know.

I’ve been double vaccinated so have been able to relax a bit, especially with case numbers being lower where I am…but with the Delta variant and numbers going back up I am unsure what the future holds? So no travel plans to see fans at this time and not really seeing fans locally either. Financially I don’t need to. I realize many “service providers” need to meet fans in person to make a living but since that’s not the case for me it’s hard to justify the potential risk. I have made a couple of exceptions for dinner dates with vaccinated fans and may continue to do that. If there is a chance of meeting me, you being vaccinated is a non-negotiable.

We’re all bloody tired of talking about the pandemic, aren’t we?

So I’m still here. I’m trying to enjoy life. Spending more time in rivers this summer with a few good friends. I have had a couple of new lovers which has been…lovely. I’ve been doing a bit of gardening, riding my bicycle around, hanging out with my pet Lovebird. Things are good for me.

I’m not as active as I once was but who could keep up that pace for so many years? I created over 2000 vids. It’s time to slow down and enjoy life. I know that’s not good news for those who want me to keep churning out content or for those desperate to session with me in person…but hopefully for those who see me more as a human than just a content creator or service provider, you’ll smile knowing that I’m putting self care before the job.

There’s lots of women out there who very much want to see you and want your business. I know, I’m special, but for what you need I’m not the only one. So save your begging. If you have a nearly unlimited budget and respectful demeanor, sure, message me. Maybe, when it’s safe we can meet. But if you’re just looking for a regular session at a reasonable rate, you’ll need to look elsewhere.

That’s my little update for now. I have no idea when the new book will be available as I’m not planning to self publish this one, the time line is out of my control. I’ll make announcements here, twitter and on my fan page.

Keep on keeping on my darlings.

xo

Mistress T

 

Live stream during filming VR scenes!

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This Sunday (August 23) between 2pm and 8pm Pacific time (Vancouver, same time zone as Seattle & California) I’ll be live streaming for subscribers on my LoyalFans fan page.

This is my first time doing a live stream like this so it’s hard for me to predict exactly how it will go but my plan is to turn on the live stream while I’m getting ready, during the photo shoot, during the filming and after.

I won’t stream the entire time but will turn it on & off when appropriate. If fans are tipping well I’ll leave it on more, obviously. So if you are watching the live stream I sternly encourage you to tip to show you want more.

Most of the time I won’t be able to chat or answer questions but I’ll try to when possible.

The VR scenes will be 1 boy/girl cuckolding themed sex scene, 2 solo FemDom masturbation instruction scenes.

Note that the strictest Covid protocols are being followed, with BC CDC approval.

On a personal note, I have not been filming or seeing fans in person during the pandemic but have made an exception for this one day based on every precaution being taken. Is it 100% safe? No. Are we doing this the safest way possible? Yes. If you tune in for the live stream you can see just how very safe we are being. We have also all made agreements around behaviour 2 weeks before and after filming for our own safety, each others safety and the community. When I say “we” I mean this is a 4 person crew with only the other performer & I getting within 6 feet of each other and he will be masked. He will basically be a stunt dick for a POV sex scene.

Why have I made an exception for this? I’m a big fan of VR. I’ve had a vision for what I’ve wanted to create in VR and this is the team that can help me bring it to fruition. I’m very excited to create some special stuff!

So subscribe to my fan page to get access to the live stream on Sunday. This is a one-off event that will not be repeated in the foreseeable future. Some behind-the-scenes parts may be recorded and sold by me after and of course the VR scenes will be available later.

If you’re hoping to interact with me, message me there. Their messaging system has some cool features. In addition to text chat I can send you customized voice messages, pics, vids, etc.: https://www.loyalfans.com/Mistress-T 

xo

Mistress T

 

I love service slaves

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This will be a painfully (not in a good way) unsexy post for most of you.

Still here?

Guys tell me every day they want to serve me. Read that wording again.

Some of you will see what’s wrong with that sentence.

For those who actually ask how they can serve me, the answer, disappointingly, is usually not anything like tongue cleaning my ass (which is the most common request, as if I’m unable to properly clean myself and am always desperate for someone to use their tongue for what I’ve been foolishly using my shower for all these years).

Sometimes what I want is a luxury item I wouldn’t typically splurge on but adore. Recently it was tea.

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Today my “tea slave” as I call him or as he’s otherwise know “Cuckold For Life” sent me a box of fancy teas that caused me SO much excitement I immediately boiled a kettle to try them out. I dare say I’ll get more joy from all that lovely tea than a guy licking the mud from my boots.

Now now, don’t pout perv. I said “more” joy, not that I don’t enjoy the other stuff. But darling this is reality and in my world, I’m drinking way more tea then I’m pissing in guys mouths.

And also…I’m not seeing anyone in person during Covid. I am drinking tea every day. So as worthless as my cuck slave is at being a stud, he serves me in MY way and that makes him a favorite. It’s okay to have good things to say about someone who is otherwise useless, a sexual failure. Being in service, like actual useful service, to Superior Goddess’s is what he’s on this earth to do. Knowing he’ll never sexually satisfy a women, he’s found a way to satisfy in different ways. Clever potato.

So there’s a love story about a Domme, her cuck and luxury tea.

xo

Mistress T

PS: Want more interaction than my vids or blog offer? Join my fan page and send me a message. I’ll respond…sometimes fast, sometimes not, but that’s what you get when it’s one person doing everything. I can make you little customized voice messages, send you pics, we can chat back & forth, yeah really. Cool, eh? https://www.loyalfans.com/Mistress-T

A new “Fan Page”!

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I finally gave in and started a “fan page”. I’m not great with new technology. I’ve been doing things pretty much the same way for over a decade. Pay-per-view clips stores, members site, twitter.

I found these new platforms intimidating. At one point I even tried to start an OnlyFans but I ran into technical problems and their customer service department took several days to respond. Their solution didn’t work and it took them another several days to respond again. It still didn’t fix the problem so I gave up.

Then the owners of LoyalFans reached out to me. They assured me they’d give me top notch customer service, and they have. It’s a new platform and some things are still developing (getting better) but I couldn’t be more pleased with the experience. It’s been a lot of fun!

So after trying it out for about 10 days I am ready to invite you to join me there. Take the plunge. It’s free for followers, so sort of like following me on twitter but better. I’d prefer you subscribe, it’s only $10 a month. Of course that’s just to get you in the door so I can get more money out of you, hey, just being honest! You can send tips (because you get a hellava lot for $10!), which are appreciated and we can private message which is on a whole other level. You probably couldn’t handle it, ha ha.

On LoyalFans I can be creative with audio recordings/voice messages (my favorite). Of course there’s lots of pics and vids. Mostly stuff I create with my iphone. If you prefer the professional full length vids I’ve traditionally made the place for that is still on my members site or clips stores. LoyalFans is a more intimate and interactive kind of experience.

Check it out. If you’re intimidated by new technology, fear not. It only hurts for a minute. It’s easy and fun to use.

Here’s the link: https://www.loyalfans.com/Mistress-T 

For those needing to keep their billing extra discreet, I think they’ll have PayPal as an option eventually. In the mean time, become a follower. Email me to inquire about other ways to pay me: MsT@MisressT.net

xo

Mistress T

Members Site: www.MistressT.net

C4S (Buy vids or just send a TRIBUTE! I love random tributes!): http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

IWantClips: https://iwantclips.com/store/57715/Mistress-T

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet

Sneak peeks:

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Apr 29 Birthday

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My 44th birthday is coming up. I don’t want gifts. This is not a shout out for you to send me stuff. I do want something from you though.

On my birthday this year I would like to be showered with stories of kindness, generosity, love.

You have a couple of weeks to create these stories to share with me on Apr 29th.

The parameters are wide. It can be donating to a charity. It can be sharing something with someone in your community (flour, toilet paper, etc.) it can be helping a neighbor (lawn care, fixing something, running an errand, bringing them food, etc.) it can be listening to someone who needs to be heard, offering supportive words to someone struggling, adopting a rescued animal, planting a fruit tree or any food that you plan to share later…anything that makes the world a better place, for people, animals or the environment.

To be clear, I’m encouraging you to do something good in the next couple of weeks. I want my faith in humanity bolstered on my birthday. A bukake of kindness. Lay it on me:-)

Post your stories in the comments area here on my blog, or tweet them to me (https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet ), or email them (MsT@MistressT.net).

Other than that and as always, pay for my content you consume (buy my vids), it would mean a lot to me for you to you read (or listen) to my book. The audio book is narrated by me. You could fill 10 hours listening to my velvety voice talking alllll about myself. ha ha

“There Is More To The Story” by Mistress T is available in paperback, kindle & audio on Amazon & audible: https://www.amazon.com/There-More-Story

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xo

Mistress T

Members Site: www.MistressT.net

Pay-per-view & TRIBUTE buttons:

https://www.clips4sale.com/23869
https://iwantclips.com/store/57715/Mistress-TTwitter:
https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet

No, we can not discuss meeting in person.

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UPDATE: Fuck it. If you send a tribute I’ll discuss meeting in person. It’s still not going to happen anytime soon but for the right money, you can get my attention.

That payment can be made in any of the following ways, in order of my preference. EMAIL: MsT@MistressT.net

Gift cards (most of these accept PayPal & credit cards):
https://www.spud.ca (delivery area Vancouver, BC)
Tribute button on one of my clips stores:
 
E-transfer for those with Canadian banks to MsT@MistressT.net. Security password: goodboy

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This blog post will be used as a response to emails asking to meet in person, for a private session, filming or anything else.

No, we can not discuss meeting in person during a pandemic. It would be irresponsible & reckless for both of us and for the community. I certainly wouldn’t take that risk for a few hundred dollars, even thousands of dollars. Certainly not to make an adult video.

WHEN might this change? Not within the next year, at least. Until there is a vaccine, I don’t see how this close, in-person activity, which in 90% of the cases would require one of us to travel to another country (the biggest no-go for the foreseeable future), could happen before everyone has been vaccinated.

So, no, I will not discuss your fantasy now, even if you think it would be possible to meet in a few months (it won’t).

I have been inundated with requests to meet. When I respond that this won’t be possible anytime soon so there is no point in discussing I have gotten more angry, hateful responses than I have received in the last decade combined. I don’t understand why I’m getting such an intense reaction from stating what is reality? Perhaps it’s a measure of the emotional health of the world right now? A desperation for men to have some hope to hold onto, something to look forward to, a fantasy to help them escape the darkness of the moment. I’m sorry, I won’t play along. But good news: there are hundreds of women out there who will. If you have a budget to discuss fantasies with women online, oh boy, it’s your lucky day as there are even more than there were before and they would love your financial support.

If you’ve been sent this as a response to a nice email telling me you’re a really big fan and you’d love to meet and you’re now feeling rejected, defensive and inspired to send me some vitriol or a denial that it will be at least a year until we could meet: take a breath. I’m sorry you feel that way. If you really want to meet me, wait to ask me when it’s actually safe for that to happen, for both of us and for our communities. For now, take care of yourself. xo

Mistress T

Members Site: www.MistressT.net

Pay-per-view & TRIBUTE buttons:

https://www.clips4sale.com/23869
https://iwantclips.com/store/57715/Mistress-TTwitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet
PS: If you’d like to listen to my voice for 10 hours, I narrated my own audiobook: https://www.audible.ca/pd/There-Is-More-to-the-Story-Audiobook/B07X8R4V5W

Let’s chat! Isolaters Unite!

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Mistress T, wearing bunny slippers. Stop looking at my tits & notice my fluffy slippers, perv.

 EDITED on April 2, 2020: I’m pausing doing more skype at this time. Please give your business to one of the other wonderful women who would be delighted to give you their attention on cam.

I’m back from a trip to Costa Rica, in self-isolation for a couple of weeks. That isolation may stretch longer for me…& for you.

During this time I’m open to doing more cam & interaction.

I have Skype set up for video, voice or text chat.

For the lonely & not particularly horny I’m offering a friendly chat option at a discounted price of $25 for 20 minutes. This is regular chat with me wearing regular cloths. No fetishes. No jerking off.

For those who want something fetish, FemDom or abuse/humiliation it’s $100 minimum for 20 minutes. That’s usually long enough for most but we’ll discuss if you want more time. I don’t do “cam shows” in the usual way. Like my vids, it’s more of a cerebral thing. Interactive. Mostly verbal.

It’s $25 initially to get my Skype ID if you don’t have it already. That $25 goes toward our first session. I do this to ensure you are able to pay before I invest my time. That payment can be made in any of the following ways, in order of my preference. EMAIL: MsT@MistressT.net

Gift cards (most of these accept PayPal & credit cards):
https://www.spud.ca (delivery area Vancouver, BC)
Tribute button on one of my clips stores:
 
E-transfer for those with Canadian banks to MsT@MistressT.net. Security password: goodboy
 
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To help out some local peers & to offer you options I also suggest:
 
TS Rianna James. If you like feet, she has 2 of them & they're fantastic.

TS Rianna James. If you like feet, she has 2 of them & they’re fantastic.

TS Rianna James for a variety of things including butt stuff. She can train you to have mind-blowing prostate orgasms, edging & a bunch of other higher level stuff: https://www.tsriannajames.com
 
Goddess Ivy Harte, she's not always this serious, sometimes she's meaner.

Goddess Ivy Harte, she’s not always this serious, sometimes she’s meaner.

Goddess Ivy Harte for classic FemDom with a modern, uber sexy twist. An accomplished real time Pro Domme, she’s just starting online sessions so use her contact form on her site & indicate you’re interested in online: http://ivyharte.com
 
Lillith, it's a crime that I couldn't find a good pic of her smiling, it lights up a room. Need your day improved? Get her to smile for you.

Lillith: So fucking sultry

Lillith, a personal friend who oozes sensuality & playfulness is new to the biz. 25 year old cutie doing solo camming, masturbation, open to most fetishes. Twitter: @lillithisonline

NOTE: These are all personal friends of mine. If there are any challenges to sending them money, like they don’t accept payment in the only way you can send it, email me to see if I can help. I can get the money to them if you send it through me:-)


Again, my email address: MsT@MistressT.net

Raffle For Free Session In London

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Glam with silliness. An enigma wrapped in weird latex gloves, wearing bunny slippers. Hey, somebunny loves you!

Happy New Year darlings! I’ve spontaneously booked a brief personal trip to London early February 2020. I have some flexibility in my schedule for a session.

Here’s my quandary: With so many devoted fans in the UK, how do I choose who gets the rare pleasure of my company? To keep things fair I decided to have a raffle. Please read carefully…no seriously, READ CAREFULLY:

#1. Minimum $50 to enter the raffle (feel free to send more!). That can be paid via the tribute button on any of my clip stores (links in signature at the bottom) or via a gift card to the grocery service I use. It’s not sexy, but it’s practical, easy & they accept paypal & credit cards: https://www.spud.ca/giftcert (Choose “Vancouver BC” as the delivery area, the name “MT” is fine & email address: “MsT@MistressT.net”) Be sure to put YOUR email address in the comments section so I can include you in the raffle and can reach you if you win.

#2. What’s possible in a private session? LIMITED activities that can be done in my hotel room without gear as I won’t be traveling with implements, strap-on, costumes, etc. So things that are possible are: Foot worship, Goddess worship (massage me), golden showers, humiliation, orgasm control (my hand or yours), spanking, spitting, ball busting, scent fetish, clothed face sitting, trampling, sissification/x-dress if you bring your own stuff, cuckolding role-play (I will not have a bull with me for cuck sessions). NO SEX, no oral sex, no oral worship, no licking me anywhere above the ankle.

Your session can also be social/public, like going for a meal or doing an activity together but I don’t do public play/public humiliation.

#3. Location: Central London, England

#4. When: Feb 1st or 3rd. I have personal engagements that will take up most of the week I’ll be in London but on either of those 2 days I can move things around to fit in a session for a couple of hours.

#5. Winner will be chosen on Jan 22 (NOTE THAT I EDITED THIS FROM THE 27th TO THE 22nd TO GIVE MORE TIME FOR SOMEONE WHO MAY NEED TO ARRANGE TRAVEL OR TIME OFF WORK). For discretion I will not announce the winner, I will notify him by email. When you send your tribute or gift card be sure to put your email address in the comments. If the first guy doesn’t work out for any reason I’ll pick another name until we have a session firmed up.

I’m sure I’ve missed something so if you have a question that you think others may also have, please ask it in the comments section here. If it’s a personal question you can send me an email but beware: I get overwhelmed by too much email & sometimes don’t respond for awhile or at all. Priority goes to those who have already sent a tribute. I won’t be keen to spend a lot of time corresponding with someone who is trying to decide IF he wants to enter the raffle. It’s $50. Chances are you’ve gotten $50 worth of pleasure from reading my blog, my tweets on twitter or free porn you’ve jerked off to on the internet. If $50 is that much of a stretch for you that you need to ask me a bunch of questions before sending it, just don’t bother, mmmkay:-)

Lastly, if you have a bottomless budget and want to secure a session with me without entering the raffle, send a tribute to prove you’re serious & then make me an offer. For the right circumstances I’ll find a way to fit in a very, very, very generous fan. To be clear: if you just send me an email without any kind of payment, you’ll be ignored. There’s lots of big talkers out there, show me you’re ready to walk the walk.

May the odds be ever in your favor.

xo

Mistress T

Members Site: www.MistressT.net

C4S (Buy vids or just send a TRIBUTE! I love random tributes!): http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

IWantClips: https://iwantclips.com/store/57715/Mistress-T

Manyvids: https://www.manyvids.com/MistressT

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet

 

Goddess Worship/Body Worship (Male or female clients welcome)

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Body Worship

I want to be worshiped.

Oil rubbed into every inch of my body. My soft curves. My smooth skin. And even though you are in heaven, I want you to be more focused on my experience.

So grateful to be near me, touching me, smelling me that you feel like you would do anything for me. You can follow my instructions but you also feel inspired to try something new, to play, to explore.

I want to cum. But I don’t want that to be the focus. It should be a natural part of the ritual.

You’ll be so elated to be in my presence that you’re giddy about it before & feels like you’re floating after, euphoric, without me doing a damn thing to you specifically.

If your heart is beating harder right now, you might be who I’m looking for.

If you think you don’t have the experience or skills, but damn it, you’d love to learn, you might be who I’m looking for.

If you think a women receiving pleasure without reciprocating makes her lazy, this isn’t the right opportunity for you.

If you think you can pretend to be what I’m looking for & trick me into servicing your dick, think again.

So, what’s next?

#1. My time is valuable & respecting that is part of worship. To apply you must do ANY of the following to prove you are worth my attention:

– Prove that you’ve purchased my book (paper, kindle or ebook): There Is More To The Story by Mistress T on Amazon

– Send a tribute via any of my clips stores or prove you’ve paid for my porn that you’ve consumed from any of the pay-per-view sites or joined my members site (Links in signature at end of this post)

– Prove you’ve donated/made a micro-loan to KIVA (see last blog post)

– Email a gift card to: MsT@MistressT.net (PP accepted) Spa Gift Card

– Send an etransfer (Canadian banks only): MsT@MistressT.net

IMPORTANT: Applications without one of the above will be redirected back here without further response. The amount doesn’t matter, it’s the gesture, showing that you’ve mastered reading comprehension, you can follow instructions, that you are willing to pay something to show you respect my time, etc.

#2. If I like your application & we set up an in-person audition in Vancouver a $100 tribute will be required to secure your booking.

#3. If I feel comfortable with you in person & want to proceed to a more intimate, hands-on audition in the moment you should be prepared to pay an additional $300. It’s $300 for the experience, not by the hour, the length of time is up to me & you should have several unrushed hours available should I choose to keep you. Ideally this becomes an ongoing thing.

I’m open to negotiating some things, like you can be in chastity, for example, but let me be clear: this is not about you. I will not touch your penis. So if cuckolding or orgasm denial is your jam: awesome! You will keep your bodily fluids to yourself unless I choose to have you orally worship me but there are no guarantees. I can be quite satisfied with you only using your hands. Over time anything is possible, but right now, I want to be worshiped like a Goddess, massaged, rubbed down, touched, caressed, adored.

Sure, it would be nice to have a sex ninja, tantra guru, or the swiss army knife of sex so I can lay back & fully receive plus learn new things…but I also have a soft spot for the inexperienced but keen to practice. This is also great for the type of person who wants intimacy or human contact without the pressure of sexual performance. I can show just about anyone how to touch me in the way I like, if you’re respectful, service orientated & keen, you’ll probably be fine.

Questions? I’m sure you’ve got some. You can try putting them in the comments below & I might answer but your best bet is to send an email WITH a tribute or proof that you’ve supported my work or a charity I love.

VANCOUVER ONLY: I will not travel for this unless you are willing to pay first class travel for myself & a friend + a very generous tribute.

xo

Mistress T

Members Site: www.MistressT.net

C4S (Buy vids or just send a TRIBUTE! I love random tributes!): http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

IWantClips: https://iwantclips.com/store/57715/Mistress-T

Manyvids: https://www.manyvids.com/MistressT

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTdotnet

 

FREE PORN for doing a good deed!

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I’m re-upping the Kiva Micro-Loan thingy again this year! For 6 years I’ve offered this year-round, but I push it a little harder in December. Here’s the original post with more details:

Loan $ to a worthwhile cause & get FREE PORN!

Basically $50 gets you a free month of porn. This year I’ll do 3 months for $100.

xo

Mistress T