The Joy of NOT Fucking Me.

Mistress T in Honeymoon Cuckolding.

Is that a close enough look cuck?

Does the title sound a bit strange to you? If so you might be one of the many men (or women?) who would really like to fuck me. Maybe you even fantasize about actually penetrating me or cumming inside of me?

Well, if you weren’t a few minutes ago you probably are now.

There is a whole other world though…men who get off on being denied sexually, being teased or ‘cuckolded’. Sometimes humiliation is part of it, being told they’re not worthy. Others just seem to have a frustration fetish. Some don’t even want to cum, they want total orgasm denial. Chastity can be a part of that.

Why? Why is anyone into anything they’re into?

Chastity!

You won’t be fucking me or cumming locked up in your cage!

I’m very amused by these scenario’s. I get session requests (in person & online) & custom vid requests where guys just want me to tease them with what they can’t have. Describe the sex acts they’ll never have with me, the intimate pleasures they’ll never experience. One of my favorite things to do is to get quite romantic, sensually intimate, without actually doing much of anything. Grazing my nails & fingertips along their skin & through their hair, breathing softly on their neck, moaning quietly in their ear, pressing myself against them so gently they almost don’t register the pressure…

Sweet seduction followed by…

Nothing really. Maybe a little giggle at their squirming & discomfort. A bright smile at their frustration.

Nude Mistress T & a slave.

So close yet so far…

It makes me feel powerful, I admit. Having a man want me so badly. To have his body & cock screaming to do what is supposed to be ‘natural’. To go against nature & to leave him humping the air pathetically.

That might be why I enjoy cuckolding so much. I get to feed my desire to deny a man sex with me while at the same time getting my sexual needs met by another. My cake & eat it too.

I love to say “no”. And I love to say “yes”.

Best,
Mistress T

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6 thoughts on “The Joy of NOT Fucking Me.

  1. When you think about it: Porn is cuckolding: You see and fantasize on what you’ll never have or do! 🙂

  2. Looking back over my sexual life, I have to admit
    having always been a bit of a ‘door mat’ when it
    comes to attractive women. I always regarded this
    as a weakness and flaw in my character. Until a few
    years ago, when I realised that being regarded as a
    bit of a ‘softy’ has many benefits.
    I have some amazing female friends, many more than
    the majority of my more aggressive, single minded
    male peers. Plus, once you strip away all the bullshit
    and lies so many of the guys I know spout when it
    comes to their escapades, I think I’ve actually
    been luckier sexually than the majority of them.

    I didn’t fully reallise it when I was younger, but
    I’ve been subtly dominated and manipulated by women
    and girls all my life. Now my eyes have finally been
    opened to the world of female domination, I have to say
    I almost feel sorry for my more vanilla male friends.

    The psychological intensity of having a hot woman
    dominate and control you, is one of the most emotionally
    powerful things I’ve ever experienced. It’s totally
    different from standard sex, and I see it as a whole
    new world opening up for me to enjoy and explore.

    So, whilst I would certainly love to have some vanilla sex
    with Mistress T ( I should be so lucky !!! ), I’d currently
    prefer to have her treat me as just some plaything. Using,
    abusing and corrupting me to her hearts content.

    I think anyone who’s ever looked into the astonishing
    eyes of Mistress T, has no doubt exactly who the Boss is ….

    Simon

  3. Dear Mistress T,

    I follow your blog always with interest, and this especially sexy entry struck a real chord with me. The title definitely does not appear strange to me!

    This is because I am, proudly, one of those very males you write about. I cannot speak for the others who are joyful NOT to fuck you but, in my case, I consistently experience a true ecstasy (not to mention permanent and intense arousal) as one who is so very, very happy, so thrilled and fortunate to be totally subjugated and controlled sexually by my Goddess Owner and, in particular, denied penetration.

    Our exploration of FemDom has led us, in our opinion so very logically, to a sex life that is entirely focused on Her sexual pleasure through my total sexual enslavement. This has been the case for some years, and will simply never change. It is pivotal to our FemDom relationship and we believe in it passionately.

    Strict orgasm control, denial, chastity, zero penetration and cuckolding by “superior” dildoes, Her Magic Wand, and also with other women, combine to render me wonderfully helpless and desperate to serve Her sexually (and more generally too, I stress), particularly Her glorious and beautiful, sexy Pussy. We readily describe me as Her sex and Pussy slave, Her toy/object used and/or ignored/discarded according solely to Her wishes, in many ways a sexually redundant male. Incidentally, and I am not motivated by my male ego in saying this, that redundant status has nothing to do with cock size.

    You mention the power you feel. That is exactly the case for Goddess. When She permits me to cum, always under Her supervision, She often tells me of Her elation knowing that only She decides. My sexual subjugation and deep, but controlled/regulated desire for Her have empowered Her immensely and greatly increased Her confidence. Her orgasms have never been so numerous and mighty. Her frequent squirting is a joy for both of us.

    For me, my deep need to submit to and serve Goddess is satiated, yet kept bubbling away constantly and frustratingly (yet irresistibly!), by the wonderful paradox of desperately craving Her Pussy and having it kept out of my reach. A joyful turmoil!

    May I wind up by stating that we are an extremely loving and close couple (albeit a very kinky one indeed!) with no secrets for each other, together many years. We have considerable experience of sessioning, in person and by telephone/webcam, with professional Mistresses, when I am a piece of joint property used/tormented for the enjoyment of both Women. I do hope you don’t object to me saying, very respectfully, that the thought of being shared with you, Mistress T, is an extremely exciting one!

    Thank you for your article, which gave me the opportunity to express myself about my beloved Goddess and I, and our version of FemDom.

    Respectfully and sincerely,

    bootslavewilliam

    .

  4. P.S. The “So close yet so far…” picture is really lovely and very, very sexy.

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