I have two completely different blog topics but I’m rolling them into one. What the heck.
#1 (Business). Announcing my upcoming trip to Tampa.
#2 (Personal). Sharing a really sweet message from a friend.
So, #1: TAMPA. I’ll be there for FetCon mid August.
Film slaves are welcome to apply with appropriate pics (nude torso) & a list of activities you’ll do on film. I won’t have much time & I’ll be screening VERY carefully so don’t waste my time & yours. Only apply if you really have something of value to offer & you are dead fucking serious about following thru.
Custom vid requests with me & other ladies attending FetCon are welcome.
I recently asked a friend who owed me a favor to help me with updating my Kinkbomb studio. It’s a small thing but one less thing for me to do which is helpful. She’s a personal friend & only knew a little bit about what I do for work. She sent me this random message today, which to tell you the truth actually brought tears to my eyes. I just wanted to share it:
Here is your unsolicited compliment of the day: I just have to say. I know it is interfering with your relationship finding, and I know you are worried about your future, but from what little I can see through the kinkbomb stuff I’ve been doing (quantity & variety; creativity; quality (as I gather through the previews), it blows my mind that you are running this business on your own.
A) For godsake I’m SURE there has to be a guy out there who feels the same way that I do. I know guys are stupid, but seriously…it doesn’t take long (or 2 university degrees) to figure out that YOU aren’t MistressT, nor does it take long to figure out how brilliantly you run your business…surely that is going to be attractive?? Geez I don’t understand men…. and,
B) You have so many transferable skills that you will be able to use. I am not sure I know anyone else who could do what you do from a BUSINESS perspective. To be able to combine incredible creativity, knowledge of what crazy shit people want, courage to deliver, knowledge of how to film AND edit (as I said, from the previews, your videos are pretty fucking high quality), marketing, and all by yourself. Mind-blowing. Maybe you will attract a different following as you get older, and still love your job and want to continue it. Maybe not. But either way, I can’t see you being anything other than extremely successful. I’d pay you for marketing & business advice any day. You have so much to offer aside from what you do on camera.
I’m sure what I’ve seen has just scratched the surface, but I’m blown away. That’s my 2 bits. Or 3 bits. If you wanted abuse, I guess you went to the wrong desk (Monty Python Reference)
Pretty sweet, eh? Love my friends. I feel very blessed…or whatever you feel when you don’t believe in God or angels. Lucky? Yeah, we’ll go with that:-)
Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
Your friend put it in an excellent way. I can only adhere 100% to what she says.
“I know you are worried about your future…nor does it take long to figure out how brilliantly you run your business…surely that is going to be attractive??”
Definitely is an attractive quality, or at least for this man…but did a little bit of information leak out here?
Are you feeling a little insecure right now and maybe worried that your career will ultimately mark you down for a singular and solitary life?
Those following my blog closely already know that my work creates challenges for potential relationships. That’s just a fact.
Do I really think I’m going to die alone surrounded by strap-ons & slutty shoes? That almost sounds as melodramatic as what you wrote!
What you are trying to read between the lines there is pretty obvious every day stuff: I discuss my relationship challenges with my friend.
I may be ‘single’ but I am far from solitary. I have amazing friends & no shortage of delightful lovers to keep me in good company until a possible really ‘significant other’ comes along.
Don’t worry about me:-)
Say MsT YOU CAN ALWAYS DATE OR FIND LOVE WITH SOME OF YOUR LOVERS OR JUST DATE PEOPLE THAT ARE IN THE BUSINESS.
Glad to hear it, Mistress.
Mind you, if I get to have a a say in the time and place my own demise, I can think of worse options than going out against a backdrop of, erm, slutty shoes and provocative underwear…
Wish we could make it down to FL to see you!
Ok. Now that picture looks interesting. That much of been hot as heck if in Tampa Florida. Wish they had things like that here in NJ.
The letter from your friend was nice.
I would have to concur with your friend though I don’t personally know you obviously. Just from a beauty and obviously creative bent you should be a catch for any like minded guy. You must live in San Francisco or something. Cause the hetero ratios must be damaged where you live, or guys actually don’t like women that far above their station. Wouldn’t be an issue for me. But then I have a thing for red heads. 🙂 Particularly ones that can pretend to be Mistress T for a couple of hours some evenings.
I live in Vancouver, Canada.
Are you saying that you hire red-headed escorts to pretend to be me for the evening? Just taking a guess from your somewhat cryptic comment…?
You know my hair is dirty blonde, not red, right?
Anyway, your heart is in the right place so thanks for your comment:-)
Hmmm sorry about that your hair has a reddish tinge to it on my computer. Just assumed you were Irish. Guess it is time to get a new laptop. I was merely indicating poorly and while sleep deprived that all the guys I know love a smart devilish woman who is self confident in the bedroom, as well as outside it. Sometimes I gues it is better to say nothing then try and fail to be clever. I hope you find whatever it is in life you are looking for.
Thank you…& me too:-)