Who made this mess?
….& who is going to clean it up???
Do you ever wonder who gets to be with me? Like really gets to be with me in the most intimate ways?
A few years ago I was fairly public about being single & looking but I wasn’t as vocal about my relationship when one did develop. Trying to balance some kind of private life with my public persona can be tricky. Part of me wants to keep some things just for myself & part of me wants y’all to know a lot about me to reduce the objectification of adult performers & sex workers. Like me shouting: “Hey, look at me! I’m a regular person like everyone else. I just have an unusual job. I grocery shop, I binge watch Netflix, I have complex relationships with family & friends, I’ve been in love, had my heart broken, I’ve made mistakes & hurt people I cared about, I wear flannel pj’s, I have opinions…I am a human, not just a sex doll with a pulse!”
Which brings me to this post…about my partner, which I know many of you are curious about. The reason I do it now is because I believe that he could actually help some of you. I’ll explain.
As you can well imagine, I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. Is it hard to be in a relationship with a “Dominatrix” or “Porn Star”? Sure, for some guys, however, my partner is the most emotionally mature man I’ve ever met. There is no power dynamic in our relationship. Neither is Dominant. We are equals. It’s the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in.
He’s a high level communicator, intuitive, intelligent, empathetic, open-minded & sexually skilled. He’s self assured because he brings qualities to a relationship that are lacking in many men. How do most men learn to find & build a healthy relationship? How do most men learn to be better partners & lovers? Although the education exists it isn’t mainstream & I’ll tell you, unfortunately the majority of men aren’t skilled lovers or good partners. That’s just the harsh truth.
Over the years I’ve had requests from fans who wanted to serve my lovers or boyfriends. He’s been dabbling in that, chatting with & doing cam with a few of my fans. He’s rather good at it & enjoys it. It’s become a fun little hobby of his & sometimes we go on cam together with my fans which is fun for me too.
Beyond fetish sessions (laughing at my sissy cuckolds & slaves who get off on humiliation, forced bi or Financial Domination) I feel like some fans could benefit from a bit of coaching. This is the guy who ‘got’ ME. The guy who won my heart & sexually satisfies me. He is superior for that reason alone & all my cuckolds should worship him for that…but other guys who just want advice on how to communicate with women in real life, especially the type of women they crave: self-assured, successful, Dominate women. How to start & build a meaningful relationship with that kind of woman. How to please a woman sexually. Sex tips & individualized training on being a better partner & lover. He can do that & the domino effect is some women will be happier with better men. It’s ninja-level FemDom when you think about it: my good man training men to better please other women. I love it!
Sure, a lot of you will just want to go on cam for 10 minutes & jerk off while he laughs at you & tells you that you’re inferior…& it’s hot because he is a superior male who gets to fuck the woman you’ve been jerking off to for years…& it’s hot because he’s a good looking younger bi guy who gets off on the idea of making my cuckolds suck his cock & eat his cum…& yes, he is happy to do that…but he can also do so much more.
Of course ur not gay…but u can’t deny that’s a great ass…
Admit it, u like his ass…ur drawn to it…
…so drawn to it that I bet u’d lick it if I told u to.
Now it’s all u’ll be able to think about…
For example, he can assist with erectile dysfunction & orgasm control…he’s a professional tantra practitioner & works solo or does double sessions with the very talented Olivia Jade (http://oliviajade.net/). Olivia is one of, if not the most highly regarded certified tantra practitioner in Canada. She helps a lot of men with ED & premature ejaculation, among other things. I highly recommend her services as well.
So, if you want to ‘serve my man’ (via skype cam or messenger/email ) in the usual dirty ways: cuckolding, forced bi, humiliation, jerk off instruction, cum eating instruction, etc. & you’re in a position to be generous, reach out to me & I’ll coordinate it. We can both be involved or you can serve just him. Or, if you think you could benefit from chatting with an evolved man who in my experienced opinion is an expert at having a healthy relationship AND is also highly sexually skilled…send me a note:
MsT@MistressT.net
As I mentioned, this is just a fun little hobby for him & his time is limited so he will give his attention to those who are the most generous & enjoyable to deal with. This is a rare & valuable opportunity so conduct yourself accordingly. That means:
- communicate clearly about what you’re hoping for/wanting/what you’re into
- be ready & able to tribute to show you’re serious
- be respectful & reliable
Those things go for me as well!
You only live once!
Mistress T
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Dear Mistress T,
He sounds amazing, fabulous blog post as always, I’m so glad that you have someone who ticks all your boxes for you and presumably you for him, something I’d like to think that we’d all be keen to aspire to in our relationships. So here is to both of you, wishing you a fabulous 2017 and continuing fortieth year.
As an aside your joyful reaction to your present from Mistress Sidonia inspired me to commission one of Sardax’s amazing pictures for my Mistress this Christmas, by all accounts I chose well, so thank you so much for the inspiration.
Lots of love and very best wishes
Jo xxxxx
Any cock upon which you have bestowed the supreme privilege of being taken inside you you deserves to be worshipped in all its magnificence for what it has achieved.
Dear Mistress T, I would beyond love to serve both you and your man if I could at the time. Forced bi is actually one of my fantasies I would like to experience for real. Though I dont know if i’d be that good because I’m 22 and my experience is probably nothing compared to you and your man. But still if I get the means to, I’d love to serve you two some day. 🙂
Thank you, as always, for your awesome blog posts. I always enjoy reading them. 😀
-Dustin