Savage Love’s column today inspired me to blog: http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=16951589
I was very interested in the 1st piece about cuckolding. In a nut shell: a wife complaining about her husbands obsession with wanting her to fuck other men & cuckold him. She wasn’t interested. Fair enough.
It’s unfortunate that there are so many mismatched couples. There are supposedly monogamous relationships where one or both are cheating behind the others back. There’s are also people who wish their spouse would sleep with other people but the spouse isn’t interested in anyone but them. In my profession I often speak with men who wish their wives would sleep with other men…often these are men who are seeing me behind their wives back. Either they want to be cuckolded or they just think it would be hot to see their sexy wife getting fucked by another guy.
I have been fascinated with non-monogamy for as long as I can remember. My first boyfriend lied about NOT being a virgin & the thought of him being with another girl turned me on. (I later discovered that I was his first). Sure, I’ve had my moments of jealousy but I have more often been turned on by the thought of my lovers being with others. I like to hear about it & use my imagination, but sometimes I like to watch too.
When I discovered cuckolding I took to it like a duck to water. It combined several of my personal kinks. I enjoy creating cuckolding vids & delving into this fetish deeper & deeper.
Is that a close enough look cuck?
The next natural step is for me to be with a black man. This is a very powerful image for many, many cuckolds. The black stallion ravaging a white lady. For many the black male represents the ultimate in virility. Men of African descent are known to (often) have larger cocks than men of other ethnicity. I could go on & on but at the end of the day if the idea & visual of interracial cuckolding turns you on that’s all that matters.
I will mention, as a matter of interest, that I have received a little racist hate mail regarding my interracial vids. For all I know it could just be one guy as it sounds basically the same. I find it somewhat amusing to hear a hater say that I’m lowering myself by having sex with a black man. The only black man I’ve had sex with in my vids is of higher pedigree than most. He was raised upper-middle class, is well-educated & works hard in white collar job. He takes very good care of his health (you can see that by looking at him) & he’s a very sweet guy with a positive attitude. He’s not a thug, gangster, drug dealer, pimp, criminal, low life, etc. He joined me in Vegas in January & attended numerous social engagements with me. I was proud to have a well dressed & well mannered nice guy on my arm. He was well-liked. He is black. That might make him a sex symbol in some circles but this is for certain: being black doesn’t make him less than any of you. In fact, because I have decided he’s worthy of fucking me you all should bow down to him.
Haters are gonna hate though…& racists are going to continue to be ignorant.
If you want to be a cuckold (filmed or private) the black bull is visiting me in Vancouver this month! Email: MsT@MistressT.net
Feel free to add a comment but I will not allow racist comments on my blog so don’t bother typing them out. No one wants to hear it.
Best,
Mistress T
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As they say: Once you go black you never go back!
Screw the haters! (Not literally. – Literally screw whomever you want!)
well written Mistress. one of the best videos of your is cuckolding. you did remarkable clips (ans still doing) in this area. and i still remember your incredible scene at kink.com when you, in my opinion it was the hottest cuckolding scene on their site ever!!
I think cuckolding is very important part of female domination, and i think lots of Dommes don’t go there because of haters. they are afraid to loose their “imagine” where the domme doesn’t get fucked, she only fucks her subs. this rises a red flag! the dommes actually are forced not to have sex and forced not to have sex with black men. I think that’s not acceptable at all.
i remember a similar hating wave hit Mistress Sarah Blake for cuckolding clips but she beats them. lately i see this Taboo is getting destroyed by other dommes too which is a good thing.
finally you said “In fact, because I have decided he’s worthy of fucking me you all should bow down to him.”
I really feel that way and i don’t joke when i say i would literary bow down to him.
Racists are just insecure and feel threatened by Black men. A fit, well endowed Black men and a beautiful white woman are an undeniably sexy combination. Fortunately, many white boys, like me, have gotten past their insecurities and derive intense satisfaction from it. And I suspect that, deep down, many of the racists like it, too!
Interracial is great but there need to be more men of all races represented. For to long white men have been put on a sex pedestal. I would love to see you with other different races in sexual act. Are you open minded to that?
Your last picture reminds me of why I enjoy your blog.
I came for the porn, but I stay for the humour. 🙂
Mistress T,
The lure of cuckoldry. Being ‘held’ by a Woman who is utterly free to consort with whomever She wishes. She flaunts Her freedom by exercising in front of her ‘male’.
A cuck is distanced and may participate with the Woman only by being subject to the what the Woman and Bull do. The cuck may be utterly sissified or just held in abeyance, may grow to crave cock, drink semen from Woman drips or from cleaning the Bull.
The racial element seems tied to two things: 1) the reputation Black men have for sporting a very large dong; and 2) the old-over racial taboo — the stranger the Woman’s new ‘mate’, the more ‘shameful’ the loss to the cuck.
Black men I know are particular nice and have no more tendency to sexual gaming than anyone else. Black is beautiful, so why not a beautiful Black Bull?
A Woman who ‘betrays’, however, is most shocking when She’s truly vagabond about it.
And She makes me hungry.
You understand this.
mysster
The whole thing revolves around, “She wasn’t interested. Fair enough.”
For that women/wife her needs involved depth and someone else would be someone in the way. Is that because she is “brainwashed” … the solution being “try it you’ll like it”. In some cases, but the thing is, to open the pair brings complication and risk … can one really know what ones feelings will be in advance … so, it brings apprehension.
Overall, if you really want to be a cuckold, I think, then you must go the very long way around and seduce your wive with pleasure, and gradually to porn for woman, and discussions about things you are bound to run into … also, take her where she can be seen, admired, excited by other men.