My 1st VLOG

Here’s my 1st VLOG thingy. I chat casually about a few different things…including some behind the scenes stuff about filming with Shane Diesel, other vids, my personal life & some sex tips.

Let me know if you want more & what you would like me to VLOG about. I prefer you comment here on my blog…you can also use twitter or send me a brief email: MsT@MistressT.net

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Best,
Mistress T

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The LA Trip Recap!

I’m back from LA & I’m packing stories…oh, the stories!

I know a lot of you want to know how the Shane Diesel shoot went so I’ll cover that but it was only part of an action packed 5 day trip. I’ll start at the beginning…

A couple of years ago while staying at The Standard hotel in LA I randomly met a fan. He ended up driving me the next day to meet Glen King from MeanBitches to discuss us working together (I later returned & filmed with Glen’s FemDom site: MeanDungeon.com)

We’ll call him Slave Standard because of the way we met. We kept in touch over the last couple of years & he was happy to chauffeur me around this trip. He picked my girlfriend & I up from the airport & took us for lunch. I got him to tell my girlfriend about his fetishes & his real life D/s relationship with his wife. As it turns out, they are both big fans of my site & he was serving me with her full blessing.

We then went to The FemDom Empire to film a couple scenes with my beloved Deviant Kade. He’s one of the best, if not THE best ‘son’ I’ve filmed with for my family fantasy scenes. Both Slave Standard & my gal pal got a kick out of watching me fuck Kade in the ass with a strap-on & then jerk him off in a twisted Mommy/son role play scene.

Deviant Kade & I horsing around after filming. I'm sure he deserved a spanking for SOMETHING.

Deviant Kade & I horsing around after filming. I’m sure he deserved a spanking for SOMETHING.

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Deviant Kade taking my big black dick…

After a stop at Whole Foods to stock up on snacks we were delivered to our hotel where my girlfriend & I relaxed for the evening in the jacuzzi & room. I barely slept that night, excited & nervous about my shoot with Shane Diesel in the morning.

The shoot went great. Shane is very sweet, respectful & a joy to be around. If you’re familiar with his films you may have a different idea of what he’s like in person. I was delighted to learn he loves feet, legs & licking pussy & ass. He was eager to worship me & do whatever I wanted. You’ll have to watch the vid for all the graphic stuff but I’ll put a couple teaser pics here. Yes, we did actually fuck. Yes, I did really take that huge cock, it wasn’t easy but he was gentle & skilled. That feeling of fullness is really something to behold, lemme tell ya.

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Shane Diesel’s monster cock…my little mouth…

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Shane Diesel was very fun to play with…

Moving right along…that evening my gal pal & I went for dinner with Slave Standard & his lovely wife who I made fast friends with. Domina Snow also happened to be in town so she joined us, which was awesome! After dinner Slave Standard drove my girlfriend & I to the house of a boy she had been communicating with online.

We arrived at a peculiar mansion, a real life goth-ish haunted house. Everything was black & the light from the candles & chandeliers was dim. You had to squint to make out the detail of the place. It was very high end, everything was designer or an object d’ art…but it was all black. The boy himself was covered in tattoo’s & wore heavy black eye liner. As it turned out he was a fairly famous & talented musician, artist & tattooist. I didn’t know who he was because his genre of music isn’t to my taste but he had evidently done very well for himself. His unusual home was opulent, once your eyes adjusted. I felt it was rude to take pics of his home & I knew a photograph couldn’t capture the real feeling of an all black interior but I did snap two pics, one of a taxidermy baboon & one in his bathroom which actually had a bit of light.

The house was full of crazy, cool stuff like this stuffed baboon!

The house was full of crazy, cool stuff like this stuffed baboon!

Atmospheric...beautiful & slightly creepy might describe the decor...

Atmospheric…beautiful & slightly creepy might describe the decor…

So we hung out with this interesting boy, we soaked in his gorgeous (black) jacuzzi & when things started to get intimate we moved to the bedroom…which was, yup, you guessed it: black. A huge room with ornate Victorian furniture, gorgeous artwork, a kind size bed with black satin sheets, mood lighting…he went down on my girlfriend while she rested her head on my lap…after she climaxed he said it was my turn.

*Pause* If you’re keeping track of things here you’ll note that I had been with Shane Diesel this same day. There was no fucking way anyone was going near my pussy which was fine, but had simply seen enough action for one damn day. My girlfriend knew this & we gracefully maneuvered him into a position where she could suck his cock (which she loves to do) while I kissed him (which I love to do). He came that way & we cuddled for awhile on the bed, the three of us in this surreal room. It was memorable.

We then watched the movie “300” on his giant 15 foot movie screen in his bedroom (it was starkly white when not being used!).

The next day Slave Standard’s wife took us for lunch & shopping while Slave Standard was left home to do chores & tasked (by his wicked wife!) to watch my vids every two hours & edge himself but not cum. She dropped us at Knott’s Scary Farm (Halloween theme park, haunted houses, etc.)

Me with one of the monsters who runs around the park scaring people. I wasn't scared:-)

Me with one of the monsters who runs around the park scaring people. I wasn’t scared:-)

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Me in one of the haunted houses at Knott’s Scary Farm.

My girlfriend had to go back to Vancouver early Sunday morning. I spent all day Sunday at the happiest place on earth: Disney! with awesome company. Domina Snow joined me & season pass holders: Slave Standard & his lovely wife. The four of us had a wonderful day packed full of fun. I loved the rides & especially the ‘World of Color’ show at night. It was kind of like the Bellagio water show in Vegas but with way more lights & fire. It was breath taking.

Domina Snow & I in front of the castle at Disney.

Domina Snow & I in front of the castle at Disney.

Alexandra Snow & I got matching glow in the dark sweat shirts! Dorks, eh? lol

Alexandra Snow & I got matching glow in the dark sweat shirts! Dorks, eh? lol

World of Color show at Disney. SO beautiful. I loved it.

World of Color show at Disney. SO beautiful. I loved it.

It was with sadness that I said farewell to Alexandra Snow who I’ve had the pleasure of seeing quite often the last few months. She really is lovely.

Slave Standard & his fantastic wife dropped me at The FemDom Empire. Another sad farewell to wonderful people who truly made my trip so special. Cherished new friends.

The next day was a fun day of filming with great people. Lexi Sindel, as always, one of my favorite producers to work with & a damn cool chick…Slave Wade who is always so helpful…super cute Ash Wednesday behind the camera…& Wolf Hudson who I was delighted to see again after an epic experience filming with him at Kink.com a couple years ago.

We filmed some scenes for my site/clips store & some for The FemDom Empire. You can find past & future scenes I filmed for The FemDom Empire on their members site:

http://www.femdomempire.com/preview/sets.php?id=14

Or clips store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/8341

You can follow Lexi on twitter: https://twitter.com/LexiSindel

Here’s some snaps from the day:

Lexi Sindel, Wolf Hudson & me.

Lexi Sindel, Wolf Hudson & me.

I just adore Wolf Hudson's positive energy. Great guy.

I just adore Wolf Hudson’s positive energy. Great guy.

If you can't tell, I love fucking Wolf Hudson. This turned out to be an epic FemDom cuckolding scene.

If you can’t tell, I love fucking Wolf Hudson. This turned out to be an epic FemDom cuckolding scene.

Poor Slave Wade....so hard to hold off cumming with Lexi's & my feet taunting him...

Poor Slave Wade….so hard to hold off cumming with Lexi’s & my feet taunting him…

My last night I managed to squeeze in one last unexpected visit with Alexandra Snow. Sitting at dinner with Lexi & Alexandra talking shop & life I felt lucky to be me. Knowing these women: strong, smart business woman, enriches my life.

I flew home the next morning & was picked up from the airport by my pal Samantha Mack, had dinner later with my best friend & then spent the night with my boy toy. It’s a good life….a very good life.

Best,
Mistress T

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Paying for sex…

This post is all about ME paying for sex (not men paying me to have sex with them).

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I’ve long had a fascination of paying for sex. It felt dirty & exciting. In my early 20’s I had a very handsome boyfriend who would play along with one of my fantasies. I liked to imagine that I was a very wealthy woman who attended a high society party where the individuals who were ‘for rent’ sexually wore a certain flower. You could arrange to have the person of your choice join you in your room during or after the party to service your intimate needs.

During sex I would have my boyfriend act professional, polite & service oriented. I would have him say: “Is that the way you like it Ma’am?”

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I have had a variety of occasions to pay for sexual services from both males & females for myself & partners. A Lithuanian prostitute in the red light district in Amsterdam. A high end prostitute in Mendoza, Argentina & a lower end gal in a brothel in Buenos Aires. (In Amsterdam & Argentina I paid for prostitutes to fuck men while I watched.) I’ve paid male service providers for massages with hand releases for myself (rub n’ tug). Etc.

As some of you know, I have filmed almost exclusively with volunteers, fans & personal lovers. I have never paid male talent for my site but I have had the pleasure of working with them for other production companies. I felt that when it came to submissive men it just went against the authenticity to pay them. I’ve received some back lash for that but the show has gone on….I have done just fine with this business model…but then I decided to try something new.

It occurred to me that I am in the position to fuck the men who are the porn Gods of the day. The men that most men want to be. The men that most women want to fuck. I am not just a porn performer who has to fuck who ever the producer tells me to fuck, I am also the producer, in full control of everything & I can fuck whoever I choose.

It was an amazingly powerful feeling when it dawned on me that all I have to do is contact whoever I wanted to fuck & just set up a paid shoot. I get what I want PLUS it’s for business so I’ll make that money back.

With that sense of power coursing through me I thought: “If I could fuck ANY man, who would it be?” Shane Diesel, the biggest black cock in porn, a true professional with a great reputation. Now that’s going to happen. This week!

In a conversation with another female porn producer she told me that she likes paying male talent because then she knows she’s going to get exactly what she wants. Now that’s FemDom.

So it’s with great excitement & a bit of nervousness that I prepare for this occasion. I bought really good lube today, for example. I also had to decide whether to do the scene with him just POV (just the 2 of us) or with a cuckold. Having a cuckold in the scene is always a gamble. The energy between 3 people doesn’t always work. My priority is to have great sex with Shane. This is for me. I’m going to need to be relaxed & comfortable to take that huge cock safely. Dealing with another guy might be distracting. So even though the vid might sell a little better with a cuckold I decided to make all of you my cuckold. As you watch the vid you can imagine you are right there, seeing what you can’t give me.

So I’m paying for sex really & I’m very okay with that. I admit that I like the idea of it being a guys job to fuck me properly. In my head I will likely be playing out fantasies of being a high society lady who pays for sexual services and/or the owner of a plantation (you know where I’m heading with that one.)

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To add to the hotness my current boy toy is really into cuckolding & black bulls. He won’t be accompanying me this time but it’s is hot knowing there is an authentic cuckold I’m close with these days who is very horny about me fucking a black porn star he’s idolized for years. It’s refreshing to be involved with a guy who loves & supports all the kinky stuff I’m into.

So, wish me luck! xo

Best,
Mistress T

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
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