The FemDomme Uniform

How do you recognize a truly Dominant woman?

The ultimate Pro Domme accessory is a slave.

The ultimate Pro Domme accessory is a slave.

Many imagine a woman wearing leather or latex, maybe a corset, certainly severe high heeled boots or shoes. Maybe stockings & garters, leather or latex gloves, red lipstick & holding a whip. This is the cliche image of a Dominatrix.

My favorite Domme outfit.

My favorite Domme outfit.

Some in the traditional ‘scene’ feel that a real Dominatrix doesn’t get naked. The many Financial Dommes (Fin Dommes) have taken their own twist on that. They never get naked but they will tease in tiny bikini’s or lingerie, slutty dresses, jeans, etc. but rarely in BDSM fetish attire.

Boss of the year?

Boss of the year?

Being Dominant is about being in control, so some men feel a powerful business suit puts the woman in the drivers seat. On International Women’s Day it’s interesting to note that when it comes to politics, owning or running large corporations or holding senior management positions…the vast majority of the decision makers of the world are still male. Isn’t it a shame that men don’t have more Sarah Palin’s to jerk off to? (That’s sarcasm folks.)

You'll never look at flannel pj's the same way again.

You’ll never look at flannel pj’s the same way again.

Since before anyone gave me permission I’ve been plying my craft in casual attire, domestic clothing, naked…& recently, in my pj’s. This may seem extreme to some but the reality is that many of my fans are more interested in ME than my attire. The majority of guys who want to connect with me on web cam want to talk to me like a real person. They don’t want me to put on a show…which is fortunate because I’m not interested in that either. I perform for the camera when I make vids and I love it, but when it comes to one-on-one connections I prefer to actually have a personal connection.

A lot of guys fantasize about serving me in real life. Well, ya know what? I don’t hang around my home in latex & high heeled boots. My downstairs neighbor is grateful that I wear comfy socks instead.

Need all the bell's & whistles?

Need all the bell’s & whistles?

I understand for some guys their fetish is the clothing. They need that traditional Dominatrix outfit to get off. That’s fair & that’s why I go for that look sometimes too. It feels good to get all sexed up & know it makes a man’s knees weak…but if you think that I’m any less Dominant or in control in flannel pj’s, think again.

So, how do you recognize a Dominant woman? The only answer is within you. Does she make you feel submissive?

Best,
Mistress T

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
PPV: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869
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Ask random questions, get random answers.

At this moment I have no idea what this blog post is going to be about. I felt a desire to write one today but wasn’t sure what to write about.

Will chewing this pen help the juices to flow? CREATIVE juices, you fucking pervert.

Will chewing this pen help the juices to flow? CREATIVE juices, you fucking pervert.

Looking for inspiration I tweeted to my 20K twitter followers:

Mistress T@MistressTdotnet 4h

Throwing it out there: got a request for a blog topic?: tweet me. Ask me a question, ask me2discuss a topic/fetish, etc. No promises:-)

Out of 20K followers I got only a few responses, which I wasn’t terribly surprised with. My fans tend to be a quiet bunch. Silently enjoying my vids or pics. Saying little, providing very little feedback, often leaving me feeling like I’m on stage performing with bright lights in my face, unable to tell if there’s an audience there or not. Of course, the vids continue to sell, so I know you’re out there. Jerking off, loving me. Your wallets give you away.

steven” tweeted:

global warming,mascot sex,geopolitics…..cuckolding…candy crush…clown sex….men who like …….? sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?

Okay Steven, why not? Here we go:

Global warming: beyond saying that it’s real & we should all do our part for the environment (recycle, turn the lights off, walk instead of drive when you can, etc.) I have a feeling my fans don’t come here for those topics. See ‘google’ for more info.

Mascot sex: keen followers know by now that I have a thing for ‘furries’. I first got turned on by this when a gal banged her boyfriend while he was wearing a big mascot costume kind of thing in the movie “The Sweetest Thing”.

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSz3HBPxz2U&noredirect=1

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Mistress T with furry in Vegas Jan 2014.

I love furries!

Geopolitics: yeah, not gonna lie I had to look that one up, it’s the study of the effects of geography (both human and physical) on international politics and international relations.

At this moment I can feel the collective groan from those who were really hoping to find some jerk off material in my blog today. Don’t blame me, blame Steven.

Cuckolding: you guys can’t get enough of this topic, eh? Here’s a funny story. The other day I was doing a web cam session with a guy who said he was into cuckolding. So I started telling him to pretend it was our wedding night & instead of fucking him I’ve fucked his best man…I noticed that his dick was going limp so I asked if there was something wrong. He told me that he was into being my cuckold but for some reason the idea of being married to me didn’t turn him on. *zing* I laughed SO hard.

So you'll suck his cock & eat his cum out of my pussy, but you won't MARRY ME? Worthless cuckold...

So you’ll suck his cock & eat his cum out of my pussy, but you won’t MARRY ME? Worthless cuckold…

Candy crush: sorry Steven. I’m not sure what this is. I googled it & I think it’s a game? Whatever.

Clown Sex: I think this would be a great way for people with a fear of clowns to get over their fear. Or maybe not? I guess it depends on if the clown is any good in the sack. (Try http://www.sugarweasel.com/)

Sugar Weasel, the clown escort! http://www.sugarweasel.com/

Sugar Weasel, the clown escort! http://www.sugarweasel.com/

Men who like……?: You left this one pretty vague Steven. Unfortunately for you I’m now tiring of writing this damn blog entry so I’m not even going to attempt anything witty.

What Steven...WHAT?

What Steven…WHAT?

Sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?: I’m sensing you’re not enthusiastic about fucking your wife Steven? Is the magic gone? This question reveals a lot about you. Unfortunately for you, I’m not a marriage counselor. I just play one in porn films, and in those cases I’m pretty sure I cause more problems then I solve. I’ll take a swing at it though:

Marriage is about a lot more than sex. It’s about sharing a life, intimacy (non-sexual), friendship, companionship, etc. If you love your wife but feel a driving need for sexual satisfaction that you just can’t find at home…fuck an escort or see a Dominatrix (depending on what you’re looking for). Practice the safest sex you can & cover your tracks to save your wife embarrassment.

You’re welcome.

Don't let your wife catch you! (A public service announcement from the NRA)

Don’t let your wife catch you! (A public service announcement from the NRA)

Best,
Mistress T

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
PPV: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869
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The Cupcake Girls

The Cupcake Girls suite in Vegas 2014.

Meggerz & I enjoying cupcakes after our massage.

On my recent trip to Las Vegas I received an enticing twitter invite from ‘The Cupcake Girls’ to come to a VIP suite at The Hardrock hotel & eat cupcakes & enjoy a variety of services for FREE. They had me at cupcakes…but there were also professionals available to do massage, hair, make-up, nails, etc.

I figured there must be a catch, but no! I even offered tips to the women who massaged me & did my make up, but they refused. It was a completely free service. WHY?

Here’s what their website says:

“For womeThe Cupcake Girlsn working in the adult entertainment industry, non-judgmental support, consistent caring, and community resources are seldom, if ever, provided. In 2009, after a trip to Las Vegas opened our eyes to the needs of these women, we started knocking on doors of strip clubs with little more to offer than love and a box of cupcakes. Much to our surprise and delight we were not only invited in, we were invited back, and today we offer our unique brand of caring and support to women working in strip clubs in Las Vegas and Portland, and brothels in Nevada.”

So, this is an organization that supports women in the adult industry. Very cool.

Meggerz & I went twice during the week & enjoyed amazing, professional massages & professional make up application. We ate (they had lots of food, not just yummy cupcakes!) & chatted with interesting women. We were even given grab bags at the end with free Mac make-up & other great stuff!

Mistress T at The Cupcake Girls Suite.

Feeling pretty relaxed & happy after my massage!

So here’s a shout out to an organization that is doing great stuff:

Find them on Twitter: https://twitter.com/CupcakeGirlsLV

Their website: http://www.thecupcakegirls.org/about/

Best,
Mistress T

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
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Stalkers, crazy guys, cattiness & drama-making competitors are a part of this business. Most women in the industry have at least a couple stories of guys or girls causing unnecessary stress in one way or another. I’ve considered myself lucky to have gotten away relatively unscathed. In fact, I have enjoyed an overwhelming amount of support from my peers in the industry & guys have been harmless.

Until today.

It came to my attention that someone is specifically trying to cause problems for me. I won’t go into detail as this blog post is directed to that person & they already know what they’re doing. I know that 99% of you will want to know what’s going on but please understand that I’m hoping this is behind me quickly & I don’t want to ‘feed’ it by giving it more attention than is required. I will say that there is no known threat to my physical safety or property.

To the person who is trying to cause trouble: you are wasting time & energy you could be putting toward something more positive. You only have one life, do you really want it to be about trying to bring someone else grief?

You’re also wasting your time with me. I have been a resourceful and highly adaptable survivor my whole life. Whatever the worst possible thing is you think you could do to me would still be easy for me to overcome. I am a lot more than Mistress T. Before I was Mistress T I had a whole other successful life. As Mistress T I have a variety of revenue streams. I can change focus without skipping a beat. If the day comes that I decide to retire Mistress T I will still have plenty of options. I have been strategic & planned for pretty much any possibility.

You may not have covered your tracks as well as you think but I would let it go at this point if it ends now. Karma is a bitch & you get from life what you give. The hippie in me really believes that. So, take the high road. You have to look at yourself in the mirror.

Best,
Mistress T

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The Hangover Heaven Experience!

Click to watch the vid!

Click to watch the vid!

Click pic to view vid or click this link: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/hangover-heaven-vlog-jan-2014

My recent trip to Vegas as was so eventful I’ll have several blog posts to cover all the action. I’m starting with the end, for no particular reason.

My last morning in Vegas I filmed this vid of myself & Meggerz trying out the Hangover Heaven service. They come to your hotel room (if you want) & give you an IV drip of fluids to hydrate you & get you back on your feet. We loved it! Check out the vid above & see some of the pics below of the night before to understand why we needed a hangover cure in the morning.

Hangover Heaven’s website: http://www.hangoverheaven.com

Princess Meggerz: http://meggerz.com

Meggerz & I getting cured of our hangovers via IV drip. Amazing!

Meggerz & I getting cured of our hangovers via IV drip. Amazing!

Our last night in Vegas we were taken out by Kinkbomb. We were actually spoiled rotten by Kinkbomb last week with fancy meals & epic club nights. Here’s my Kinkbomb studio: http://www.kinkbomb.com/

Beachers Madhouse in Vegas

Beachers Madhouse Vegas – Midgets, furries, celebrity look alikes, crazy shows & antics. This place is a hangover producing machine!

Dommes in Vegas during AVN's.

Surrounded by beauty: (Left to right) Kyaa, Ceara, me, Meggerz, Shauna Ryanne (red), Jasmine Mendez (green)

Fantastic ladies I partied with above:

Goddess Kyaa (far left with glasses): http://goddesskyaa.com/

Ceara Lynch (gold top)…check out her blog for more pics from Vegas: http://blog.cearalynch.com/

Princess Meggerz (black top): http://meggerz.com/

Shauna Ryanne (red dress): http://shaunaryanne.weebly.com/

Jasmine Mendez (green dress): http://clips4sale.com/store/54509

Mistress T with furry in Vegas Jan 2014.

I love furries!

Mistress T at Beachers Madhouse in Vegas Jan 2014.

It was furry lovers heaven!

Mistress T with Pee Wee Herman & a sock puppet furry.

Pee Wee Herman, that perv…& a giant sock puppet. Add vodka & shake:-)

Best,
Mistress T

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Welcome to Bitch World Femdom!

Imagine a place where women rule 24/7 & men are there just to serve them. Authentic, sexy as fuck FemDom. Beautiful, powerful, creative women. Goddess’s. Worship-worthy. The stuff of dreams.

This place has all the toys & tools even the most twisted mind could think of. Bondage equipment, fucking machines, milking machines, kinky medical rooms, dark dungeons & cages, chastity devices to fit anyone, implements of pain, pleasure, torment…

You’ve arrived here to be trained, to learn to serve, to fulfill your purpose of being a slave to women. You will entertain them, please them, suffer for their pleasure.

This place exists. It IS real. A place where many before you have been milked, beaten, broken down & used. Now there is video proof. Welcome to Bitch World. Your new reality.

You will carefully observe the scenes as part of your mental conditioning. You will edge yourself, immerse yourself & only cum when given permission. You will visit Bitch World at least daily, if not more frequently, to pick up new training video’s. You will consume the offers like it’s the air you need to breath….because you do need this. You do. That’s why you’re here. Enter Bitch World FemDom: http://clips4sale.com/66613

Watch this introduction by clicking this link or clicking the image: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/preview-welcome-bitch-world

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Best,
Mistress T

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
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Paying for sex…

This post is all about ME paying for sex (not men paying me to have sex with them).

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I’ve long had a fascination of paying for sex. It felt dirty & exciting. In my early 20’s I had a very handsome boyfriend who would play along with one of my fantasies. I liked to imagine that I was a very wealthy woman who attended a high society party where the individuals who were ‘for rent’ sexually wore a certain flower. You could arrange to have the person of your choice join you in your room during or after the party to service your intimate needs.

During sex I would have my boyfriend act professional, polite & service oriented. I would have him say: “Is that the way you like it Ma’am?”

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I have had a variety of occasions to pay for sexual services from both males & females for myself & partners. A Lithuanian prostitute in the red light district in Amsterdam. A high end prostitute in Mendoza, Argentina & a lower end gal in a brothel in Buenos Aires. (In Amsterdam & Argentina I paid for prostitutes to fuck men while I watched.) I’ve paid male service providers for massages with hand releases for myself (rub n’ tug). Etc.

As some of you know, I have filmed almost exclusively with volunteers, fans & personal lovers. I have never paid male talent for my site but I have had the pleasure of working with them for other production companies. I felt that when it came to submissive men it just went against the authenticity to pay them. I’ve received some back lash for that but the show has gone on….I have done just fine with this business model…but then I decided to try something new.

It occurred to me that I am in the position to fuck the men who are the porn Gods of the day. The men that most men want to be. The men that most women want to fuck. I am not just a porn performer who has to fuck who ever the producer tells me to fuck, I am also the producer, in full control of everything & I can fuck whoever I choose.

It was an amazingly powerful feeling when it dawned on me that all I have to do is contact whoever I wanted to fuck & just set up a paid shoot. I get what I want PLUS it’s for business so I’ll make that money back.

With that sense of power coursing through me I thought: “If I could fuck ANY man, who would it be?” Shane Diesel, the biggest black cock in porn, a true professional with a great reputation. Now that’s going to happen. This week!

In a conversation with another female porn producer she told me that she likes paying male talent because then she knows she’s going to get exactly what she wants. Now that’s FemDom.

So it’s with great excitement & a bit of nervousness that I prepare for this occasion. I bought really good lube today, for example. I also had to decide whether to do the scene with him just POV (just the 2 of us) or with a cuckold. Having a cuckold in the scene is always a gamble. The energy between 3 people doesn’t always work. My priority is to have great sex with Shane. This is for me. I’m going to need to be relaxed & comfortable to take that huge cock safely. Dealing with another guy might be distracting. So even though the vid might sell a little better with a cuckold I decided to make all of you my cuckold. As you watch the vid you can imagine you are right there, seeing what you can’t give me.

So I’m paying for sex really & I’m very okay with that. I admit that I like the idea of it being a guys job to fuck me properly. In my head I will likely be playing out fantasies of being a high society lady who pays for sexual services and/or the owner of a plantation (you know where I’m heading with that one.)

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To add to the hotness my current boy toy is really into cuckolding & black bulls. He won’t be accompanying me this time but it’s is hot knowing there is an authentic cuckold I’m close with these days who is very horny about me fucking a black porn star he’s idolized for years. It’s refreshing to be involved with a guy who loves & supports all the kinky stuff I’m into.

So, wish me luck! xo

Best,
Mistress T

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