Adventures in real life cuckolding…

Posted on July 6, 2016 by Mistress T

About 10 days ago I posted that I wanted a real life cuckold that I could also financially Dominate. It seemed like a tall order but that’s never stopped me before.

I checked Craigslist for ads from guys looking for a cuckolding arrangement & responded to a few. Then I placed my own ad looking for a cuckold. I received an avalanche of responses. My inbox was filled with mostly rubbish. Guys who didn’t know what cuckolding was, guys who didn’t read my ad but were just responding to any woman, guys who said they didn’t want to be a cuckold but they’d like to be my bull, a bunch of predictable messages like “hey, wanna hook up tonight” & surprisingly few dick pics. I deleted about 90% of the emails.

Buried in the pile there were a few potentials. As I started narrowing down the applicants an interesting email rolled in from one of the ads I responded to. A rather blown away former slave of mine who had served me about 8 years ago. He happened to be looking for exactly what I was looking for & was amazed at his luck that I had responded to his ad. We’ll call him “NotBored” (because he complained about finding submissive women boring & his difficulties in finding truly Dominant women to hold his interest.)

NotBored met up with us last week for a bite & drinks. We all hit it off so set up another date. This time dinner at an upscale restaurant. Things went really well again & we headed back to my place for a night cap. It felt really comfortable. We were all in sync with what we were looking for in an intimate cuckolding arrangement….but we also got along really well otherwise. It was fun & easy hanging out.

I decided to have a shower to freshen up, then rubbed coconut oil all over myself while my boyfriend sang & played his guitar for us. I loved teasing them both, seeing them squirm as they watched me. We headed to the candlelit bedroom. I told NotBored to sit on a chair beside the bed & watch. He wasn’t allowed to play with himself but he could take pics. I also ordered him to freshen my drink & to bring me water. Small, easy orders to follow but sometimes a little Domination foreplay is nice. My natural style is playfully bossy, seductively teasing with the slightest edge of coldness, an understanding that you don’t want to cross me. My personal slaves rarely test that.

So he watched while my lover & I made love. I teased “NotBored” a little…with what might be in time if he’s a very good boy. I got off on denying him an orgasm.

These are pics he took…you can see what he saw:

It was a wonderful evening & I’m excited for what the future might hold. Hopefully a mutually enjoyable intimate connection, a friendship, sexual adventures & personal growth.

I am continuing my search as I don’t see why I can only have one cuckold, I could have several…but this is also a little “fuck you” to the two, yes TWO applicants who cancelled/chickened out at the last minute & didn’t even meet us. Your cowardice is beyond comprehension. I strive to live my life boldly, fearlessly, completely the opposite of your gutlessness & I’ve been rewarded. To the one who sent the $200 gift card to prove he was serious (but then chickened out anyway): dinner was delicious, thanks at least for that…but wow. I hope this blog post really tortures you with the realization of what you missed out on.

As for the rest of you drooling, envious cuckold hopefuls…if you are in Vancouver or are willing/able to come here on a regular basis (an ongoing relationship is what I’m looking for, not one-off sessions) feel free to apply. I love to feel appreciated & spoiled so you must be in a financial position to be generous. Distance cucks are also welcome to apply…to have a taste at least of something very special…but the arrangement will be different. Very heavy on the Financial Domination part & less interaction from us over skype/email. I prefer to reserve my energy for in-person connections.

Mistress T

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Is Financial Domination contagious?

Posted on June 25, 2016 by Mistress T

In my early days as a Professional Dominatrix before I started doing videos, I received an email from a guy in New York who offered to send me $100 on the spot just to speak with me on the phone for a few minutes. I found that strange & thrilling. I could hardly believe it when he actually sent the money. He was the first one to tell me about Financial Domination & said he was a pay pig. I had never heard of such a thing.

Over the years I’ve met with him several times & he’s spent a lot of money on me. One time he paid $1000 just to have me snowball my boyfriends cum into his mouth! My boyfriend & I literally skipped down the streets of Manhattan after bursting with joyful disbelief at what just happened.

He’s come & gone over the last decade but he’s certainly the most generous & the most authentic ‘pay pig’ I’ve had. I never really felt drawn to Financial Domination otherwise. I’m not materialistic, I’m not greedy & I didn’t have the patience to wade through the mountains of time-wasters most FinDom’s complain about. Maybe it’s my country upbringing & strong work ethic…but the idea of getting paid for nothing holds less appeal than getting paid well for something. No offense to the many amazing FinDom’s out there, some of which are my close friends. I just don’t seem to be wired that way, otherwise I suppose I would have attracted more authentic ‘pay pigs’ along the way.

But…recently I’ve been drawn to the idea of having a generous cuckold. I’m not sure where the idea started but lately I’ve desired a very specific kind of arrangement. A cuckold who I actually like & enjoy spending time with. One that I tease & deny, sometimes playfully. Fun tease & denial, not serious or mean denial. A cuckold who is into both mental and physical Domination.

Very key to my ideal fantasy is that the cuckold very genuinely loves to please me, loves to give me gifts, do nice things for me, pamper me & enhance my life. To be truly worshiped & adored, not just for my body but for my mind.

I’m financially secure. I don’t need a sugar daddy, I don’t need my rent paid & I don’t need to be rescued. I love to feel appreciated though & the right cuckold would be in the financial position to generously express his gratitude for the opportunity to be an important part of my life.

So…am I catching the Financial Domination bug? I have no interest in blackmail, in forcing a guy to pay me, in demanding payment or putting him on a payment schedule. Yet…I find the idea of being spoiled thrilling.

Recently I put a few pairs of new boots on my wish list, not for me, but for my boyfriend. I was absolutely thrilled when two different cuckolds got him new boots! That’s a new twist for me & I like it. So where do we go from here? Well, geography is going to be the biggest challenge followed by financial security. Finding the right cuckold in Vancouver might be tough. I’ll put it out there into the universe & we’ll see what happens *smile*.

Email: MsT@MistressT.net

Mistress T

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The Art of the “Tribute”.

Posted on August 15, 2015 by Mistress T

I am not an expert on Financial Domination. Not even close. This post isn’t about FinDom either…to be clear…it’s just my thoughts on “tributes” and some of my recent experiences.

Lots of gifts from my Amazon Wish List!

A rose by any other name would smell as sweet…a tribute is basically a gift. It’s called a tribute in the FemDom world based on your worship of “The Goddess”…but it’s basically a gift…and it often feels just as good to give a gift as it does to receive it.

A gift is not normally exchanged for something. You don’t give a birthday gift to someone you love expecting something in return. You may well get something in return but it isn’t like paying for a thing or a service. It isn’t a barter.

I have a fan who takes care of my tea needs. How it all came about now doesn’t matter but on an ongoing basis he checks in to see how my tea supply is & when I’m running low he mails me my favorite tea. I drink green tea pretty much constantly when I’m at home & I often think of him when I’m enjoying that tea.

I love tea!

By doing something sweet, simple & thoughtful he remains top of mind. Because of that he was contacted directly recently when I was passing through his part of the world & we met up for a session & dinner. There are very few fans who would have that opportunity.

I have another fan who is always looking for thoughtful ways to tribute me. He has sent me books & movies that I have shown interest in. He has provided unique insight into topics I’ve been curious about. He always sends thoughtful, generous gifts for my birthday. He is always thinking of me & I know it. He is one of the only ones who gets random emails from me just chatting about life because he stays in my mind.

My Amazon Wish List (http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/LYLSUGVVJA6W/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_ws_Ui5Zvb045VBN0) has served as an excellent vehicle for all kinds of fans to show their adoration for me. At first I added sexy clothing, things I thought my fans wanted to see me in. Fishnet body stockings, slutty boots, etc. I was reluctant to add ‘practical’ items like frying pans, laundry soap, comfortable foot wear, winter coats, bird seed, tooth paste, granola bars, etc. But as I started to add those things & guys bought them for me I realized how very appropriate this was. How that is in-line with what I’ve been preaching for years: there is fantasy & there is reality.

In fantasy I spend all day in my castle wearing thigh-high leather stiletto boots, wielding a whip & being pampered & served by all manner of slaves, one in my bathroom for toilet duties, sex slaves chained up in the bedroom, kitchen slaves & servants cooking & cleaning, a slave as a door mat & boot cleaner, all my furniture just being human chairs, etc.

This is not my living room.

In reality I walk a lot & need comfortable shoes. I don’t have or want domestic slaves. I live in a regular apartment, do my own laundry, etc. I would rather have some useful kitchen gear or yummy granola bars than another fishnet body stocking (I have about 30 of them by now!).

This is the truth & although I want my fans to immerse themselves in the fantasies I carefully create while they’re jerking off…afterward I want them to remember I am a real person, a regular human, not a 2 dimensional porn puppet. Thinking that I am a whip-wielding sex pot Dominatrix 24/7 is actually objectifying & unhealthy.

Cinderella’s castle at Disney in Orlando…not MY castle!

When I receive a tribute of any kind I feel ‘seen’, acknowledged & appreciated. Whether it’s appreciation for the way I make a fan feel with my vids or it’s a gift to support me in my regular life…it just feels GREAT. Based on some fans sending on-going tributes I assume they’re getting similar pleasure…or in some cases I’m sure it’s a “Financial Domination” type rush.

Some guys even give to charity as a way of tributing me…& that’s a beautiful thing to do. Here’s info on my favorite charity, Kiva, you can make micro-loans (with or without getting the free time on my site): http://www.mistresst.net/blog/uncategorized/loan-to-a-worthwile-cause-get-free-porn/

So, thanks to all the fans who tribute…for the love of the tribute. The fans who appreciate me & like to do things to make me smile. Of course, joining my members site and/or buying my vids from my clips store is the BEST way to support me. That is my core business, my art, my passion! Amazon gift cards, cash tributes on my clips store or sending gifts are all lovely & very much appreciated too. xo

Big love,

Mistress T

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Meg & I went to Greece Aug 2014!

Posted on September 10, 2014 by Mistress T

Meg & I (+ a billion other tourists) at the Acropolis in Athens, Greece. August 2014.

A bit overdue but hey, better late than…

Princess Meggerz & I went to Greece last month. The entire trip was covered by her slave. Unbelievable, I know, but it’s true. First class/business class tickets all the way. Really nice accommodation & transport between islands, drivers/tour guides, etc. It was an amazing trip, well done slave “cum dump”.

I promised to not make this into a travel blog. Difficult because I have traveled so much and continue to do so. But if I know my audience, the majority of you are looking for something else. (See titillating pictures below).

Rather than listing everything we did & everywhere we went (might be a tad boring for a reader) I will share a funny story:

Meg & I were out one night having drinks. We sat at the bar & the bartender was very handsome. A Greek Colin Farrel look-alike. We decided to bring him back to our place when he was off work for a skinny dip in the pool. After our dip & getting better acquainted with him outside of the bar we both were feeling a little less interested in him. I pretended to be sleepy and laid down on the bed while Meg & he sat on the sofa.

I listened, barely stifling my laughter as Meg completely worked this poor boy over. She said she didn’t really want to have sex with him but it did turn her on to see a guy suck cock. He said he was straight. She acted disappointed but encouraged him to at least try sucking his own finger to show her how he would suck cock for her.

Her tone was sweet & seductive, but a little teasing. With English as his second language I’m sure he was very confused but decided he would play along on the off chance she decided to put out.

After a lot of encouragement he must have started sucking his finger (I was only listening) and I heard her giggling, chastising him saying: “That’s how you would suck cock?! Like THAT? *wet mouth noises* Is THAT how you would want your cock sucked? Is that how girls suck YOUR cock? Like THAT?” More giggling.

My whole body was shaking with laughter at this point.

For about an hour this went on and on as he tried harder & harder to show her he knew what good cocksucking looked like, sucking his finger. Trying to satisfy her…as she remained unimpressed. She cruelly teased him for being a terrible cocksucker, wondering out loud how he could possibly lick pussy well with such horrible oral skills. She never raised her voice or spoke quickly. She just continued in this sensually teasing tone and pace which made him think he still might have a chance. The poor boy.

Finally after about an hour I took mercy on him. I got up, tossed his cloths to him (we had been skinny dipping, remember? He had been sitting there in a wet towel this whole time) and told him to go home.

God knows how long she would have batted him around like a cat with a mouse. I was impressed with her teasing skills & saw why she is so very very good at being a Financial Domme.

Before y’all feel too sorry for the bartender…he was a very handsome guy working in a busy touristy bar. I confirmed he gets quite a lot of pussy without having to work too hard at it. Not that night, no…but I bet it was a night he won’t forget.

As for the rest of our trip: Greece was great & I had such a wonderful time with Meg she’s planning to come stay with me for a bit in Vancouver in October. I have a feeling we’ll be doing a lot more traveling together in the future…and with her living in NY I have slightly more motivation for going there…which I know will make a few of you very excited.

Find more pics on Meg’s blog: http://meggerz.com/

Here clips store: http://clips4sale.com/12252/

Enjoy the pics!

A romantic moment between Meg & I on the very romantic island of Santorini, Greece.

Looking for pervs…

Sunset in Santoini. Shocking, isn’t it?

We stayed at a very posh place in Mykonos.

We made friends with other fun folks.

The view from our room:-)

Meg & I had an amazing time!

Meg & I enjoying our 1st class/business class seats. Soooo nice!

Best,
Mistress T

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I’m a lousy Financial Domme

Posted on July 30, 2014 by Mistress T

FetishCon 2013 with Meggerx, ceara & Mistress T.

Meggerz, Ceara & I…feet up, drink in hand…

I have a great respect for the ladies who succeed at Financial Domination. It’s a legitimate fetish and it takes skill to be good at it. I know there are literally thousands of gals out there who think it’s as easy as sticking out their palm & saying “Pay me, pig!” Well, it isn’t. I’ve had some enlightening conversations with some of the best FinDoms in the world, including my dear friends Ceara Lynch and Meggerz.

As I will soon be enjoying a luxurious trip paid for in full by Meggerz financial slave I thought it would be humorous to list ta few ways I’ve failed over the years as a Financial Domme. Hey, ya can’t be good at everything, eh!

– A pay pig once took me shopping for a purse. He took me to Coach (designer purses costing hundreds of dollars) but I couldn’t find what I wanted so I dragged him sulking to Aldo where he reluctantly bought me a $30 purse I wanted (& I used quite a bit!)

– A guy who used to like to show off how wealthy he was sent me dozens of pairs of high end designer shoes. He was pissed when I sent him back the ones that didn’t fit. I thought I was being considerate? *sigh* Canadians.

– A client once gave me a Louis Vuitton purse. I gave it to a girlfriend because I don’t like to put my valuables in a bag that has so much value someone might steal it. He was insulted.

– That same client gave me a gorgeous coat with a real fur collar. I gave it away too. I would only wear fur if it was vintage…and even then I’d feel bad about it.

– a rich fan once paid me to fly to another city to go on a date with him. He over-paid me $1000 and told me I could keep it. I sent it back to him anyway…(but he wouldn’t accept it so it got returned to me again.)

– I’m really bad at spending time on webcam/skype. While I’m not there guys send me dozens of messages begging for me to come on cam, offering generous tributes…these would be horny guys ripe for the picking (I guess?) yet…I still rarely bother with webcam.

Hey, it’s not that I don’t like money. Sure, I don’t like designer purses, obviously…but money is good. It’s security for me as I’m a saver, not a spender. Yet the Financial Slaves & I just don’t usually click. What ever it is they’re looking for, I don’t have it. I’m okay with that.

For more information on Financial Domination, google it or see this explanation: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_financial_domination

Best,
Mistress T

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Interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx

Posted on February 27, 2014 by Mistress T

“Kissing & Breast Worship” vid with Kyaa: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Go directly to “Kissing & Breast Worship” on my clips store: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Now that I have your attention…

While in Vegas recently I interviewed Domme Kyaa & her sister Princess Nyx.

Here’s the interview:

Click to watch the interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx.

Click the pic or click here: http://www.MistressT.net/free_video

Here’s some more eye candy:

Princess Nyx & Domme Kyaa.

Domme Kyaa, Princess Nyx & I encourage you to jerk off..as if you needed much persuasion.

Link to the above vid: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/princess-nyx-triple-jerk-off-challenge-full-hd/122546#.Uwf80_ldVgg

Domme Kyaa & I get better acquainted. (FYI: her sister filmed this vid!)

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Or here: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/domme-kyaa-making-out-with-mistress-t/

I’m 4 foot 11.5 & Kyaa is 5 foot 11. Tall or petite we still wouldn’t want YOU!

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Want to find more of Domme Kyaa? Here’s her links:

Twitter: http://twitter.com/dommekyaa
Website: http://GoddessKyaa.com
Buy Clips:
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/DommeKyaa
http://www.clips4sale.com/store/23738

Want more of Princess Nyx? Here’s her links:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/PrincessNyx1

Blog: http://theprincessnyx.wordpress.com/

Buy clips:

http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Spoil_Princess_Nyx
http://clips4sale.com/studio/63457/Princess-Nyx-s-Domain/#startingpoint

I really enjoyed interviewing these interesting ladies. If you like this sort of thing & you want me to interview anyone else (probably via skype) make a comment to let me know.

Cheers,

Mistress T

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My new Amazon Wish List!

Posted on September 16, 2012 by Mistress T

I have finally started an Amazon Wishlist: http://amzn.com/w/LYLSUGVVJA6W

Most of you already know what that is…for those who don’t here’s a humorous explanation: http://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2010/12/porn-stars-amazon-wish-lists-an-analysis/

Basically, it’s a way for you to give me gifts, to tribute me, to show your gratitude, to see me in things you’d like to see me in, etc. It’s especially great for Financial Domination slaves/scenario’s, pay pigs, etc. The more you buy, the more of a thrill it will be. This is a great way to serve me from afar.

So what’s MY story regarding a wishlist? Why did I create one after being in the business for so many years without one? Peer pressure really. A combination of fans asking for my wishlist so they could tribute me & my peers expressing shock that I don’t have one. Every Domme I meet who has a wishlist LOVES the whole experience.

I’ve had it for a few days and I gotta say, it is fun seeing what items have already been purchased. I look forward to picking them up from the post office. It will be like my birthday all the time.

I understand the concept. I’m a generous person myself & I get a great deal of pleasure from treating others. Especially girls. There is something special about buying girls things that make them happy.

In addition to lots of sexy, slutty things I’ve also chosen some more practical every day cloths that I would just love to have, jackets, tops, dresses, etc. If you’re the kind of gentleman who prefers to cloth me that way…it’s just as appreciated, if not more so.

If you want to see me do a custom vid in an item you’ve purchased for me, for a trial period I will do some custom vids at no extra charge beyond the cost of the item. Customs normally start at $100. What customs I do will still be up to my discretion but email me to discuss: MsT@MistressT.net

Happy hunting!

Mistress T

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You better make more money than I can spend! Lol

Winter is coming & I can’t wear this! Send cloths quick! *smile*

Mistress T

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Tag Archives: financial domination

Adventures in real life cuckolding…

Is Financial Domination contagious?

The Art of the “Tribute”.

Meg & I went to Greece Aug 2014!

I’m a lousy Financial Domme

Interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx

My new Amazon Wish List!