A pain in the neck…

Posted on April 3, 2014 by Mistress T

It all started with a sore neck. I don’t know why but I woke up Sunday morning with a stiff neck & I badly wanted a massage. I was also horny & feeling like some adventure. I decided a massage/orgasm combo would be perfect.

Long-time readers of my blog may recall a couple blog entries I’ve written about my adventures in paying for sexual services or getting “Rub n’ tugs” (Massage with hand release/orgasm):

http://www.mistresst.net/blog/uncategorized/rub-n-tug/

http://www.mistresst.net/blog/my-personal-life/paying-for-sex/

So Sunday I placed an ad on Craigslist looking for a guy with massage skills to work out my kinks with the potential of more if it felt right in the moment. My inbox was immediately flooded with eager applicants. It was difficult to sift through the mess to determine who would actually be any good at massage. I did the best I could wadding through the promises of horny, desperate guys & made a choice.

For anyone with any experience hooking up with random strangers on the internet for free or paid sex or dating, you understand how this often goes:

I show up to the guys place, he opens the door and weighs about 100 pounds more than he did in the picture. So I know I’m not going to fuck him, but my neck does hurt, so what the heck. He’s nervous but obviously over joyed that I showed up looking better than he expected. He starts the massage & it felt like drunk kittens were staggering around on my back. This guy had the massage skills of a fish. I guided him as best I could & when my neck was at least slightly more relaxed I flipped over & told him to lick my pussy. Fat & ugly or not, I could close my eyes & pretend he was someone else.

Happily, his oral skills were decent & it didn’t take me long to cum. I didn’t plan on reciprocating but as he stood up I noticed the wet spot on the front of his pants & on the bed. He had blown his load in his underwear without even touching himself. He was very embarrassed about it. What a stud. I wish I could make this stuff up folks, but I’m telling you, this really happened.

A couple days later I still had a stiff neck & I passed by a massage place that I was pretty sure was one of those (Korean/Vietnamese?) “Rub n’ Tug” establishments. I decided to give it a go. I walked in & was greeted by a slightly confused looking Asian woman. She said they just had ‘a rush’ & it would be about 20 minutes. I said no problem, I would wait. I sat down in the small, kind of grubby front area. A moment later a tall, handsome black guy walked in & looked confused to see me sitting there. I smiled, knowing that he was there for an Asian girl to massage & jerk him off & he was confused to see a Caucasian woman. Another Asian woman came out & was confused to see us both & assumed we were there together. I laughed & said we weren’t together yet. It was a pleasure to see him squirm.

Eventually I was led down a narrow grubby hall into a dark room with a massage table. The linens all looked clean & there was soothing music playing. I disrobed & laid face down. A woman entered & I could tell she barely spoke English. The massage was fantastic! I had lower expectations because I thought they usually focused more on the “tug” then the “rub” but I was very satisfied. I kept wondering if I would get offered “other services” but I didn’t & I felt funny asking so I just enjoyed the massage.

Afterward, when I sat up & looked at her for the first time I was surprised to see a very young looking Asian woman, maybe early 20’s, very slender, no make up but pretty in a plain way. I wondered if this was typical of these places. It felt like I had been transported back to Vietnam or Thailand. A whole different micro culture within modern Vancouver.

When I paid the Madame I confirmed that if my male friends were interested in coming there for a massage it would be possible for them to get ‘other services’. I wanted to be sure it really was ‘that’ kind of establishment.

There are ethical issues around this. There are many massage parlors that do not treat their girls well. I only know a tiny bit about this situation. I know that this one has been around for a long time so my hope is that it is one of the better ones. For what it’s worth, I will go back…& I would recommend Tiffany at Hollywood North on Seymour for a quality massage.

My neck is feeling much better.

Best,
Mistress T

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Rant-a-licious

Posted on March 12, 2014 by Mistress T

Are you fucking kidding me?

This is a rant. I don’t usually go on rants, well, at least not online. Some of you won’t agree with me here. Some of you will think less of me after reading this & I don’t give a damn.

I received a message on Fetlife from a guy saying that he couldn’t believe I was still looking, that he was pretty intimidated by me but thought he’d take a shot at contacting me anyway. I liked how he wrote & although I don’t usually message guys back (I’m a bit of an asshole that way) him saying that he was intimidated by me hit a nerve. I know it takes a lot of balls to approach a woman so I thought I’d give him a chance.

His picture left everything to the imagination. I could basically just make out that he was human. His profile said he was camera shy so I didn’t press for more pictures. I simply offered to meet up sooner rather than later to see if there was chemistry.

A few hours before we were set to meet he messaged me to say he was searching online for my vids to watch. I asked him to not contribute to piracy/file sharing by downloading my stolen, pirated content. So, we didn’t get off on the right foot. I wondered how clueless someone could be?

Within 20 seconds of meeting him I understood the gravity of my mistake. The combination of the lack of pics & his opening line about being intimidated by me should have been a screaming red flag.

The hope that we would at least have a pleasant conversation quickly evaporated as he rambled without pause for 10 minutes straight about a topic I only expressed a vague interest in.

He also talked a lot about himself & I soon learned he was in his early 40’s, unemployed with limited prospects, no plans, & seemed to think the right thing to wear when trying to impress a woman was an old hoodie & unflattering jeans.

I had plenty of time to try to think of an exit plan as he rambled on and on without noticing I was hardly paying attention anymore. When I finally had an opportunity to speak I mentioned that perhaps he should start a blog about the topic he had been rambling about and he actually said: “I should blog. As you can tell, there’s no shortage of things I have to say.”

As I abruptly thanked him for coming to meet with me he started going on about how lovely I am and how much he would like to see me again. All the while I was slowly shaking my head no. But that wasn’t enough for him. He wasn’t picking up the clues. I actually had to say that I wasn’t feeling it. Not interested. Ouch. But anyone else would have clearly picked up the obvious clues (especially me abruptly ending the meeting).

He later messaged me trying to find some way, any opportunity to spend more time with me. Really?!

He seems like a nice enough guy. Maybe the kind of guy who would do anything for ya. I’m note sure. Hell, he could be a complete bastard too. It doesn’t matter. Here’s my rant:

From now on, if a guy says that he’s intimidated by me I’m going to take that as a clear sign that on some level he knows he’s not good enough for me. GOOD: BE INTIMIDATED. Some people are out of your league or just in a different league. I know that a politician or a guy from a high profile rich family who cares about public image is not going to marry a Dominatrix/porn star. I know that if a guy really wants a bunch of kids & a house wife baking cookies for the Church fundraiser that I’m not right for him.

If you’re an unemployed, unattractive guy with shitty social skills & can’t be bothered to be presentable for a first impression DON’T approach an ambitious, well-traveled, independent, beautiful, groomed, successful business woman who has a reputation for chewing men up & spitting them out. What the fuck are you thinking? It’s like hunting big game with a pellet gun.

It’s ironic that the guy I met with today started his correspondence saying that he couldn’t believe I’m still looking. Did he think that I must be desperate enough by now to settle for anything?

I recently received an email from someone who reads my blog saying that I’ll always be single because I’m a dirty whore. I’m not sure if it was hate mail or fan mail but no one can deny that I’m a pretty damn successful whore and a guy who wants to be with me better have his shit together too.

I’m not perfect & I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for realistic compatibility. Just because I have a fucked up occupation doesn’t mean that I’m going to settle for anyone with a pulse.
Grrr.
Mistress T

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PS: For those who follow my blog closely & are confused because you thought I was seeing someone…well, it’s complicated. He’s still in my life but I’m still seeking… he is a bit of a cuckold & we’ve never been exclusive, sooo….maybe I’ll write a blog entry about non-monogamy & poly relationships at some point.

Camping Feb 2014

Posted on February 11, 2014 by Mistress T

Lovely camping weather!

Camping in Canada in February? Sounds pretty crazy, doesn’t it? Well, it’s do-able if you have a heated camper, lots of wood for a campfire & the most important thing: hot springs! Some people call that “glamping” (glamorous camping).

A girlfriend & I have been camping together a few times a year for nearly 10 years. We usually go in the spring & fall but once in awhile we go in the winter. This time we had a couple of days of very cold, sunny weather with no snow. The last morning we woke up to beautiful snow! So we got the best of both.

There’s nothing like sitting in the hot springs with good friends & a couple of drinks.

Here’s a little vid of my trip. You can click on the pic or click this link: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/camping-feb-2014

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Best,
Mistress T

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Hump Day

Posted on February 6, 2014 by Mistress T

Love & laughs…

My girlfriend brought over her newest lover. Like a shiny new toy she wanted to present to me. She loves to share her toys.

He was trim & virile. Keen but not as experienced as us. It was novel being with two women. We planned to only let him dip his toe in the water. Work him in slow. Boys minds are so easily blown.

We stood giggling in the tub all defrosting our feet in hot water. This is foreplay during Canadian winter.

I lubricated myself with vodka. Being typically unprepared I was using frozen raspberries as both ice & mix.

We cuddled in bed, touching by candlelight, listening to the “sophisticated indie” mix off Songza. I refused to remove my toque. Just to be weird. Being the only one drinking I joked that it was my rheumatism medication. At this stage of my life I have a hard time taking sex seriously. I like to laugh & I constantly, sometimes annoyingly, make jokes throughout. No one has kicked me out of bed for it yet, so obnoxiously, I continue.

She goes down on him. I know her mouth well. She has created magic on my pussy many times over the years. Talented, skilled, magic…whatever you call it, it’s fucking amazing. I can see she’s giving the same treatment to his cock & I’m not surprised at his reaction.

He pulls me in. I stroke his head with one hand & baby my drink in the other. It’s my bed, I’m careful to not spill booze in it. I kiss him. Slowly. His mouth is just a little more eager, a little faster than my pace. “Calm down cowboy, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.”

She’s working his cock like a champ, taking the whole thing all the way to the hilt, great hand-mouth coordination, she looks beautiful, sexy, slutty & powerful all at once. It’s something to behold. I observe, noting her technique, admiring her deep throating which I struggle with…I take a sip from my drink & the taste of raspberries takes me back to my youth, picking raspberries from the bush in the summer, eating them right there, brushing the bugs off, being careful of the thorns. I wonder if most people have ever eaten raspberries warmed by the sun…& then I feel guilty for letting my mind wander in the middle of an amazing moment & I wonder if that’s normal or if there’s something wrong with me?

I come back to the moment & observe his cock, wondering how it would feel in my pussy, wondering if it would look good on film…noting that I’ve come to a place where I simultaneously assess men for the potential to please me as well as their usefulness in my business. But there’s no doubt, this is a hot moment, a memory I’ll always cherish no matter what my conflicting thoughts are.

While I kiss him, and I love kissing, she brings him to the edge. He indicates he’s close & I pull away from his beautiful face to look at his cum shot, in case I decide to film with him, I need to know what his projection is like. I only feel bad about this for a second then say fuck it…my job is my life & if his dick or cum shot isn’t right for filming I’ll just use him for my pleasure anyway, it doesn’t matter…

I haven’t spilled a drop of my drink. I sip it in the afterglow & we cuddle. I love her so much. For all that she is. Her sexual freedom. She knows herself & she makes no apologies. She can have any man she wants & she gives & gets beautifully.

I am grateful for the life I’ve created, the people who I’ve surrounded myself & for random Wednesday night romps.

My boyfriend will be here soon & I’ll tell him all about what happened. I’ll remove my pants for the first time tonight…& we’ll probably have sex….but if we don’t, that’s okay too. Just having someone in my life I can share everything with, without drama or guilt is more important than an orgasm. Intimacy & sex play is about so much more than just orgasms…
Best,
Mistress T

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Drama-Lama-Ding-Dong

Posted on January 23, 2014 by Mistress T

Stalkers, crazy guys, cattiness & drama-making competitors are a part of this business. Most women in the industry have at least a couple stories of guys or girls causing unnecessary stress in one way or another. I’ve considered myself lucky to have gotten away relatively unscathed. In fact, I have enjoyed an overwhelming amount of support from my peers in the industry & guys have been harmless.

Until today.

It came to my attention that someone is specifically trying to cause problems for me. I won’t go into detail as this blog post is directed to that person & they already know what they’re doing. I know that 99% of you will want to know what’s going on but please understand that I’m hoping this is behind me quickly & I don’t want to ‘feed’ it by giving it more attention than is required. I will say that there is no known threat to my physical safety or property.

To the person who is trying to cause trouble: you are wasting time & energy you could be putting toward something more positive. You only have one life, do you really want it to be about trying to bring someone else grief?

You’re also wasting your time with me. I have been a resourceful and highly adaptable survivor my whole life. Whatever the worst possible thing is you think you could do to me would still be easy for me to overcome. I am a lot more than Mistress T. Before I was Mistress T I had a whole other successful life. As Mistress T I have a variety of revenue streams. I can change focus without skipping a beat. If the day comes that I decide to retire Mistress T I will still have plenty of options. I have been strategic & planned for pretty much any possibility.

You may not have covered your tracks as well as you think but I would let it go at this point if it ends now. Karma is a bitch & you get from life what you give. The hippie in me really believes that. So, take the high road. You have to look at yourself in the mirror.

Best,
Mistress T

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The Hangover Heaven Experience!

Posted on January 22, 2014 by Mistress T

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My recent trip to Vegas as was so eventful I’ll have several blog posts to cover all the action. I’m starting with the end, for no particular reason.

My last morning in Vegas I filmed this vid of myself & Meggerz trying out the Hangover Heaven service. They come to your hotel room (if you want) & give you an IV drip of fluids to hydrate you & get you back on your feet. We loved it! Check out the vid above & see some of the pics below of the night before to understand why we needed a hangover cure in the morning.

Hangover Heaven’s website: http://www.hangoverheaven.com

Princess Meggerz: http://meggerz.com

Meggerz & I getting cured of our hangovers via IV drip. Amazing!

Our last night in Vegas we were taken out by Kinkbomb. We were actually spoiled rotten by Kinkbomb last week with fancy meals & epic club nights. Here’s my Kinkbomb studio: http://www.kinkbomb.com/

Beachers Madhouse Vegas – Midgets, furries, celebrity look alikes, crazy shows & antics. This place is a hangover producing machine!

Surrounded by beauty: (Left to right) Kyaa, Ceara, me, Meggerz, Shauna Ryanne (red), Jasmine Mendez (green)

Fantastic ladies I partied with above:

Goddess Kyaa (far left with glasses): http://goddesskyaa.com/

Ceara Lynch (gold top)…check out her blog for more pics from Vegas: http://blog.cearalynch.com/

Princess Meggerz (black top): http://meggerz.com/

Shauna Ryanne (red dress): http://shaunaryanne.weebly.com/

Jasmine Mendez (green dress): http://clips4sale.com/store/54509

Mistress T with furry in Vegas Jan 2014.

I love furries!

Mistress T at Beachers Madhouse in Vegas Jan 2014.

It was furry lovers heaven!

Mistress T with Pee Wee Herman & a sock puppet furry.

Pee Wee Herman, that perv…& a giant sock puppet. Add vodka & shake:-)

Best,
Mistress T

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To Be Accepted

Posted on January 7, 2014 by Mistress T

I like fucked up shit, okay? Oh, you’re into fucked up shit too? Awesome!

I’ve written about not being accepted. This post is about the flip side, the joy in being accepted.

I’ve recently been reading a biography of a gay porn star & his trials in finding a partner who was accepting of his career. Although I’ve met quite a few gals in the business who have amazing partners, there’s some of us who have had more challenges in our relationships. The biz is often the obstacle, the non-starter for many men.

I have someone in my life now who not only accepts me as I am but celebrates it & shares it. That’s a first for me.

He had been familiar with my Mistress T vids & then we met through a friend several years ago. I treated him as a slave boy, which he liked. Eventually we became friends and gradually (the last several months) more.

He completely understands the realities of my job. He’s been watching FemDom porn for as long as he can remember.

In the past my being out of town so much killed a couple of relationships. He doesn’t give me a hard time about all the traveling. No guilt. No neediness.

He’s into cuckolding, so actually loves that I’m with other men, on & off screen. No jealousy or possessiveness.

I can tell him my darkest, most twisted fantasies & often his are similar. If they’re not, he doesn’t judge. At all.

Like many of you reading this, I have spent most of my life feeling ashamed of the things that turn me on. I’ve had a mix of reactions when I’ve dared share those fantasies with others. Now, I have a job that causes me no end of grief when it comes to being judged by others. Last year, an experiment in online dating & telling potential suitors about my job was stressful. Often men would say they were okay with it but their follow up questions or comments revealed prejudices.

Many of you are in relationships with partners who don’t even know what you’re jerking off to in your private time. Maybe you felt you could never tell anyone or those fetishes developed AFTER you were already married. I feel your pain. It is extremely difficult to find a partner who shares niche fetishes & extremely difficult to be with someone who doesn’t.

I feel very grateful today to be with someone who thinks that I’m awesome in all my kinkiness, who has zero issue with my job, totally gets it & who personally I can be my true self with. If that’s inspiration to anyone still seeking their unicorn, great.

Best,
Mistress T

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Peru Trip 2013

Posted on December 12, 2013 by Mistress T

I never meant for this to turn into a travel blog. It’s hard to write about my life without all the travel stuff though. Travel has been & continues to be such a significant part of my adult life.

I’ve been to Tokyo, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, India, Cuba, Brazil, Argentina, Hawaii, Mexico, England, France, Italy, Brussels, Amsterdam, Berlin, Hungary & all over the US & Canada. I’ve just returned from three weeks in Peru.

I went with a few friends. We saw places. Met people. Played with pet monkeys in the Amazon jungle. Hung out with talking birds. Had some adventures. Went to high elevations & suffered from altitude sickness. We checked one of the wonders of the world “Machu Picchu” off the bucket list. The last day I went paragliding in Lima which was exhilarating. Every time I do one of these trips I learn more about myself & the world I live in. More importantly, I learn about the world beyond my door step. It makes me both appreciate what I have in Canada & also see how I take things for granite. It gives perspective.

I’ve always felt that one of the best things a person can do is travel, see the world. Not just all-inclusive resorts & comfy cruises (although they certainly have their appeal) but do the more challenging trips & SEE the world.

Photo’s & video’s can not duplicate the experience of being there in the flesh but maybe it will inspire you to go on your own adventure.

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Hiking around in the middle of god-knows-where in Peru tripping on Mescaline. Probably perfectly safe.

I made it to the top of this mountain so I guess I wasn’t too high.

Machu Picchu, obviously.

Cusco, Peru…a cute town with some seriously old buildings. Like older than Betty White.

A nice artsy shot, if you’re into that sort of thing. Selfie in Pisac, Peru. A tiny hippie-friendly town on route to Machu Picchu.

These fucking birds never shut up.

Pic taken just before one monkey chomped the other ones head off & spat it at me.
Okay, that didn’t happen. The monkeys were almost as friendly as Canadians. Super sweet.

The bugs in the amazon jungle were ridiculous. I have loads of pics of them but I’ll just add this one because it’s also a very lovely photo of me.

xo
Mistress T
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UK Recap!

Posted on November 17, 2013 by Mistress T

I’ve just returned from the UK. I had a lovely time in London, I went to Torture Garden (crazy fetish party) & had a wonderful visit with my friends at The English Mansion.

Here’s a little vid recap of me chatting with Sidonia Von Bork of The English Mansion about some of our adventures: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/vlog3-sidonia-von-bork-i-chat-about-my-visit

Sidonia & I casually chat about my visit.

Here’s some pics of me being a tourist & some naughtier pics of some of the dirty fun I had as well. The vids will be released over the coming months.

Love these British phone booths.

No, I didn’t actually eat any bangers n’ mash…

Is that Big Ben in London town?

London is sooo purty!

It’s not real fur but I did hunt the teddy bear myself. He never stood a chance.

Is that gimp mask starring at my butt?

Sindonia Von Bork of The English Mansion & Mistress T with slave.

Sidonia Von Bork & I being careful to not leave finger prints on our victim…

A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush…

Sidonia Von Bork of the English Mansion & Mistress T in an oral service scene.

I guide your wank while we observe Sidonia Von Bork receiving oral service.

My sissy, cuckold hubby fluffs a bigger cock for me…

Confronting slave about the whereabouts of my clothing….probably…

This is going to hurt you more than it’s going to hurt me…

As you can see, it was a great trip, filled with fun, relaxation, as well as being productive. I will be back in about 6 months. Those wanting to serve me in the UK are encouraged to WAIT to apply only when I announce my next dates.

In other news…I might be going to Mexico for Christmas with the black stud I’ve filmed a bunch of vids with (not Shane Diesel, the other one.) So custom vid requests with just the two of us (no slaves) should be possible.

Also, I will be in Vegas in January & probably LA. So those wanting to serve me (filmed or in private) in the Western part of the US will have opportunities if they’re willing to come to me.

In all the above cases please wait until firm dates/plans are announced to send custom vid requests/slave applications, etc. Just keep watching my blog & twitter for announcements.

Best,
Mistress T

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VLOG2: Halloween Ballbusting, UK & Sex Ed

Posted on October 29, 2013 by Mistress T

Click this link to view the vid: http://www.MistressT.net/freemovie/vlog2-october-28-2013-halloween-ballbusting-uk-sex-ed

Thanks for all the feedback on my 1st VLOG. I received a few requests for more sex ed stuff, guidance for virgins, the inexperienced or any fella wanting to improve sexually. So most of this VLOG covers sex ed tips for beginners.

Remember fella’s: sloooow down. Also respect women & treat them well. Mainstream porn is designed as jerk off material for men, it is NOT designed to teach you to be a better lover….for women. If you want to satisfy a woman sexually usually smacking her ass & slapping her face with your dick is the wrong way to go.

There’s a little ballbusting clip in my VLOG taken just before we all went out to a fetish Halloween party. I did not film something to sell because we were running late so there’s just this little taste.

I make a brief mention of my upcoming trip to the UK. So there it is…feedback is welcome & encouraged. Comment here, tweet me or send an email: MsT@MistressT.net

Thanks!

Mistress T

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Category Archives: My Personal Life

A pain in the neck…

Rant-a-licious

Camping Feb 2014

Hump Day

Drama-Lama-Ding-Dong

The Hangover Heaven Experience!

To Be Accepted

Peru Trip 2013

UK Recap!

VLOG2: Halloween Ballbusting, UK & Sex Ed