Exploration

Posted on April 15, 2013 by Mistress T

In what might be considered a Fetish re-learning program I have been experimenting with activities I’ve done for years ‘for work’ in a person relationship.

To be beneath me…

I know a lot of people wonder where the line is between my work & personal life…I can honestly say that it’s complicated & I’m okay with that. The lines are blurred & there’s a lot of cross-over.

Sometimes my personal sexual relationships are just ‘vanilla’. Sometimes they’re unusual or kinky in ways that you don’t see in my vids. I’m about as open-minded sexually as you can get. As my gay grade 8 teacher said: “If it feels good, do it.”

So I’ve recently been enjoying an increasingly steamy relationship with someone exploring his sexuality & have found myself enjoying things that for years have fit more into my ‘job’. I’ll share a couple of recent experiences…

Story #1: Ruined Orgasm.

The main event is always the most amazing & skillful pussy licking I’ve ever had (sorry to anyone reading this who has licked my pussy & is now experiencing a bruised ego…just because you weren’t the best doesn’t mean you weren’t wonderful).

After enjoying a thunderous orgasm with his talented mouth on my pussy I asked him how he would like to cum. I was surprised to hear him say he’d like to try a ruined orgasm. “No problem.” He laid back as I positioned myself between his legs & started stroking his rock hard cock with one hand while manipulating his nipples with the other. I kept him on edge, enjoying the power I always feel with a man’s cock in my hand…as he got closer he pulled himself up so he could kiss me. It was intimate & passionate…the first time I had ever kissed a man who I was about to give a ruined orgasm to…because of this I couldn’t ‘see’ when he started to cum so I could ruin it as I usually do but I ‘felt’ it, with his gasping lips against mine, his cock pulsating in my hand…I quickly pulled my other hand down to cover the tip of his cock to ruin his orgasm…I felt his cum splash against my breast & hand a second before pressing my hand over the top of his cock.

Both hands on his cock & our mouths still together he collapsed back bringing me with him, his cum & our sweat sliding between our naked bodies…still kissing & gasping…me now laying full weight on top of him.

So fucking hot.

Story #2: Anal Play.

I discovered the boy likes to put things in his bum. Frankly, I don’t understand why any man wouldn’t. The prostate is a man’s g-spot. So I told him to bring his bum toy the next time he came over…which he dutifully did. He’s the most wonderful combination of submissive (when it’s hot in the moment) & not submissive (when it would be annoying to be).

After yet another epic orgasm via that magnificent mouth of his (Yes, I always take my pleasure first) I got started on him. Positioned between his legs again but this time with that vibrating toy & lube. He had told me that having his bum played with makes him feel very submissive. I like that.

I teased him sensually…using the vibrator to vibrate my fingers on him. His cock danced and throbbed in my hand as I stroked him lightly with my hand & tongue. I love that feeling of power & control, him squirming beneath me…his look of adoration, true worship…not of the Dominatrix but of ME.

Instead of pushing the toy in I held it in my hand & slid my finger into him gently & moved ever-so-slowly with the vibe pressed against the outside of his entrance. I could have put it in but I wanted to feel him cum, from the inside.

Again, he pushed himself up so he could kiss me & it was about as sensual & romantic as it gets…so intimate to feel him from the inside, to feel his lips against mine begging me to let him cum…so vulnerable & open…in my hands.

*sigh*

So…I’m processing these experiences and others as I continue my sexual exploration. Love my life *smile*.

Best,
Mistress T

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Webcam, Custom Vids & Film Slaves

Posted on April 9, 2013 by Mistress T

This blog entry is to address three of the most common questions I’m getting these days: Webcam Sessions, Custom Vids & Film Slave Volunteers.

#1. WEBCAM SESSIONS:

I currently offer opportunities to interact with me via Skype (webcam).

What is a webcam session or what is possible? Everything is customizable & it’s okay to ask for anything. I’ll let you know what’s cool & what’s not. I don’t do ‘toy shows’ or masturbate like traditional web cam girls. I am happy to verbally humiliate you, verbally go through a cuckolding fantasy, give you a jerk off instruction/cum count down, make you eat your own cum, etc.

If you have a body part fetish of a specific clothing fetish: that can work! You can jerk to my feet or I’m happy to put on pantyhose, boots, gloves or whatever you’re into.

A lot of guys just want to talk to me. I love that! Confess your sins, tell me about your perversions, ask me questions, etc. If you want to put on a show for me: go for it. Cross dress for me, hurt or humiliate yourself for me.

What do I charge & how do you pay?

Minimum $100 to get started. Nothing happens for less than $100 so don’t try to haggle. You’ll pay via the tribute button on my clips store: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

Look for the tribute button on my clips store!

Or you can send an Amazon Gift Card to my email address: MsT@MistressT.net

Here’s a link: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004LLIKVU/gcrnsts

How to set up a webcam session:

Email me with a very brief but clear description of what you’re looking for & WHEN you hope for it. I’ll email back an exact rate & let you know if the time will work. Example of an appropriate email:

Dear Mistress T,

May I please set up a web cam session for later this afternoon, between 3:30 – 5:30pm? I’d love an ass tease session with you in jeans with small penis humiliation & a jerk off instruction.

Thanks,

Bob MiniDick

NOTE: Bob didn’t tell me how beautiful I am or what a huge fan he is. Leave it out. Reading that ‘fluff’ just wastes my time. You can tell me when you’re paying for my time on web cam:-)

Here’s some pics from other webcam shows I’ve done to give you a visual:

Tell me everything! Confess your kinks…

Jerk to me sitting on your face!

Jerk to my tiny size 4 feet!

#2. CUSTOM VIDS:

Want a specific vid? Want me to say your name in a vid? I’ve made loads of custom vids & could make one for you too! Like above, send an email describing clearly but briefly what you want. Rates start at $150. Payment options same as above. Here’s an example of an appropriate email:

Dear Mistress T,

Would you be able to create a custom vid for me where you humiliate me for jerking off to vids where men cum on women’s faces? I’d like you to instruct me to cum on my own face & eat my own cum as punishment for watching vids of women being degraded. Please use my name (John) but also threaten me with making me suck cock at some point too. I like to be called cocksucking closet homo. You can wear anything you like but I especially like business attire like suites, skirts & blouses.

Thanks,

John CumGuzzler

Note: Wardrobe requests are fine & requesting a couple of specific things like key words or phrases BUT I will not follow a long script or memorize lines. Give me the outline & trust me to run with it. It’s what I do best.

Here’s some examples of custom vids I’ve done:

The guy mailed me his wife’s shoes to use in the vid!

This guy had a sweater fetish & wanted interactive instructions.

#3. FILM SLAVE VOLUNTEERS:

The most important info I need to communicate here is: LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION! Geography is key & nearly every guy who emails me leaves this part out. If you want to film with me we must be in the same place at the same time (seems like common sense, doesn’t it?) so tell me where you are, if you’re in Vancouver or willing to come here, etc.

I’m really only looking for giant porn style cocks that cum like fire hoses right now…white is okay, black is better. If you don’t have an average to fit body & a remarkable cock I probably don’t have a use for you right now….but you’re welcome to email an application anyway. Send pics, list what you think I could use you for in vids, tell me WHERE you are & when you’re available.

Email: MsT@MistressT.net

(Advice: Send a clear, well-thought out email or it’s unlikely you’ll get a reply.)

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Birthday advance warning…

Posted on April 2, 2013 by Mistress T

My birthday is at the end of April. That makes me a Taurus & I’ll be 37 (I’ve never lied about my age).

Cake a friend made me a couple years ago.

In preparation for those who feel the urge to spoil me on my special day I have updated my Amazon Wish List. Thank you to those who have sent me presents from the list, they are much appreciated.

Here’s the link: http://amzn.com/w/LYLSUGVVJA6W

You might notice the updated list is pretty short. Apparently some items can’t be shipped to Canada so my options on Amazon are somewhat limited. All of the items on there now CAN be shipped to me…& you are always welcome to send an Amazon Gift Card so I can shop for just the right thing.

You can also send $$$ via the tribute button on my clips store: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

It looks like this:

Look for the tribute button on my clips store!

If you’d like to do something even more personalized feel free to contact me: MsT@MistressT.net

Maybe this year my birthday cake will look like this:

Birthday boobs! Yah!

Cheers,
Mistress T

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We can’t always get what we want for our birthday…

Camping in Beautiful BC

Posted on April 1, 2013 by Mistress T

I just got home after another amazing hot springs/camping weekend. We had perfect warm, sunny weather. The drive there & back just takes my breath away every time. British Columbia is truly stunning.

Nice scenery, eh?

I spent most of the time soaking in the natural hot springs. I also read a lot, slept & ate well, played cards, connected with friends and met a nice boy. Don’t get too excited. When I say ‘boy’ I mean it. Very cute but only 19. He was there with his mom who he had a great, respectful relationship with & he had the nicest manners. Too young for anything serious but hey, I don’t enjoy chocolate for the nutritional value, if you know what I mean?

I’m not sure why I’ve been attracting such young fellows lately but I’m not complaining. Their lack of maturity can be somewhat frustrating if I expect them to be on my level, but if I accept them for what they are it’s fine. You don’t ask a cat to bark or a dog to meow.

I really only care that they treat me with respect & appreciation…& that they please me sexually. I’ll save the more in depth relationships for those mature enough to deal with all of me (at least I will when I meet a guy who can. Ha ha *groan*)

Best,
Mistress T

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Fancy-Ass Session

Posted on March 27, 2013 by Mistress T

Today was a little surreal.

I was whisked away from my swanky hotel this morning & taken to a kinky hide-away. It was posh. Outfitted with antiques & custom made furniture. Loads of object d’art…fancy stuff, ya know?

I had been paid gobs of money to come here, to share ‘me’, to converse & play.

You can’t buy my love, but you can rent it.

Everything about this place screamed money…& it was a rarely used place just for such a rendezvous. I was given the tour & discovered that tucked away in the antique & custom made furniture there was a multitude of implements for pain & pleasure. Crops, canes, paddles, straps, ass toys, nipple clamps, bondage equipment, etc. etc.

We chatted over expensive champagne. We lunched on delicious healthy food. He took business calls & sounded oh-so-American. Arrogant. Canadians detest this.

Classical music played as we got down to business. Tied down & gagged he took the beating that I needed to give. I’d been dumped yesterday. He didn’t know that but it didn’t matter. He said he wanted to give himself over to me & marks didn’t matter. He laid out dozens of implements he was ready to take…so we both got what we wanted. I never beat a man in anger but when a man wants to be beaten harshly it’s convenient if I have some steam to let off. It keeps me going longer, more enthusiastically.

Do I look like I would beat you THAT hard? *blink blink*

I especially enjoyed the rubber tubed implements that reminded me of…well, never mind.

When it came time for the ass fucking I switched the music to classic rock. I was tired of feeling like I was in Disney’s Fantasia. Journey, The Eagles, etc. guided me on a long slow ass fuck…him tied spread eagle & face down on that beautiful custom made bed. In my mind I was taking him without his consent. So sue me.

Chicks with dicks=good times.

I was several glasses of champagne in at this point & it helped. There are those who say they don’t drink during sessions & I understand that. There are reasons for that, safety reasons mostly…& I don’t usually, for professional reasons…but I’ve seen this client a couple times already. We weren’t doing anything too crazy, nothing I couldn’t do a little bit tipsy. For Christ sake, I’ve beaten & ass fucked hundreds of men by now. He was drinking & I could handle him better if I wasn’t too sober.

At one point I used the hitachi wand on myself while he watched me cum. Sweet success…when you’re paid to have an orgasm.

After our fun he soaked his sore ass in the tub while I sat on one edge, by legs draped over the other side making a beautiful bridge over him. We chatted. Me with a glass of champagne, him in the bubbles, classic rock in the back ground.

Cheers to rich perverts!

I could have gone on about my beautiful lingerie, my heels clicking on the hard wood, my nails grazing his welting skin…but you probably got enough of that in 50 Shades. There’s always several ways to describe a scenario & this was mine.

My god, my life.
Best,
Mistress T

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An unusal day in the life…

Posted on March 26, 2013 by Mistress T

It’s been an unusual day (for me).

I woke up at my Mothers house in Nova Scotia on my last day of my family visit. I opened my email & found out that I’d been dumped (more on that later). Mom drove me to the airport where we had our usual teary farewell before I spent the rest of the day traveling to an American city for a session I’ll have tomorrow.

I’m sitting in my swanky deluxe hotel suite reflecting on my family visit, my dying uncle, my dead relationship & mentally preparing for tomorrow. Between civilized conversations I’ll be administering extreme corporal punishment (beating him with various implements like paddles, canes, etc.), strap-on ass fucking/ass stretching with large butt plugs…& defecating in his mouth if I feel so ‘moved’. He has paid a ridiculous sum to have me come here…as is the case these days. “Make me an offer I can’t refuse” is my new slogan to those who want me to travel to their city for a session.

Another fancy hotel room…such extravagance…heavens-to-betsy.

As for getting dumped this morning…it didn’t come as the biggest surprise. The ‘relationship’ barely had a chance to get off the ground before I left on this trip & I predicted it wouldn’t survive a month away. I’m a hellava drug, but my pull decreases with time & distance. We both knew that we weren’t compatible in the long term but the sex was fantastic enough to keep us both in play anyway. Well, until this morning when the dear boy finally mustered the courage to walk away from the best sex he’s ever had to seek a more compatible mate…one who wants kids (I don’t) & one who’s naked caboose isn’t all over the internet. Yes, as turned on as he was by Mistress T, he felt he could never introduce me to his family, friends & business associates.

When you’re married to your work all other relationships are just affairs. The combination of what I do & how much I travel is poison for relationships. This isn’t the 1st one I’ve lost because I’m not in town enough. It is the 1st one who has had that big of a problem with me being a Dominatrix/Fetish Film Performer. Probably won’t be the last.

“The best way to get over a man is to get under another.” ~ Mae West

I am lining up suitable candidates for when I’m back in Vancouver:-)

Nova Scotia was good except the whole terminally ill uncle thing. Heart breaking.

Here’s some random snaps of other moments like a lobster feed, farm fun & you know you’re at grandma’s house when the toilet paper has it’s own pretty basket.

Wish me luck tomorrow, ya know, with the whole bodily function thing.
Mistress T

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A Nova Scotia visit wouldn’t be complete without a good feeding of lobster!

An old barn that used to be so important for over 100 years, now just a home to cats.

Baby lambs: awwww.

Grandma’s house…such a contrast to how I’ll use the toilet tomorrow.

On the move…

Posted on March 15, 2013 by Mistress T

It’s been a week or so since I’ve blogged so here’s just a few bits from my life since…

My last week at The English Mansion was just as wonderful as the beginning. Loads of filth was captured on film for your viewing pleasure. Keep an eye on my clips store for exciting updates!

My next stop was a major Canadian city for just two nights. I didn’t announce my plan to go there & won’t bother mentioning it now. I didn’t want to be bombarded with session request emails since my time was already booked by a couple of good clients who had persuaded me to come there. I get tonnes of emails from all over the world from guys wanting me to visit their cities. I usually don’t ‘tour’ anymore. That means that even if I come to your city I won’t advertise that I’m taking sessions. Trying to coordinate a bunch of short sessions with guys I haven’t seen before is like herding kittens.

This trip a client booked the whole day + put me up in a 5 star hotel suite for the night (on my own). THAT is how you get me to come to your city: make it worth my while.

Enjoying 5 star luxury.

Now I am in Nova Scotia for a week or so. It’s a family visit. I wasn’t sure if I should blog about the purpose of my visit as it’s pretty un-sexy, but I guess it’s a part of life & a part many of you may be able to identify with. My favorite Uncle is losing his fight against cancer. I came home to see him for the last time.

My Uncle is an amazing man. When he had put 2 & 2 together & started to suspect my career had taken a turn from the vanilla…before I told the family that I was a Dominatrix…he shopped around for something to show he was accepting of anything. That he accepted & supported me, no matter what.

When I nervously confessed & explained what I was doing he presented me with a very kinky looking stainless steel instrument that was actually a veterinary syringe for giving animals medicine (see pic below) & a set of nipple clamps. Both he had picked up at a local thrift shop.

The gift from my Uncle years ago, a kinky-looking stainless steel instrument.

He’s been one of my biggest personal fans & supporters. Not just being nonjudgmental but celebrating my choices & successes.

I will miss him very much.

Mistress T

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Pay what you want?

Posted on March 8, 2013 by Mistress T

I watched an interesting Ted Talk by the musician Amanda Palmer. I strongly recommend you take the 13 minutes to watch it. It’s really fantastic & the rest of my blog post will make more sense if you’ve seen it.

Here it is:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amanda_palmer_the_art_of_asking.html

In a nutshell, she discusses the concept of asking people to pay what they want for her music (or music in general) rather than trying to make people pay for it.

I wonder if this would work for porn? Maybe not all porn…but would it work for mine?

We all know that the internet & file sharing has changed how we access music, movies, TV shows, games, education…& yes, porn. I don’t want to discuss piracy too deeply but would rather focus on the concept of letting people pay what they want. What would happen?

If I started a website with free access but asked people to just donate or tribute what they wanted to…what would happen? I know a lot of my fans feel like my content is worth a lot more than they pay for it. For example, I have a lot of custom vid buyers who have no problem paying $150 or more for a vid that others can then watch for $15 or less.

Naturally many would take advantage. BUT would there be enough others who paid a little or a lot to equal or exceed what I currently make charging a monthly membership fee?

Please comment. I’d like your feedback. What would you pay for access to my members site if you could pay whatever you wanted?

Best,
Mistress T

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English Mansion UK: lots of pics!

Posted on March 2, 2013 by Mistress T

Wow, look at all the pretty pics! Lots of eye candy in this blog entry.

I’ve been at The English Mansion for the last week & a bit…& I’m here for another week. I love it here so much. Friends, fetish fuckery, filming, feline, food…& hot tubbing. I don’t have an ‘f’ word for that. A big THANK YOU to Sidonia Von Bork & Co. at The English Mansion for taking such good care of me.

We’ve filmed some great stuff in the last week for their site & mine…at a very civilized pace. We’ve still gone out for some nice meals, relaxed in the hot tub, spent lots of time chatting/connecting…even an outing to Mark’s & Spencer is a pleasure for me. Oh, how I wish we had a Mark’s & Spencer in Vancouver.

I’ve always said the UK has the best film slaves. I love filming with all the pervvy Brits here. They’re up for just about anything it seems. Today I had mud licked off of my boots & feet, severely caned a slave in the garden, had a slave jerk off on my feet & lick it up….& nearly drowned another one using him as a toilet. Four different wonderful slaves in 1 day! Yesterday I had the pleasure of using a young, fit one for more sexual scenes…bondage sex, encouraged bi cock sucking/facial & cum eating, etc. Another day this week I did some kinky scenes in a prison cell & in an autopsy room!

I also have had the pleasure of meeting Princess Neive Harper. What a devious vixen she is! She’s in her early 20’s & pulls off the Dominant brat girl thing too well really. Cute like a razor blade: http://www.princessneive.co.uk/

So, all is well here. Very well. I’m looking forward to this coming week. Follow my twitter for more pics & updates as events unfold.

If you’re wondering if there’s an opportunity to meet me this week, either privately or for filming email me to apply. Things look pretty booked but I know from experience that things change. I can usually squeeze in someone if they’re keen enough & flexible: MsT@MistressT.net

(Communicate clearly in any email to me. Tell me where you are, what you’re into/what you would be useful for, when you’re available. Send pics if you want to be a film slave.)

Cheers,

Mistress T

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Sidonia Von Bork & I…pointing out your inadequacies…again…

It’s like a FemDom version of ‘Bobbing For Apples’!

…an Easter egg hunt gone wrong…

“Yes, it’s an autopsy table…but don’t worry, I’m a Professional…”

A prisoner doing ‘hard’ time…

Princess Neive Harper & I ‘pretended’ to be lesbian lovers for a scene…ah, my job is SO hard. ha ha

Let’s see what’s under SophieDoll’s skirt…

Couch potato. Laying around in my underwear…

“Damn prison guard budget cuts…can’t even get a full pair of pants anymore…”

“Sniff that. See if you can guess what I stepped in…”

“Fuck, did I forget to wear panties AGAIN? I’ll just casually hold my hand there, no one will notice….”

Token pussy pic. Too obvious? Seriously, one of my favorite things about being here: The Mansion Cat:-)

xoxox

At The English Mansion in the UK: A Good Start!

Posted on February 22, 2013 by Mistress T

I’m happy to be back at The English Mansion this week. It feels like home. Before explaining what all the photo’s are about I’ll get a bit of business out of the way:

#1. LONDON ~ I had said I wouldn’t be in London at all this trip (just near Bath) but The English Mansion has booked a filming day in London next week at a unique location. If you want to be a film slave for myself and/or The English Mansion in LONDON next week send a clear introduction/application with pics & experience/list what you would be useful for to: MsT@MistressT.net (or to The English Mansion).

I may also have a day at the end of my trip in London for a private session or two.

#2. Regarding filming & private sessions near Bath for the next couple of weeks…at this point I’m about as booked as I want to be but something usually changes so email to be added to my cancellation list. I might add on a work day here or there, someone may not be able to make it…You just might get lucky!

That’s it for business. Below you’ll find a bunch of pics I took yesterday. Sidonia Von Bork & friends took me to an interesting place. It was like a zoo…with an opulent old house you could explore. I love antiques & art so I enjoyed the house. I also love animals. I especially enjoyed watching the Meerkats do that cute thing they do balancing on their hind legs…& I enjoyed the bats flying close enough to my face to feel the wind off of their wings. I’m not squeamish about rodents, spiders or anything like that.

I got ‘this’ close to a Meerkat! Yup I’m a dork….

Camera whores. (Meerkats)

I’ve held worse things in my hands…

Bat shit crazy?

Someone is horny!

Are you lookin’ at me?

I love a powerful pussy!

Can I make that horny joke twice in the same blog?

Confession: I’d actually love to live in a house like this.

After our excursion and a nice dinner out we went to The English Mansion to film a funny video (not a porn vid). Here’s what we created: http://www.theenglishmansion.com/blog/ Here’s a couple snaps during the preparation:

What do you get when you cross a gimp in a cage with a school girl & a bunch of people in rubber?

Something for next year’s Xmas card perhaps?

After that bit of fun we finished off the night in the hot tub. What a day!

I look pretty happy to be in the hut tub, don’t I?

Post hot tub soak, ready for bed:-)

Mistress T

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Exploration

Webcam, Custom Vids & Film Slaves

Birthday advance warning…

Camping in Beautiful BC

Fancy-Ass Session

An unusal day in the life…

On the move…

Pay what you want?

English Mansion UK: lots of pics!

At The English Mansion in the UK: A Good Start!