My 1st VLOG

Posted on October 11, 2013 by Mistress T

Here’s my 1st VLOG thingy. I chat casually about a few different things…including some behind the scenes stuff about filming with Shane Diesel, other vids, my personal life & some sex tips.

Let me know if you want more & what you would like me to VLOG about. I prefer you comment here on my blog…you can also use twitter or send me a brief email: MsT@MistressT.net

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Best,
Mistress T

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The LA Trip Recap!

Posted on October 3, 2013 by Mistress T

I’m back from LA & I’m packing stories…oh, the stories!

I know a lot of you want to know how the Shane Diesel shoot went so I’ll cover that but it was only part of an action packed 5 day trip. I’ll start at the beginning…

A couple of years ago while staying at The Standard hotel in LA I randomly met a fan. He ended up driving me the next day to meet Glen King from MeanBitches to discuss us working together (I later returned & filmed with Glen’s FemDom site: MeanDungeon.com)

We’ll call him Slave Standard because of the way we met. We kept in touch over the last couple of years & he was happy to chauffeur me around this trip. He picked my girlfriend & I up from the airport & took us for lunch. I got him to tell my girlfriend about his fetishes & his real life D/s relationship with his wife. As it turns out, they are both big fans of my site & he was serving me with her full blessing.

We then went to The FemDom Empire to film a couple scenes with my beloved Deviant Kade. He’s one of the best, if not THE best ‘son’ I’ve filmed with for my family fantasy scenes. Both Slave Standard & my gal pal got a kick out of watching me fuck Kade in the ass with a strap-on & then jerk him off in a twisted Mommy/son role play scene.

Deviant Kade & I horsing around after filming. I’m sure he deserved a spanking for SOMETHING.

Deviant Kade taking my big black dick…

After a stop at Whole Foods to stock up on snacks we were delivered to our hotel where my girlfriend & I relaxed for the evening in the jacuzzi & room. I barely slept that night, excited & nervous about my shoot with Shane Diesel in the morning.

The shoot went great. Shane is very sweet, respectful & a joy to be around. If you’re familiar with his films you may have a different idea of what he’s like in person. I was delighted to learn he loves feet, legs & licking pussy & ass. He was eager to worship me & do whatever I wanted. You’ll have to watch the vid for all the graphic stuff but I’ll put a couple teaser pics here. Yes, we did actually fuck. Yes, I did really take that huge cock, it wasn’t easy but he was gentle & skilled. That feeling of fullness is really something to behold, lemme tell ya.

Shane Diesel’s monster cock…my little mouth…

Shane Diesel was very fun to play with…

Moving right along…that evening my gal pal & I went for dinner with Slave Standard & his lovely wife who I made fast friends with. Domina Snow also happened to be in town so she joined us, which was awesome! After dinner Slave Standard drove my girlfriend & I to the house of a boy she had been communicating with online.

We arrived at a peculiar mansion, a real life goth-ish haunted house. Everything was black & the light from the candles & chandeliers was dim. You had to squint to make out the detail of the place. It was very high end, everything was designer or an object d’ art…but it was all black. The boy himself was covered in tattoo’s & wore heavy black eye liner. As it turned out he was a fairly famous & talented musician, artist & tattooist. I didn’t know who he was because his genre of music isn’t to my taste but he had evidently done very well for himself. His unusual home was opulent, once your eyes adjusted. I felt it was rude to take pics of his home & I knew a photograph couldn’t capture the real feeling of an all black interior but I did snap two pics, one of a taxidermy baboon & one in his bathroom which actually had a bit of light.

The house was full of crazy, cool stuff like this stuffed baboon!

Atmospheric…beautiful & slightly creepy might describe the decor…

So we hung out with this interesting boy, we soaked in his gorgeous (black) jacuzzi & when things started to get intimate we moved to the bedroom…which was, yup, you guessed it: black. A huge room with ornate Victorian furniture, gorgeous artwork, a kind size bed with black satin sheets, mood lighting…he went down on my girlfriend while she rested her head on my lap…after she climaxed he said it was my turn.

*Pause* If you’re keeping track of things here you’ll note that I had been with Shane Diesel this same day. There was no fucking way anyone was going near my pussy which was fine, but had simply seen enough action for one damn day. My girlfriend knew this & we gracefully maneuvered him into a position where she could suck his cock (which she loves to do) while I kissed him (which I love to do). He came that way & we cuddled for awhile on the bed, the three of us in this surreal room. It was memorable.

We then watched the movie “300” on his giant 15 foot movie screen in his bedroom (it was starkly white when not being used!).

The next day Slave Standard’s wife took us for lunch & shopping while Slave Standard was left home to do chores & tasked (by his wicked wife!) to watch my vids every two hours & edge himself but not cum. She dropped us at Knott’s Scary Farm (Halloween theme park, haunted houses, etc.)

Me with one of the monsters who runs around the park scaring people. I wasn’t scared:-)

Me in one of the haunted houses at Knott’s Scary Farm.

My girlfriend had to go back to Vancouver early Sunday morning. I spent all day Sunday at the happiest place on earth: Disney! with awesome company. Domina Snow joined me & season pass holders: Slave Standard & his lovely wife. The four of us had a wonderful day packed full of fun. I loved the rides & especially the ‘World of Color’ show at night. It was kind of like the Bellagio water show in Vegas but with way more lights & fire. It was breath taking.

Domina Snow & I in front of the castle at Disney.

Alexandra Snow & I got matching glow in the dark sweat shirts! Dorks, eh? lol

World of Color show at Disney. SO beautiful. I loved it.

It was with sadness that I said farewell to Alexandra Snow who I’ve had the pleasure of seeing quite often the last few months. She really is lovely.

Slave Standard & his fantastic wife dropped me at The FemDom Empire. Another sad farewell to wonderful people who truly made my trip so special. Cherished new friends.

The next day was a fun day of filming with great people. Lexi Sindel, as always, one of my favorite producers to work with & a damn cool chick…Slave Wade who is always so helpful…super cute Ash Wednesday behind the camera…& Wolf Hudson who I was delighted to see again after an epic experience filming with him at Kink.com a couple years ago.

We filmed some scenes for my site/clips store & some for The FemDom Empire. You can find past & future scenes I filmed for The FemDom Empire on their members site:

http://www.femdomempire.com/preview/sets.php?id=14

Or clips store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/8341

You can follow Lexi on twitter: https://twitter.com/LexiSindel

Here’s some snaps from the day:

Lexi Sindel, Wolf Hudson & me.

I just adore Wolf Hudson’s positive energy. Great guy.

If you can’t tell, I love fucking Wolf Hudson. This turned out to be an epic FemDom cuckolding scene.

Poor Slave Wade….so hard to hold off cumming with Lexi’s & my feet taunting him…

My last night I managed to squeeze in one last unexpected visit with Alexandra Snow. Sitting at dinner with Lexi & Alexandra talking shop & life I felt lucky to be me. Knowing these women: strong, smart business woman, enriches my life.

I flew home the next morning & was picked up from the airport by my pal Samantha Mack, had dinner later with my best friend & then spent the night with my boy toy. It’s a good life….a very good life.

Best,
Mistress T

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Paying for sex…

Posted on September 26, 2013 by Mistress T

This post is all about ME paying for sex (not men paying me to have sex with them).

I’ve long had a fascination of paying for sex. It felt dirty & exciting. In my early 20’s I had a very handsome boyfriend who would play along with one of my fantasies. I liked to imagine that I was a very wealthy woman who attended a high society party where the individuals who were ‘for rent’ sexually wore a certain flower. You could arrange to have the person of your choice join you in your room during or after the party to service your intimate needs.

During sex I would have my boyfriend act professional, polite & service oriented. I would have him say: “Is that the way you like it Ma’am?”

I have had a variety of occasions to pay for sexual services from both males & females for myself & partners. A Lithuanian prostitute in the red light district in Amsterdam. A high end prostitute in Mendoza, Argentina & a lower end gal in a brothel in Buenos Aires. (In Amsterdam & Argentina I paid for prostitutes to fuck men while I watched.) I’ve paid male service providers for massages with hand releases for myself (rub n’ tug). Etc.

As some of you know, I have filmed almost exclusively with volunteers, fans & personal lovers. I have never paid male talent for my site but I have had the pleasure of working with them for other production companies. I felt that when it came to submissive men it just went against the authenticity to pay them. I’ve received some back lash for that but the show has gone on….I have done just fine with this business model…but then I decided to try something new.

It occurred to me that I am in the position to fuck the men who are the porn Gods of the day. The men that most men want to be. The men that most women want to fuck. I am not just a porn performer who has to fuck who ever the producer tells me to fuck, I am also the producer, in full control of everything & I can fuck whoever I choose.

It was an amazingly powerful feeling when it dawned on me that all I have to do is contact whoever I wanted to fuck & just set up a paid shoot. I get what I want PLUS it’s for business so I’ll make that money back.

With that sense of power coursing through me I thought: “If I could fuck ANY man, who would it be?” Shane Diesel, the biggest black cock in porn, a true professional with a great reputation. Now that’s going to happen. This week!

In a conversation with another female porn producer she told me that she likes paying male talent because then she knows she’s going to get exactly what she wants. Now that’s FemDom.

So it’s with great excitement & a bit of nervousness that I prepare for this occasion. I bought really good lube today, for example. I also had to decide whether to do the scene with him just POV (just the 2 of us) or with a cuckold. Having a cuckold in the scene is always a gamble. The energy between 3 people doesn’t always work. My priority is to have great sex with Shane. This is for me. I’m going to need to be relaxed & comfortable to take that huge cock safely. Dealing with another guy might be distracting. So even though the vid might sell a little better with a cuckold I decided to make all of you my cuckold. As you watch the vid you can imagine you are right there, seeing what you can’t give me.

So I’m paying for sex really & I’m very okay with that. I admit that I like the idea of it being a guys job to fuck me properly. In my head I will likely be playing out fantasies of being a high society lady who pays for sexual services and/or the owner of a plantation (you know where I’m heading with that one.)

To add to the hotness my current boy toy is really into cuckolding & black bulls. He won’t be accompanying me this time but it’s is hot knowing there is an authentic cuckold I’m close with these days who is very horny about me fucking a black porn star he’s idolized for years. It’s refreshing to be involved with a guy who loves & supports all the kinky stuff I’m into.

So, wish me luck! xo

Best,
Mistress T

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That’s life.

Posted on September 21, 2013 by Mistress T

Life has it’s ups & downs…

Yesterday I was invited for dinner with the Club Stiletto crew. These people are like family. We’ve been filming together for over six years but our personal friendship has grown into something even more special. Shoots these days are as much about personally connecting as they are about work…& the experiences are always positive & enriching.

Yesterday I brought along my boy toy. The one who loves my feet & ball busting. The boy I wrote about just over a month ago: http://www.mistresst.net/blog/uncategorized/sex-cuckolding-in-reality/

He’s still in the picture & things have moved along…to what, I am reluctant to try to define or label. It’s nice. I’m happy.

We filmed a couple quick scenes & took some pics then got on with the drinks, food & fantastic conversation.

Here’s some snaps:

A nice day for a ride on the Club Stiletto pony!

Mistress T kneeing a lucky slave in the nuts.

Nothing says “I love you” like a knee in the gonads.

Isn’t it romantic? I know, even I’m surprised at how erotic ball abuse can be…

So as you can see from the ball abuse pics…our relationship might be a little unusual. I never thought that I would actually find ball busting arousing. I do: with him. We go out dancing at fetish parties. I kick him in the balls & he gets hard. It turns me on & we make out. The way he reacts when I abuse his balls is so fucking sexy, so passionate. He loves it & surrenders to it beautifully. He also loves my feet & worships them during sex which sends me over the moon. My feet are certainly an erogenous zone.

Anyway, I’m sure you’re not interested in all the details of my sex life…wait, that’s probably all you’re interested in…but there’s more to life than sex…

We had a fun evening with friends & left mid evening a little tipsy. I wanted to continue so we made the rounds, going to see a friend who was singing at a bar, going to see our pal Samantha Mack who was DJing at a strip club & we ended the night at my favorite gay bar silly dancing to fantastic music while my boy got hit on by cute gay fellas. My boy isn’t exactly 100% straight so this all added to the fun.

Back at my place we snacked on home made salsa he had made & brought to me as a gift. We went to bed & he woke me up in the morning with a kiss & “Good morning beautiful”. I confess, it nearly brought a tear to my eye. As hard core as I can seem in my vids I am a softy & a romantic in other ways. There’s not many gals who wouldn’t want to wake up like that.

I said at the beginning that life has its ups & downs. This afternoon I got a message from a dear friend that his cat had passed away. I made my way over to his place. I held him & cried with him. I listened to his heart breaking story of his pets last hour. I then had to help him figure out what to do with the expired cat. It’s unlawful to bury an animal in Vancouver so I checked with the SPCA & confirmed we could bring him there for cremation. The cat was wrapped in a towel but I felt he should go in a plastic bag. I closed the door so my friend wouldn’t watch while I put his beloved pet in the bag. I had never handled a dead animal like that & was surprised by the weight & stiffness. I carried the bag carefully to the car & off we drove to the SPCA. I sent my friend to look at the dogs while I waited for assistance. There was a long wait & I sat there with a dead cat in a garbage bag on my lap while other people adopted their new pets. It was surreal.

Life isn’t always sunshine & lollipops. Sometimes it’s about waiting with a dead cat on your lap to arrange cremation.

I spent hours with my friend until it was time for him to go play hockey and just as I arrived home I got a message from another friend who just had her heart broken by a boy. Off I went to offer what comfort I could. It’s a brave person who can love with all their heart knowing the potential for pain & heart ache.

Tomorrow I have a friends daughters bat mitzvah in the morning & another friends wedding in the evening.

This is life. People love & lust, pets die, hearts get broken, daughters grow up, people get married…I am no different than many of you reading this. I hope my blog serves as a reminder that porn stars are people with real lives, not just objects or fuck dolls.

It’s time for bed. It’s been a long day of being a supportive friend but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love my work, I really do…but the friendships I have in my life give my life real meaning. I love being the 1st one called when support is needed.

She who is also Mistress T

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Burning Man Road Trip 2013

Posted on September 8, 2013 by Mistress T

A road trip with my best friend is probably my favorite thing in the whole world. We listen to music & informative pod casts while blasting down the highway in his convertible. We stay in cheap motels, explore little towns, eat at roadside diners and talk. The kind of talking you do when you have endless hours to do it. It’s not a quick recap of your day, it’s the digging deep conversations, the meat of life.

In the RV on the way to Burning Man.

My view as we drove to Burning Man in the middle of the desert in the RV.

My best friend & I set out for Burning Man with a sense of adventure. The road trip there & back, done many times now, is often even more special to me than the actual Burning Man event. We drove for a couple days in his convertible & rented an RV closer to Nevada where we continued in to meet our camp which included cherished friends we’ve been camping with for years & a few new additions this year: Ceara Lynch, her boyfriend & ‘Nate Bitch’ (sub boy that stayed with Ceara & I in Tampa & Vegas.)

Mistress T, Ceara Lynch & Nate at Burning Man 2013.

Lucky sub boy Nate Bitch, myself & Ceara Lynch, the morning after our all-nighter, watching the sun rise.

As always, Burning Man was great. Here’s a hodge-podge of pics from the week-long event:

Behind the famous free bar at ‘Distrikt’. That’s right: free booze. It’s the Burning Man way.

Mistress T at sunrise at Burning Man 2013.

Sunrise after staying up all night with Ceara, her boyfriend & Nate. Those are naked fire dancers…yup, that’s pretty typical at Burning man: nudity & fire.

Sunrise at The Temple. Ceara is on the far left.

Early morning sun by a really cool art piece that they burned at the end of the week. Ceara in the background.

Mistress T in front of iron wolf at Burning Man 2013.

Another awesome art piece.

Ceara Lynch & Mistress T at Burning Man 2013.

Ceara & I goofing around in front of a giant “Worlds Best Grandma” cup. I’m sure all you boot bitches are jealous. Lol.

I danced every day & loved it.

This was my view at Distrikt dancing every day. Amazing party people!

I had a couple of nice visits from the famous Jack Hammer who I had met while filming at Kink.com a couple years ago. He’s an amazing performer & person. His fight with Cancer is inspirational (currently in remission).

Mistress T & Jack Hammer at Burning Man 2013.

It was great hanging out with fetish film star Jack Hammer.

With another amazing Burning Man under our belt we headed out to trade the RV back in for the convertible. The loose plan was to head to LA to film with Lexi Sindel but my friend didn’t feel like doing the long drive South so I spontaneously came up with another plan (& booked a separate trip to LA the end of Sept. See previous blog post). With limited internet access I got the address for a hot springs resort a couple hours away. I didn’t have much information and was surprised to discover a full-on hippie extravaganza. Sure, there were hot springs…but so much more. Naked people everywhere, healthy hippie food, yoga, meditation, ecstatic dancing, loads of self-improvement work shops…ya know, the usual new-age stuff for hippies with fat wallets. I’m pretty comfortable in that scene. I don’t necessarily fit in but they tend to be a friendly bunch & stress-free.

I loved it there. We soaked under the stars for hours & met some groovy folks. I was given a kind of water massage/hippie dance thingy that was fun & only a little creepy. It really felt like we were in a very different place, a different country or even a different planet really.

Photography was not allowed at all, actually no cell phones either, so the only photo I have is just outside the resort where a deer was enjoying the offers at an alter:

Just outside of the hippie resort where tame deer are well-fed.

We were supposed to leave the next day but I met a fellow who caught my fancy. Actually it was his trouser snake that caught my attention…remember, everyone was naked, so ‘trouser snake’ is even funnier. We stayed a second night so I could have my pipes cleaned and it was well-worth it.

Those two days at that resort were surreal. We made fast-friends with many people who worked there or went there often. It quickly felt like home & I understood why some people go there & never leave.

Back on the road again we ended up in Portland for the night & were treated to the hospitality of Ceara Lynch. She just moved into her giant new house so had plenty of space for us. I’m so proud of her, at 27 to have put herself through school & bought two houses.

A quick Portland visit with one of my favorite people: Ceara Lynch.

We then made our way home to Vancouver after a rejuvenating & memorable two week adventure.

Best,
Mistress T

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LA California – late Sept 2013 – Apply now to meet me.

Posted on September 8, 2013 by Mistress T

There are no pictures in this post because I don’t want you to get ‘too’ excited resulting in you sending me some one-handed half-brained email.

Yes, I am finally coming to LA the end of September 2013. Considering the amount of emails I regularly get from California begging me to come there I have no doubt my dance card will fill up quickly.

The main reason I’m coming to LA is social. I’m traveling with a sexy gal pal who wants to visit friends there. It’s a personal trip primarily…BUT I’ll be mixing some business with pleasure… In addition to filming once again with Lexi Sindel & her crew of deviants at the FemDom Empire I will also be filming for my own site & seeing a few lucky fans.

BIG NEWS:

I am planning to film a scene with Shane Diesel who has the biggest black cock in porn. I don’t normally work with professional male talent but I have been a fan of Mr. Diesel’s ‘work’ for awhile & figured, what the heck. It would be pretty legendary to fuck him. I mean, most people would jump at the chance to fuck the porn stars they’ve been masturbating to for years…if I have the opportunity I might as well jump on it, er, I mean at it.

The scene with Shane Diesel will be for MY site, done my way, in my style. Him as the black bull obviously. I’m happy to film it without a cuckold (point-of-view style) but if you would like to be the cuckold in this scene you may apply. A small white penis & a generous tribute would give you an edge over the competition (for once, your little dick could be an advantage!). Age or body type actually doesn’t matter in this case. You will have to show your face/sign a model release. An opportunity of a lifetime for some cuckold fan, to serve myself & Mr. Diesel: holy guacamole, eh?!

Photo’s: I don’t normally do still photo’s of my shoots but if you have a good camera & skills you can apply to be the official photographer for the shoot with Shane Diesel. It’s not a paid gig…but I doubt I’ll have a hard time finding a willing perv for this role.

Other than being a cuckold in the scene with Shane Diesel I may accept a couple of private bookings or other film slaves. Also, ‘social’ slaves/service slaves who just want to meet me, take me/us out for a meal/shopping, pick us up from the airport, chauffeur us around or be useful in some way. Not to sound crass, but money talks. The time I’ll have to see fans in any capacity will be limited & the highest bidder who seems enjoyable to be around will get my attention.

If you want to see me in LA follow these instructions carefully:

#1. Email MsT@MistressT.net (Don’t use my blog or twitter to apply.)

#2. In the subject line write the city & what you are applying for:” LA – Private session” or “LA – Film slave” or “LA – Service slave”.

#3. In the email list what you want briefly but clearly. Point form is great. Just tell me exactly what you want or what you would be useful for.

If you’re applying to be a film slave send clear nude torso pics including your erect penis. (I usually don’t appreciate receiving random ‘dick pics’ but when applying to be in a vid I need to see what you’ve got, either small for small penis humiliation or very large for other scenes. I prefer a fit body type with less body hair 90% of the time.)

SERVICE SLAVES: I enjoy meeting fans. If you just want to be useful by chauffeuring us from the airport to our hotel, giving us foot rubs, taking me/us out for a meal, etc. that can work out really well. If you want to be casual/natural, fine, if you want to be locked in chastity while we hang out, teased or humiliated, used as a foot boy or whatever, some play can be incorporated into our time together. Tribute required…tribute always required.

I encourage you to think beyond traditional 1 hour sessions (not really my thing anymore). I’m a creative real life Domme & a pretty down to earth person. Tell me what gets your dick hard & something can probably be customized. I’d rather have 1 or 2 generous slaves who want to have a more interesting experience that spans a few days rather than 20 guys who want factory-style 1 hour sessions with laundry lists.

Now, LA fans, take a deep breath & send a carefully crafted, well-communicated email. Aim to impress. Good luck!

Best,
Mistress T

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FetishCon in Tampa 2013 – The Recap!

Posted on August 22, 2013 by Mistress T

I just returned to Vancouver from five exciting days at FetishCon in Tampa. I’m repacking my bags to go to Burning Man but I have a few minutes to fill you in on the trip & share loads of great pics.

If you’ve ever been to any kind of conference for any industry you know the drill. There’s a big conference room in a hotel with a bunch of ‘booths’ with exhibitors selling their stuff or promoting their business in some way. There are business mixers giving attendees a chance to network. FetCon is the same except the exhibitors are selling fetish clothing, sex toys, bondage toys, etc. & the business’s promoting themselves are adult businesses, Dominatrix’s & fetish porn stars. Like business mixers in any industry you get a fair share of people getting drunk & wild…but at FetCon you get more slutty cloths & fetish attire than business suits.

I go there to connect with people in my industry & I do some filming. The social aspect of it means the most for me as I run my business on my own in Vancouver & even I get tired of my own company. It’s fantastic to talk shop with those who understand the unique aspects of my biz.

I shared a room with Ceara Lynch. Her lucky slave got to sleep on our sofa & had the time of his life. We hung out with Domina Snow & Meggerz quite a bit. I don’t think I would ever get enough of their company.

The trip was a success. I didn’t even mind traveling this time. I found the flight & hotel pleasurable. So my travel burn out has officially passed. That’s a good thing as I have a ton of travel coming up this fall. Burning Man right away with a slow drive back…spending a couple days here & there in California…I plan to get back to the UK & The English Mansion (dates not yet set but likely October). I have a tentative trip to Ohio to visit Domina Snow early November. I’d like to try to squeeze in a few days in NY to film with Gary Pranzo & to visit Meggerz. The end of November my 3 week trip to Peru is already booked.

Anyway, here’s just a bunch of pics from FetishCon 2013 in no particular order. Enjoy!

Best,
Mistress T

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Image of Mistress T by Space City Soles.

An image shot by Space City Soles who I had the pleasure of filming with.

Image by Space City Soles: https://twitter.com/SpaceCitySoles

Domina Snow dominating Cheyenne Jewel with Ceara Lynch & Mistress T watching.

Behind the scenes…Ceara taking a pic of Domina Snow dominating Cheyenne Jewel.

Cheyenne Jewel: https://twitter.com/Cheyenne_Jewel

Domina Snow: https://twitter.com/DominaSnow

Ceara Lynch: https://twitter.com/cearalynch

Missy Rhodes & Mistress T at the clips4sale booth.

I’m sure someone has a creepy wolf fetish…? Missy Rhodes & I at the clips4sale booth.

FTKL didn’t get to tickle me this year…or did he???

FTKL: https://twitter.com/FTKL

Awww, this poor slave was blindfolded & missed out…but you didn’t! (That’s Ceara in her onesie pj’s behind me. Yup.)

Mistress T & Caoline Pierce at FetishCon 2013.

Caroline Pierce’s cleavage, meet my cleavage…
LOVE this woman.

Caroline Pierce: https://twitter.com/Caroline_Pierce

Gray Pranzo & Mistress T at FetishCon 2013.

Mutual fans, Gary Pranzo makes great Giantess Special Effects porn.

Gary Pranzo: https://twitter.com/GaryPranzo

Goddess Phoenix, Rachel Steele, Domina Snow & some goof ball…

Goddess Phoenix: https://twitter.com/GoddessPhoenix1

Mistress T & Larkin Love at FetishCon 2013.

Larkin Love’s impressive tongue.

Larkin Love: https://twitter.com/MissLarkinLove

Ashley Fires, me, Alexandra Snow, ?, Ceara & Meggerz at the clips4sale booth.

Ashley Fires: https://twitter.com/AshleyFires

Meggerz: https://twitter.com/meggerz

Missy Rhodes: https://twitter.com/ontherhodes

Are you seeing this?! Domina Snow: deep throat Queen!

Amadahy, Ceara, Meggerz, Snow, Sarah Blake, Justine Joli, Larkin, Mistress T & Evelyn Milano.

Goddess Amadahy: https://twitter.com/GoddessAmadahy

Justine Joli: https://twitter.com/justinejoli

Evelyn Milano: https://twitter.com/worshipevelyn

Fetishcon 2013, Mistress T with Ceara Lynch, Meggerz & Amadahy.

Meggerz, Ceara, me & Amadahy…out for dinner.

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Rachel Steele, Mistress T & Domina Snow at FetishCon 2013.

Red MILF Rachel Steele & Alexandra Snow, out for dinner.

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A handy stepping stool while I order a drink from the bar…some men ARE useful!

FetishCon 2013 with Meggerx, ceara & Mistress T.

Meggerz, Ceara & I…feet up, drink in hand…

Jason Ninja is so fun to trample!

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My secret furry fetish is starting to be not-so-secret…

Sex & cuckolding in reality

Posted on August 12, 2013 by Mistress T

I film a lot of crazy stuff. Cuckolding is one of my own personal fetishes and can be played out in many different ways.

I have recently been spending more time with a boy who I’ve known for awhile…as a friend & occasional film slave. He’s kinky & submissive…also pretty cute. He’s in his mid 20’s & I find his youth refreshing.

His sexuality is complex. The times that I’ve considered taking him as a lover his penis wouldn’t cooperate for regular sex. He worships me & is intimidated by me sexually. He gets plenty hard when I kick him in the balls or when he’s worshiping my feet but when I’ve actually tried to fuck him he’s gotten all flustered. Kinda cute.

I haven’t really cared. I have other lovers & I genuinely enjoy his company & service. I love the way he dances (often silly/goofy on purpose which I find entertaining & strangely arousing.)

Yesterday I was out with friends. A couple I’ve had a strong friendship & occasional sexual relationship with for many years. We spent the day hanging out, eating, shopping, going to the beach & flirting. Here’s a snap from yesterday:

Beach time with my cherished, sexy friends…

At the end of the day she went to have a tryst with a lover. He & I headed back to my place for some fun & I texted the boy to come over immediately. I decided to cuckold him. The conditions were perfect.

While we waited the fuck stud licked my pussy expertly. Mmmm…& just as I came the boy arrived. I kissed him deeply & told him today he was going to see how a real man fucks me. He watched as I licked & sucked the fuck-stud’s cock. Then I told him to suck it a little for me. I wanted him to feel how big it was in his mouth so he would understand how his cock would stretch my pussy.

I licked the shaft while the boy gently sucked the head, our lips & tongues touching.

I had moments of awe…that I’ve played these scenes out so many times in vids & here I was doing it in real life & it was just as hot, hotter even, than the vids. Reality surpassing fantasy.

I wanted that big cock inside of me & I loved the fuck stud’s technique…I was excited to get on with the fucking.

He rolled on the condom & positioned himself so the boy could see his cock entering me. He told him to watch & learn. The fuck stud is the perfect combo of assertive & dirty while still being a really caring & nice guy. He wasn’t some douche who would get off on degrading the boy if he didn’t see how much it turned the boy on.

He fucked me, slow at first, gradually increasing the intensity, depth & speed. The boy was rubbing himself through his shorts & I gave him a foot to worship as I was getting fucked.

After a thorough & truly satisfying rogering from the fuck stud…who fucks in such a manly way, physically assertive, holding me down firmly & using his rock hard cock like a weapon…while looking at me with such compassion…his eyes rolled as he pressed hard against me and came.

As he went to clean up the boy & I kissed sweetly. I wanted to feel his buttery soft young skin against me & told him to undress. I could pet him for hours he feels so good.

Warm hugs for both of us as the fuck stud left to pick up his wife from her lovers place.

The boy & I cuddled & kissed in bed. He was so nervous & overwhelmed. His cock fluctuated between hard & soft as I touched it. I know many guys reading this are rock hard & imagine that they would be rock hard 100% of the time in my presence…while others who understand reality know that often guys struggle with erectile difficulties for all kinds of reasons…none of which include not being attracted to their bed partner.

I liked the idea of having him enter me after my other lover had just stretched out my pussy with his bigger cock. I kicked him in the balls a few times & his cock grew to full attention. (I warned you, his sexuality is complex.) I rolled the condom on & we started to have sex but he quickly lost his erection. I kicked him a few more times & then straddled him, riding his cock while punching him in the balls.

I confess, this was more novel than arousing for me at this point so I told him to lick my pussy. He’s somewhat inexperienced but takes instruction well & I soon had my second delicious orgasm.

As it turns out, bizarrely, there is a sexual position that works for him & once we got going it was surprisingly hot. Probably most exciting as this was the first time we had successful intercourse. He looked so intensely passionate by candle light, so beautiful…

I certainly felt satisfied after hours of ‘play’. Sure, the sex act with the stud was more satisfying, but I got a great deal pf pleasure in a different way with the boy. He truly worships me & has other things to offer. I always enjoy my time with him.

I could have left out all this fumbling around & ended the story after I got fucked properly by the fuck stud…but I thought it was more interesting to explain the rest. Porn messes a lot of people up thinking that sex always runs smoothly. It doesn’t. Sometimes you have to have patience & get used to someone before sex works at all. If there’s chemistry it can be worth the effort.

So, what happens now? Will the boy become my cuckold because he doesn’t quite sexually satisfy me but I like him a lot anyway? Will he start to satisfy me sexually so we have great sex but have an open relationship? He’s quite likely way too young to be a serious partner, he’s more of a play thing…but is he falling too hard for me to be treated so casually?

Who knows…but if anything blog-worthy happens you’ll be sure to hear about it.

xo
Mistress T

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Method To My Madness

Posted on August 8, 2013 by Mistress T

I could also say the madness in my method. I’m talking about how I create my vids. I’ve often been asked what my process is, if I follow a script, where I come up with my ideas, how I choose the film slaves or other performers, etc.

Behind the scenes…the making of a Mistress T vid…

I have performed in well over a thousand vids over the 6 years I’ve been in front of the camera. Most of those for my own site but at least a few hundred for other producers. When I started with Club Stiletto I already possessed a strong understanding of fetish. I had been a Professional Dominatrix for years. Before that an avid reader of fetish erotica & a deviant experimenter of fetish in my personal life.

From the first shoot with Club Stiletto they would just say: “Talk to the camera about foot fetish for about 8 minutes & show your feet.” or “Be mean to this guy who’s playing your uncle & sit on his face in a bratty way for about 10 minutes.” and I would just do it.

The shoots were very casual & unstructured. I was given lots of creative freedom & positive reinforcement. It was fun.

When I started making vids for my own site I didn’t know how to do it any other way. I would start with a basic idea (cuckolding, small penis humiliation, boot fetish, etc.) I would just start the scene with a loose story line & it would usually turn out well. This could be a bit frustrating for those I filmed with because I would often go off in other directions mid scene & they would have to keep up. If you are a member of my site & you look at the vids I filmed 4 or 5 years ago compared to the last couple of years you can see that I’ve improved, I’ve become more skilled, but my style isn’t that different.

Over time I have had the opportunity to film with quite a few different producers (Kink.com, Mean Dungeon, FemDom Empire, etc.) & the privilege to film extensively with the best in the biz: The English Mansion. I learned that there are many different ways to do what I do. I’ve been on shoots where the whole scene was story-boarded & scripted. Very organized. I’ve filmed with producers who wrote out several complex scenes with multiple slaves & Dommes for the whole day. I’ve filmed where they kept stopping the scene every time the camera person changed angles & I had to remember the last thing I said & continue the dialogue as if there wasn’t a pause. Very challenging!

After all I’ve seen & learned I still do things the way I have from the start. Loose & casual. If I’m making a custom vid I accept brief outlines but refuse to follow scripts or memorize lines. I do things in my own style. I get a lot of repeat custom vid buyers so that seems to be working.

When I film with a film slave things get a little more complicated.

I’m a lot more careful about who I film with these days. My preference is usually fit men with above-average cocks. Bigger cocks just look better in porn, there’s more real estate to work with & since I do a lot of ‘small penis humiliation’ to the viewer it makes sense that the guy I’m filming with is larger. Over the years the numbers have proven without a doubt: bigger cocks equal more sales.

Many of the guys you see in my vids are actually personal lovers & friends. If you look closely you’ll see some of the same guys in various vids. All the other guys in the vids are real fans who email me to apply to be in my vids. I have never paid professional male performers for my vids but in the right circumstances I would consider it. I loved working with Wolf Hudson when I filmed with Kink.com & Deviant Kade when I filmed with the FemDom Empire. They are both true professionals worthy of being paid for their talent.

The first time I film with a new guy I ask them what they’re into. It can be nerve-wracking for a 1st time film slave & I do my best to ensure they are comfortable. As long as what they’re into is something I think will sell for me we’ll do that. Usually a hand job. That’s an easy one for most guys. Sometimes a ruined orgasm or humiliation or ball busting, etc. Once we get more comfortable with each other we can do different or more complicated scenes.

I do all my own filming. That means that I coordinate the shoot, set up the lighting, put the camera on the tripod, if there’s a film slave I give him basic instructions, hit the start button & away I go. I usually only have the most basic idea of what the scene will be at the start. Sometimes I have a moment of concern that maybe this will be the time I just don’t know what to say…but I always seem to figure it out. I think it gives my scenes a more realistic feel, since I’m making it up as I go along, just as most people do in real life.

I do my own editing as well & occasionally I’ll use a little editing magic to spruce up a vid. Recently I did a scene where I basically just gave a blow job for 8 minutes. (This was a personal lover & it was his 1st time being on film. For him, a blow job was my best chance to get a cum shot.) I couldn’t talk with my mouth full so I thought the vid was a little boring with no vocals. I decided to record a voice over (Masturbation Instruction) with lots of sensual, teasing verbals: ta-da! It turned out great & has been my best selling vid this month: “You Crave My Mouth”.

So there ya go. I’m not sure if you’ll be disappointed or amazed at how I create my vids. Maybe you’ll wish there was still some mystery to it…but really, it’s very fly by the seat of my pants most of the time. When I’m wearing pants anyway…and I like it that way.

Best,
Mistress T

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Tampa & Friendship

Posted on July 30, 2013 by Mistress T

I have two completely different blog topics but I’m rolling them into one. What the heck.

#1 (Business). Announcing my upcoming trip to Tampa.

#2 (Personal). Sharing a really sweet message from a friend.

So, #1: TAMPA. I’ll be there for FetCon mid August.

Here’s me at FetCon 2012 with Domina Snow & FTKL

Film slaves are welcome to apply with appropriate pics (nude torso) & a list of activities you’ll do on film. I won’t have much time & I’ll be screening VERY carefully so don’t waste my time & yours. Only apply if you really have something of value to offer & you are dead fucking serious about following thru.

Custom vid requests with me & other ladies attending FetCon are welcome.

#2. Friendship.

I recently asked a friend who owed me a favor to help me with updating my Kinkbomb studio. It’s a small thing but one less thing for me to do which is helpful. She’s a personal friend & only knew a little bit about what I do for work. She sent me this random message today, which to tell you the truth actually brought tears to my eyes. I just wanted to share it:

Here is your unsolicited compliment of the day: I just have to say. I know it is interfering with your relationship finding, and I know you are worried about your future, but from what little I can see through the kinkbomb stuff I’ve been doing (quantity & variety; creativity; quality (as I gather through the previews), it blows my mind that you are running this business on your own.
A) For godsake I’m SURE there has to be a guy out there who feels the same way that I do. I know guys are stupid, but seriously…it doesn’t take long (or 2 university degrees) to figure out that YOU aren’t MistressT, nor does it take long to figure out how brilliantly you run your business…surely that is going to be attractive?? Geez I don’t understand men…. and,
B) You have so many transferable skills that you will be able to use. I am not sure I know anyone else who could do what you do from a BUSINESS perspective. To be able to combine incredible creativity, knowledge of what crazy shit people want, courage to deliver, knowledge of how to film AND edit (as I said, from the previews, your videos are pretty fucking high quality), marketing, and all by yourself. Mind-blowing. Maybe you will attract a different following as you get older, and still love your job and want to continue it. Maybe not. But either way, I can’t see you being anything other than extremely successful. I’d pay you for marketing & business advice any day. You have so much to offer aside from what you do on camera.
I’m sure what I’ve seen has just scratched the surface, but I’m blown away. That’s my 2 bits. Or 3 bits. If you wanted abuse, I guess you went to the wrong desk (Monty Python Reference)

Pretty sweet, eh? Love my friends. I feel very blessed…or whatever you feel when you don’t believe in God or angels. Lucky? Yeah, we’ll go with that:-)

Best,
Mistress T

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