Road Trip!

Posted on June 30, 2012 by Mistress T

Tomorrow morning I set out on a week-long adventure. A vacation. A girls road trip. One of those trips that you just know you’ll look back on and smile about for the rest of your life.

My good girlfriend is turning 40. We decided to do a road trip to mark the milestone. We’re heading to Calgary, but we may not make it…there’s a lot of flooding between here and there right now. It’s about the journey, not the destination though as we have a list of wineries and hot springs along the way. We’ll be traveling in a camper so we’ll do a mix of camping and staying in nice places, as we feel like.

She & I have been friends since before I was ‘Mistress T’. Actually, the first time I met her I served her a birthday tequila shooter when I was working as a tequila girl on a nude beach back in my mid 20’s. She’s watched me grow & evolve…she’s been there throughout my relationships, as I went through my stripping phase, when I started the voyeur show business, as I became a Dominatrix then got into vids.

We used to go camping a couple times a year and spent hours talking while driving, playing cards, soaking in hot tubs, sitting around a camp fire, drinking wine from the bottle or walking through the woods.

As I’ve gone through all my changes she’s accepted me and supported me. I’m sure sometimes it was difficult to not judge, especially since she is more on the conservative side…but she’s always been an excellent friend.

So, I won’t be online much in the next week. Vids are all pre-loaded to come out on my clips store & members site so don’t worry, you’ll get your porn fix (& there’s some AMAZING vids coming out on my clips store this week, keep checking!).

I’ll tweet if/when I can.

If you’d like to send a little vacation pocket money…buy my girlfriend & I a drink or a night in a nice place, you can now tribute me easily through Kinkbomb:

http://www.kinkbomb.com/Tribute-Mistress-T-20.html

Have a wonderful week!

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I’ve been known to forgo frivolous things like wine glasses while on vacation…

Not hot springs…just a tub…but I’m eating in the tub wearing a funny bath cap: it kinda looks like I’m on vacation, or at least not working very hard…

On the road…literally…

FetishCon in Florida: Aug 2-5

Posted on June 29, 2012 by Mistress T

I will be attending FetishCon: The 12th Annual Fetish Trade Show :: August 02-05, 2012 in Tampa, Florida

http://www.fetishcon.com/main.php

I will be sharing a room with Ceara Lynch again…some of you may recall our last fun work trip in January for the AVN’s in Vegas. We had a blast and filmed some amazing stuff. Here’s the link to the blog entry all about it: http://mistresst.wordpress.com/2012/01/28/vegas-baby/

Last time we had a lucky slave fly from Toronto to serve us personally and as a film slave in Vegas. He worked out really well. He even wrote about his experience (a journal written from the perspective of a slave who served us in real life!):

http://slave2vegas.livejournal.com/

At this point we don’t have one slave in particular who can fill his shoes for this trip. If you think you have what it takes to be a great film slave and serve me/us apply by sending a proper, clearly communicated introduction to:

MsT@MistressT.net

This is also a broad shout out to ANY models, film slaves, other producers, people in the biz, fans, etc. who want to connect with me while I’m in Tampa. I love content swaps so if you want to film with me just email me.

Feel free to comment right here on this blog to say that you’re coming to FetishCon to let others know you’ll be there.

Best,
Mistress T

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All work and no fun…*smile* (Ceara & I in Vegas January 2012)

Come on Ceara, get serious! Kids today, I’m tellin’ ya.

You don’t have to take a beating to serve us…but it helps *smile*. From vid: “Bullied and Beat Up by Ceara & T”.

Miss Jasmine, in the UK July 14-25

Posted on June 29, 2012 by Mistress T

My friend & fellow Domme Miss Jasmine (who resides in Vancouver) will be visiting London and the the vicinity July 14 – 25.

I expect you Brits to show her a good time!

Miss Jasmine will be seeing lucky subs one-on-one as well as teaming up with Lady Bellatrix. She’ll be doing some filming too.

Those wanting to meet her are instructed to fill out a little form here: http://www.eurasianpersuasion.com/contact.htm

Jasmine is great. I’ve known her for years personally & professionally. She is skilled & experienced, very sadistic and sexy as hell.

If you’ve seen me and want to use me as a reference email: MsT@MistressT.net

Find vids of Jasmine on my clips store and members site. Just search ‘Jasmine’.

NEW INFO: Jasmine will be teaming up with Madame Caramel, Mistress Kiana & Lady Bellatrix for a FemDom party on July 19! All details here:

http://www.madamecaramel.com/parties/

Best,
Mistress T

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Jasmine in the vid “Facesitting Fiesta”. Look at those legs! Wowza!

From the vid: “Giantess’s Jasmine & T”. Jasmine is pretty tall but she’s not REALLY a Giant! *smile*)

Follow-up to: Must Love Dommes

Posted on June 24, 2012 by Mistress T

My previous post about looking for a significant other has set records in traffic for my blog & volume of feedback…in just one day. Based on that, I am adding another blog entry to respond to some questions and to clarify a few points.

#1. I am not desperate or lonely and I haven’t been trying (and failing) to find a partner. I posted that blog entry Friday night on a whim as it only just occurred to me that I’m feeling ready to be in a relationship again. I thought it would be an entertaining story if I did find a partner that way but I didn’t really expect to.

#2. Some think that my criteria is too strict?! Really? Because I want a healthy sex life with a decent partner who more-or-less has his shit together? Or is it that I want a guy who is okay with me sleeping with other people occasionally? Because that part is just about having a more honest relationship than most where one or both people cheat on each other.

#3. It’s really no great surprise that I’m still single. What I do for a living is very difficult for most men to deal with. I’m also a very strong woman who intimidates the shit out of a lot of men. I love what I do and I love who I am, so I’m not going to change either just to increase my chances of finding a partner. Being in a relationship does not define my life. I enjoy my freedom and independence. The right guy would be an bonus in my awesome life, he will not BE my life.

#4. I’m not just looking for sex (this time). For those who expressed surprise that I couldn’t get laid, you read this wrong. Come on. Who would really believe that I couldn’t find sex partners?! ANY woman can get laid whenever she wants. That’s just the way the world works. This is about finding a significant other, not a fuck buddy.

By the way, now that I’ve made this mental step of being open to a relationship I will leave the house more *smile*, be more social, maybe do a little online exploring, etc. We’ll see what happens…and I’ll probably blog about it as long as it doesn’t violate the privacy of anyone else.

There’s no shame in being single & looking. I certainly don’t feel any shame about it! I just ended a four year relationship a year ago. I took a year off, had some great sex, dated casually, almost ended up in a relationship with the wrong guy (because I hadn’t thought enough about what was really important to me)…and here I am. I’m open to something more special…and I’ll probably find it. Despite my shortcomings (no one is perfect), for a sexually adventurous, open-minded, self-assured guy, I’m quite the catch *smile*. As much as I might come across as a cunt in some of my writing, in real life I’m actually a very generous, caring and fun person. I’m a great communicator, I’m drama-free and I’m what most guys consider to be a pretty ‘cool’ girlfriend.

So if my initial blog entry made you feel sorry for me or worry about me: don’t. I’m not crying myself to sleep over here, far from it. A big part of me doesn’t even want my life to change as I’ve finally molded it into just what I wanted…but if an awesome guy comes along, I’ll make room for him.

Cheers,

Mistress T (or the women behind Mistress T, really.)
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Gone fishin’

Must Love Dommes

Posted on June 22, 2012 by Mistress T

I know what you’re thinking: “How is it possible THIS woman is single?!”

Loves long walks on the beach…

Now you’re probably thinking that I have an inflated sense of worth & I would probably be a hand full. I can see you are a quick judge of character. I like that.

As I find myself alone on a Friday night it registers that I am single and although happy, maybe I could be happy AND have some fresh romance in my life. Leaving the house would be a good step but it’s raining, so I’ll write a blog entry and see if I get any interesting nibbles.

If you’re reading this and asking yourself if you might be the right man for me, keep reading carefully to find out.

#1. You must be single and available.

#2. You really should live in Vancouver.

#3. You must have an above average cock that works well. (I’m not a patient lover when it comes to erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.)

#4. You must be in good physical health, this usually means you’re at least fairly fit. I don’t mind if you’re missing a limp or in a wheelchair as long as you’re fit otherwise and your cock works/you can fuck.

#5. No drug addicts, alcoholics, cigarette smokers or gambling addicts.

At this point I’m sure some of you are getting excited thinking that you’re perfect…but don’t email me yet. This is where it starts to get trickier:

#7. You must be financially secure. This doesn’t mean you have to be rich as long as you’re responsible with your money…but no deadbeats. I don’t mind paying my own way but I am not paying for you.

#8. Like a lot of women, I like smart guys who are funny. I like interesting conversation and I like to laugh.

#9. You must be a non-monogamist. You must at least be okay with me having sex with other men…you having sex with other women is optional. Not only that, I will likely film myself having sex with other men and put it on the internet. You being in my vids is optional. I know, this is a non-starter for most men…but if you’re an experienced ‘lifestyle’ person or feel an open relationship makes sense for you, I’m a dream-come-true.

#10. You’ll need to be strong. I find that identifying as sub, Dom or switch doesn’t really make a difference. I am naturally Dominant, independent, strong-willed and a bit of a control freak, but I lose respect for guys who let me walk all over them. Whatever role you play sexually, outside of the bedroom you must be able to hold your own without being a dick about it. I love a man with excellent manners who treats a women with respect. A gentleman can do that without being spineless.

#10 – part 2. Regarding being sub, Dom or switch: I’m sexually adventurous. Forget labels and don’t assume you know how I would be sexually in private or how I would be as a partner day-to-day based on my vids. There’s a lot more to me. Mistress T is only a small part of who I really am.

About me: I’m 36. I love yoga and eating well. I’m in excellent health. I have no children and don’t want to give birth to any. I don’t have pets either. (If you have children or pets that’s fine). I live in Vancouver and although there’s no reason I couldn’t relocate, I don’t really want to. I travel a lot (30-50% of the year). I am an atheist. I have a pretty active social life (except tonight *smile*) and a wonderful circle of close friends who I cherish. Some of those close friends are ex boyfriends and previous lovers. That should tell you that even if things don’t work out between us there’s unlikely to be any drama.

Lastly, if you’re reading my blog you already know what I do for a living. You’ll have to be 100% okay with that because I love what I do. I don’t need to be rescued and I don’t plan on ‘retiring’ until I absolutely can’t do this anymore. I don’t need a business partner so you can either contribute to my business somehow or keep yourself completely separate from it. Makes no difference to me.

Want to meet me for a warm or cold beverage? See if we click? Email me:

MsT@MistressT.net

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The face that launched a 1000 ships! Ok, I haven’t launched any ships…

Erections Cause Stupidity

Posted on June 20, 2012 by Mistress T

The primal need to reproduce causes temporarily stupidity. Whether we are actually trying to reproduce or not, our instincts command us to go through the motions. Try to solve a Rubik’s cube or a riddle when your penis is erect or you pussy is oozing lubricant. Good luck.

This is a stream of thought, maybe a ramble, about desire.

I know the “erections = stupidity” statement isn’t exactly a newsflash. Men have been following their dicks into peril for as long as man has existed. You think that we would stop being surprised by now. Yet, when you’re not in a state of arousal it’s easy to forget how little brain power people have when all their blood is redirected to their groins.

Women like me deal with a higher than average percentage of ‘stupid’ men. Men who send emails that make little sense. Who seem to feel the uncontrollable urge to pay a compliment, to reach out and make some kind of connection, any kind with the object of their desire. They tend to be clumsy, not well-thought out emails… and I must constantly remind myself that chances are they were typing with one hand on their meat stick.

In this case women do not seem to be equal. Sure, all kinda of women, this one included have had their moments…but men still outnumber us when it comes to the volume of lust-induced blunders.

I have felt urges that must have been more like a males sex drive than female. On one hand I’m thankful I don’t have those brain-numbing moments very often…but I am happy to know that I have and am able to feel those depths of desire.

I have experienced such desire that I felt unable to make rational decisions. I felt so swept away in it that it felt more powerful than me. I have been so singularly driven by desire that nothing else really existed.

I can’t imagine trying to live your life with such urges on a regular bases…yet if you did have such urges and had no outlet I think it would drive you mad. I mostly come in contact with men with great desires who usually have no other outlet. They chronically masturbate to my vids and think about me in between jerk off sessions. Sometimes they email me and they don’t communicate well. But I remind myself that there often isn’t enough blood to run everything at the same time…

Mistress T

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Isn’t this what we all REALLY want?

What is Financial Domination?

Posted on June 16, 2012 by Mistress T

NOTE: I did not write the below article. This is a re-post from Dr. Sue’s site: http://thedrsuereview.com/what-is-financial-domination/

I think the explanation is excellent and since I get quite a few guys asking me about Financial Domination I wanted to have a blog post I could direct them to.

Personally, I do very little Financial Domination (sometimes called FinDom). My beef with it is that it’s the type of fetish that seems to attract a higher than usual percentage of bullshitting time wasters. Additionally, not being materialistic I don’t think I have the vibe a lot of pay pigs are looking for. I just don’t care enough. Having said that, if you read the below article and you think “It would be so hot for me to be financially dominated by Mistress T!” then go ahead and contact me but be prepared to pay immediately to get my attention or you’ll just be ignored.

Best,
Mistress T

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What is Financial Domination?

July 27, 2009 By Dr Sue 148 Comments

Financial Domination comes from a deep need for a loss of control. Financial Domination can be played in a myriad Financial-Domination of ways but the main idea is a dominant woman seductively or harshly manipulating money from a submissive male.

For the submissive the idea of having a woman take money from him or manipulate him into a state of wanting to give money to her is incredibly erotic. In some cases the submissive male even dreams of complete financial ruination. This is extreme but has been done by many femme dommes in the past. Usually Financial Domination just involves the taking or giving of money either on a scheduled basis, through coercion or blackmail, or just out of an intense need to give.

Now for those of you who are reading this thinking, “you’d have to be nuts to get off on that,” let me remind you that everyone has their own erotic fantasies however if you’ve ever taken a woman on a date, you’ve been financially dominated. If you’ve ever been screwed over in a divorce, you’ve been financially dominated. So don’t be too quick to judge. For some it’s painful, for others it’s very hot.

This is another fetish that has an underlying current of humiliation as well, but again it depends on the individual. To hear a woman laughing and telling you what a sucker you are can be very arousing.

Financial Domination can be done by phone, mail, live sessions or just about any way that’s imaginable. Being a Sugar Daddy is a more controlled form of Financial Domination but usually involved sex. The true fetish doesn’t involve sex at all because the dominant female wouldn’t dream of having sex with an unworthy submissive. The fact that he’s giving to her is simply because he feels that he isn’t worthy of the money but she, being more powerful and beautiful, should be made to enjoy her life with his money but without any tangible benefit to him. The mere fact that he has given the money is the benefit to him.

I use this metaphor a lot when I’m describing the feelings of the submissive in Financial Domination. When you go to a Christian church there is a time in the service where the plate is passed around and every one gives money to help keep the church running. No one there expects anything from that offering. They certainly don’t expect the pastor to get down and say blow the congregation in gratitude. (Lol that’s probably a whole other fetish.) No, in fact you give because you WANT to, you want to make sure your church is there for you next week, that the pastor can eat for the week and the bills can be paid. It’s the exact same thing with submissive men. If it’s done correctly they look at the woman as a goddess, a deity. To offer up money to their goddess is just the right thing to do. Her life is ALL that matters. As a submissive male you want to eat, sleep and breathe this woman. She IS your religion.

Far fetched or closer to reality?

Posted on June 14, 2012 by Mistress T

I was thinking today about how close to reality people like their fantasies to be. Some people enjoy fantasies that are so far from reality that they simply could never actually happen. I would put them close to a 10 on a scale of 1 to 10. For example:

-having sex with a vampire

-becoming a human dildo for a giant Goddess

-having sex with a comic book style super hero or super villain

-having sex with a hybrid half man/half dog/werewolf

Then there’s the other end of the scale where fantasies could very likely happen. For example, fantasizing about a coworker or your friends husband or wife…having a hot threesome or picking up a mysterious stranger from a bar. Sometimes people just fantasize about hot experiences they’ve already had.

What about you? Do you more frequently fantasize about scenario’s that are basically impossible or closer to reality?

Do you fantasize about real people in your life in scenario’s that are unlikely to ever happen? So many of my fans wish their wives would Dominate them, take control and play these kinky games with them…but for whatever reason, maybe they married before they understood their desires or maybe they married someone they loved even though they didn’t share the same kinks. I play the role of their cheating wife, their mean girlfriends humiliating them, their Mothers, their sisters, their teachers, therapists & nurses.

Even more far fetched, I also play the role of a Super Villain, Giantess, Erotic Assassin, evil Hypnotherapist, etc.

People’s fantasies are complex. I could spend a thousand years doing what I do, exploring & learning and still not even scratch the surface. I have always been fascinated with fetishes, kinks and people’s sexuality…and I’m sure I always will be.

To go with this theme I’m sharing a full length (9 minute) FREE vid where I play the role of your girlfriend who skillfully manipulates you into humiliating yourself with the promise of a sexual favor. I don’t mind saying that I felt especially proud of my performance in this vid. I think it’s easy to imagine that I really am your girlfriend and that you would do pretty much anything I suggest…

“Cum On Your Own Face 2” :

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Cum On Your Own Face 2

Best,
Mistress T

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Worship MY Feet!

Posted on June 3, 2012 by Mistress T

“Foot fetishism is the most common form of sexual fetish related to the body.” Quote from Wikipedia.

“Neurologist Vilayanur S. Ramachandran proposed that foot fetishism is caused by the feet and the genitals occupying adjacent areas of the somatosensory cortex, possibly entailing some neural crosstalk between the two.” Quote from Wikipedia.

I probably have the tiniest feet you’ve ever seen on an adult female. They are a US size 4. Most ladies shoes start at 5. That means it’s very difficult for me to find shoes…but barefoot, wow, my feet are something to behold.

I love having my feel worshiped. They are sensitive but not ticklish. There seems to be a direct link to my pussy since when done properly, licking my foot triggers my pussy juices.

Here’s a collection of images to stimulate YOUR genitals. Enjoy!
Best,
Mistress T

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