Top 3 Favorite Places

I just tweeted to my 46K followers that I’m taking requests for a blog post today. I quickly received a variety of topics but the one that stood out was this one from  :

I’d love to know if you have a top say 3 places to visit in the world. For either work or pleasure Mistress. Xx”
That seems appropriate considering that I am traveling right now (in Phoenix).
Before listing 3 places I’ll give you a bit of background, for those who don’t know me very well (yet).
I love to travel. I caught the travel bug at 18 when I took my first trip to Cancun, Mexico from Nova Scotia. I’d never been out of the province & never been in an airplane. It was a huge adventure & I was hooked. I started traveling every chance I could. I have now been all over Canada & the US, including a few trips to Hawaii. India (twice), Toyko, Thailand (5 times), Vietnam, Cambodia, Brazil, Argentina, Peru, Bali, Cuba, Belize, Mexico (4 times), England (8 times?), Paris (3 times), Amsterdam, Brussels, Italy, Berlin, Budapest, Greece…I think that’s all?
Most of the travel was on a shoestring budget/back packing. For example, I spent 3 weeks traveling around Cuba, staying in Cuban’s homes, not in a resort. I’ll give Cuba an honorable mention for the wonderful people & their sexy dancing: yum.
Cuba

Cuba

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Cuba

My #1 favorite place is Thailand. I like the warmth, I love the food, the people are friendly, the beaches are stunning, getting frequent Thai massages for around $10 agrees with me (everything is very affordable there) & it’s an easy/safe place to travel.
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Thailand

My #2 favorite place is Maui. Mostly because of Little Beach which is a gay-friendly, clothing-optional beach. Being naked in an open-minded setting is my happy place. The weather is also great in Maui. It is part of the US so it’s very civilized which for me is both a pro & a con. I enjoy experiencing different cultures so I find the familiarity both boring & a comfort. My only real complaint about beautiful Maui is that it tends to be a bit expensive.
Maui

Maui

My #3 favorite place is Paris. I find beaches more relaxing than cities but as far as cities go, it’s hard to beat Paris (although New York is pretty awesome too!). I love the architecture, the museums, the fashion…but most of all: the food! I dream of their fresh croissants, their cheese, their wine…it seems like everything tastes better in Paris. I also get a kick out of their surly & indifferent service. Servers in cafe’s & restaurants don’t work for tips so they don’t lay on syrupy sweet phony customer service. I enjoy the honesty of their indifference to me. It’s a refreshing change.
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Paris

In writing this post I found myself remembering the positive things about all the places I’ve traveled. Sometimes it was the views, sometimes it was the architecture, the food, the people, the weather, the culture…sometimes the person I traveled with made the experience more or less enjoyable. Mostly though it was what I learned about myself through travel. For example, my own personal limits to discomfort, stress, unfamiliarity, etc. My ability (or inability) to maintain a positive attitude in challenging situations. I learned what I’m actually not that bothered by (I have a much higher tolerance for dirt when traveling, for example…I’ve slept on the floor of filthy trains in India, I’ve stayed in some pretty dodgy places all over the world, I am less bothered by my own personal hygiene when traveling & will wear cloths a lot more in between washing than I normally would…& I don’t care.)
I’ve learned to be more accepting of different people & different cultures. This is not an insignificant thing. It perhaps played into my being more accepting of people with a variety of fetishes & kinks.
I could go on & on about travel. A topic I am extremely passionate about. I’ve had amazing adventures & experiences. Feel free to ask questions in the comments section.

Relaxing in Phoenix…

I write this from sunny Phoenix in a comfortable apartment I rented for a couple of weeks. I’ll soon head out to the Jacuzzi & maybe take a swim in the heated pool. Not sure it’s hot enough for that today, we’ll see.

I can relax...see! :-)

I can relax…see! 🙂

I’ve only been in Phoenix for a couple of days & I haven’t seen much yet. After moving around so much (7 places in 2 weeks!) I was ready to just chill, read, make love in the middle of the day, eat at home & sleep. I’m reading “Sex At Dawn” in case you’re interested…& I’ve been watching “Blacklist” on Netflix.

It was quite an action-packed 2 weeks. Lots of visits with friends, lots of beautiful terrain, discovering new places, etc. I filmed some fantastic content in Vegas with Slave Wade, who Lexi Sindel graciously loaned to me. Sharing is caring!

Poor Slave Wade....so hard to hold off cumming with Lexi's & my feet taunting him...

Poor Slave Wade….so hard to hold off cumming with Lexi’s & my feet taunting him…

I almost had a session in Vegas but that didn’t work out at planned. I only accept the occasional generous booking these days & I always require a deposit. Any Pro Domme will tell you that guys who book sessions often flake out, cancel, chicken out, etc. It’s just part of the business. Even when they make a deposit they’ll often jam out but it does make those incidents less irritating.

So I accepted a booking with a deposit & arrived at the clients hotel early to enjoy the spa & to have a snack with my boyfriend in the cafe. A half an hour before the session the client emailed to say that he was so nervous he’d given himself an upset tummy so needed to cancel. I told him that he should at least come say hello & not miss the opportunity to meet me. He said he was on his way down.

I waited. I finished my food & paid. He hadn’t shown up. I emailed to say I was leaving & he said he was just too nervous to meet me. As I was leaving I saw a shifty guy looking at me funny. I paused long enough to give him a chance to say hello. He didn’t. I figured it was him but what was I to do? I walked away as he was emailing me to please come back & give him another chance. I didn’t but he sent more money for wasting my time.

What do you think about that?

Here’s a blast from the past. When I was a newbie Domme (nearly a decade ago) I used to go to cities like Calgary & do these crazy marathon work days. Holed up in a basic 3 star hotel room for a few days seeing 6-9 clients a day (1-2 hour sessions). I had a limited offering & hotel rooms were not equipped like dungeons so my sessions were often similar. Tying guys to beds or chairs, CBT/NT, sensory deprivation, golden showers, foot/boot worship and a whole lot of strap-on. I used to get reviewed on a popular review site & after one of these trips 3 different guys gave almost identical reviews. Oops. *smile*

Mistress T strap-on circa 2007

I did a whole lotta strap-on in my early days…

Those days are behind me. No more assembly line sessions. I take them when I’m in the mood, when I think I’ll enjoy someone & when the money is compelling enough. I confess, I get a rush out of being offered a lot of money for a little of my time & attention. Maybe there’s a bit of a Financial Domme in me after all?

So here I am in Phoenix, trying to set up filming in the next couple of weeks. I know I can only relax for so long before getting antsy. I thrive on being productive and I want to film. My happy place is in front of the camera. I have a couple of guys lined up this week but I don’t count my chickens until their hatched. I haven’t had as many applicants as I would have liked. Not yet anyway. Frankly, I’m surprised…although it seems that the more famous I become the more intimidated guys get. The nervous Vegas guy isn’t the first one to chicken out like that.

I’m just a nice, normal person in real life. I’m really fun to film with, nothing to be scared of.

Okay, maybe be a little scared:-)

Okay, maybe be a little scared:-)

After Phoenix we’re heading to Joshua Tree & Palm Springs for about 10 days then doing a faster road trip back up to Vancouver. Probably not stopping long enough anywhere on the way home to see anyone, but it’s a road trip after all, which allows more flexibility.

In other news, I’ve revived my Tumblr account & will start posting more on there…if you’re into that sort of thing? https://www.tumblr.com/blog/mistress-t-fetish

Best,
Mistress T

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Road Trip so far…& shout out for film slaves in Phoenix!

This is a 2 parter…a bunch of pics from our road trip so far (2 weeks into a 6 or 7 week trip). Scroll down for details on Phoenix.

We visited Ceara Lynch in Portland!

We visited Ceara Lynch in Portland!

Ceara Lynch: http://www.cearalynch.com/

Visited Jack Hammer in San Francisco. Well-known bondage adult performer, Director of http://HardTied.com ...among other things:-)

Visited Jack Hammer in San Francisco. Well-known bondage adult performer, Director of http://HardTied.com …among other things:-)

Jack Hammer: http://jackhammer.xxx/

Stunning Laguna Beach

Stunning Laguna Beach

Lexi Sindel! Love this woman.

Lexi Sindel! Love this woman.

Lexi Sindel’s FemDom Empire: http://femdomempire.com/videos/

Christian XXX - Super famous adult porn performer...currently creating the best TS porn on the internet: Pure TS

Christian XXX – Super famous adult porn performer…currently creating the best TS porn on the internet: Pure TS

Christian XXX’s Pure TS: http://pure-ts.com

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Those are my boyfriends hands…jealous?

Filming fun in Vegas... Lexi Sindel graciously loaned me her slave (Slave Wade)

Filming fun in Vegas… Lexi Sindel graciously loaned me her slave (Slave Wade)

Slave Wade’s twitter: https://twitter.com/slavewade

I managed to squeeze in some spa time in Vegas:-)

I managed to squeeze in some spa time in Vegas:-)

Went for tea with Lexi Sindel & Mina Thorne in Vegas!

Went for tea with Lexi Sindel & Mina Thorne in Vegas!

Mina Thorne: http://www.minathorne.com/

We so Cirque Du Soleil's "O" in Vegas, it was fantastic!

We so Cirque Du Soleil’s “O” in Vegas, it was fantastic!

We’ll be in Phoenix the next 2-3 weeks. I am happy to film if I have the right fella’s to film with. Here’s what I’m interested in filming:

– FemDom/fetish hand job scenes: if you have a nice looking cock & you can cum from a hand job, you might be in luck. It’s easier to film if you don’t have a big tummy & aesthetically I prefer less body hair. Can be filmed from the waist down only (so I don’t care if you don’t want to show your face.) There’s a wide range of themes possible under this category from MILF scenes to glove or pantyhose fetish, orgasm control, ruined orgasm, therapist, etc. etc.

– Cuckolding with or without encouraged bi/cocksucking/creampie or cum eating: My guy is bi-flexible. If you think you’d make a good cuckold for a cuckolding scene or if you want to suck cock on my command, this might be right for you. How you look doesn’t actually matter in this case. Cuckolds come in a wide range of styles.

– Ballbusting: only for those who can really take it.

That’s probably about it but feel free to email if you think you would be valuable in some other way. I do not plan to film anything messy (no strap-on or toilet), no extreme pain stuff or anything loud like spanking.

I have zero patience for flakes these days so a $50 deposit will be required to show you are serious. This is an amazing opportunity to meet me & have a souvenir of your experience. There’s a reason why so many of my film slaves film with me over & over.

PRIVATE SESSIONS: I’m in Phoenix to relax & to film a little if the right guys come along. Private sessions or social sessions will only be considered for the very generous.

EMAIL: MsT@MistressT.net

Cheers,

Mistress T

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