What do you see?

What do you see when you look at the picture above? Do you see a Dominant, sexual woman? Maybe I’m inviting you to crawl up those stairs & service my feet or pussy? Do you think I’d want you to fuck me? Can you see the crotch of my panties are wet? Does that tell you I’m already horny & ready? Or does it imply that I’ve already had sex & another man’s cum is seeping out?

The position: legs wide open…along with the look on my face…does it communicate sexual power? Is it intimidating? If you were actually there would you have the balls to actually come closer & try to please me?

Now look at it in a different way…is the picture objectifying? Although not nude, it is overtly sexual & you can almost make out some details of my vagina through the wet crotch. If my expression was a little different, a shy smile & the camera angle was looking down at me…wouldn’t it feel very different? Innocent maybe?

The imbalance of power is so important, isn’t it? Most of the men who read this want me to appear Dominant. They want me to be in control because they so badly crave to give up control. That is the minority though…there are way more images of women portrayed as objects, having things done TO them, etc. As a society, are we naturally more hard wired to find female objectification hot or have we been conditioned to be that way? Even though many of you reading this may not be into female objectification or submissive females…there’s no denying that many, many people are. Not just men either.

There’s a lot more I could say but I’d like to hear from you. Maybe have an open discussion about this rather than just a monologue. There’s a comments section. Please share your thoughts about female objectification, power exchange, etc. Or tell me your first thoughts or what story you created in your mind when you looked at the photo above.

Best,
Mistress T

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The FemDomme Uniform

How do you recognize a truly Dominant woman?

The ultimate Pro Domme accessory is a slave.

The ultimate Pro Domme accessory is a slave.

Many imagine a woman wearing leather or latex, maybe a corset, certainly severe high heeled boots or shoes. Maybe stockings & garters, leather or latex gloves, red lipstick & holding a whip. This is the cliche image of a Dominatrix.

My favorite Domme outfit.

My favorite Domme outfit.

Some in the traditional ‘scene’ feel that a real Dominatrix doesn’t get naked. The many Financial Dommes (Fin Dommes) have taken their own twist on that. They never get naked but they will tease in tiny bikini’s or lingerie, slutty dresses, jeans, etc. but rarely in BDSM fetish attire.

Boss of the year?

Boss of the year?

Being Dominant is about being in control, so some men feel a powerful business suit puts the woman in the drivers seat. On International Women’s Day it’s interesting to note that when it comes to politics, owning or running large corporations or holding senior management positions…the vast majority of the decision makers of the world are still male. Isn’t it a shame that men don’t have more Sarah Palin’s to jerk off to? (That’s sarcasm folks.)

You'll never look at flannel pj's the same way again.

You’ll never look at flannel pj’s the same way again.

Since before anyone gave me permission I’ve been plying my craft in casual attire, domestic clothing, naked…& recently, in my pj’s. This may seem extreme to some but the reality is that many of my fans are more interested in ME than my attire. The majority of guys who want to connect with me on web cam want to talk to me like a real person. They don’t want me to put on a show…which is fortunate because I’m not interested in that either. I perform for the camera when I make vids and I love it, but when it comes to one-on-one connections I prefer to actually have a personal connection.

A lot of guys fantasize about serving me in real life. Well, ya know what? I don’t hang around my home in latex & high heeled boots. My downstairs neighbor is grateful that I wear comfy socks instead.

Need all the bell's & whistles?

Need all the bell’s & whistles?

I understand for some guys their fetish is the clothing. They need that traditional Dominatrix outfit to get off. That’s fair & that’s why I go for that look sometimes too. It feels good to get all sexed up & know it makes a man’s knees weak…but if you think that I’m any less Dominant or in control in flannel pj’s, think again.

So, how do you recognize a Dominant woman? The only answer is within you. Does she make you feel submissive?

Best,
Mistress T

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Interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx

"Kissing & Breast Worship" vid with Kyaa: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

“Kissing & Breast Worship” vid with Kyaa: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Go directly to “Kissing & Breast Worship” on my clips store: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Now that I have your attention…

While in Vegas recently I interviewed Domme Kyaa & her sister Princess Nyx.

Here’s the interview:

Click to watch the interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx.

Click to watch the interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx.

Click the pic or click here: http://www.MistressT.net/free_video

Here’s some more eye candy:

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Princess Nyx & Domme Kyaa.

Princess Nyx & Domme Kyaa.

Domme Kyaa, Princess Nyx & I encourage you to jerk off..as if you needed much persuasion.

Domme Kyaa, Princess Nyx & I encourage you to jerk off..as if you needed much persuasion.

Link to the above vid: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/princess-nyx-triple-jerk-off-challenge-full-hd/122546#.Uwf80_ldVgg

Domme Kyaa & I get better acquainted. (FYI: her sister filmed this vid!)

Domme Kyaa & I get better acquainted. (FYI: her sister filmed this vid!)

Buy the above clip here: http://clips4sale.com/23738/10469685
Or here: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/domme-kyaa-making-out-with-mistress-t/

I'm 4 foot 11.5 & Kyaa is 5 foot 11. Tall or petite we still wouldn't want YOU!

I’m 4 foot 11.5 & Kyaa is 5 foot 11. Tall or petite we still wouldn’t want YOU!

Click to find “Height Humiliation” (my newest release): http://clips4sale.com/23869

Want to find more of Domme Kyaa? Here’s her links:

Twitter: http://twitter.com/dommekyaa
Website: http://GoddessKyaa.com
Buy Clips:
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/DommeKyaa
http://www.clips4sale.com/store/23738

Want more of Princess Nyx? Here’s her links:

Twitter:  https://twitter.com/PrincessNyx1

Blog: http://theprincessnyx.wordpress.com/

Buy clips:

http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Spoil_Princess_Nyx
http://clips4sale.com/studio/63457/Princess-Nyx-s-Domain/#startingpoint

I really enjoyed interviewing these interesting ladies. If you like this sort of thing & you want me to interview anyone else (probably via skype) make a comment to let me know.

Cheers,

Mistress T

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Ask random questions, get random answers.

At this moment I have no idea what this blog post is going to be about. I felt a desire to write one today but wasn’t sure what to write about.

Will chewing this pen help the juices to flow? CREATIVE juices, you fucking pervert.

Will chewing this pen help the juices to flow? CREATIVE juices, you fucking pervert.

Looking for inspiration I tweeted to my 20K twitter followers:

Mistress T@MistressTdotnet 4h

Throwing it out there: got a request for a blog topic?: tweet me. Ask me a question, ask me2discuss a topic/fetish, etc. No promises:-)

Out of 20K followers I got only a few responses, which I wasn’t terribly surprised with. My fans tend to be a quiet bunch. Silently enjoying my vids or pics. Saying little, providing very little feedback, often leaving me feeling like I’m on stage performing with bright lights in my face, unable to tell if there’s an audience there or not. Of course, the vids continue to sell, so I know you’re out there. Jerking off, loving me. Your wallets give you away.

steven” tweeted:

global warming,mascot sex,geopolitics…..cuckolding…candy crush…clown sex….men who like …….? sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?

Okay Steven, why not? Here we go:

Global warming: beyond saying that it’s real & we should all do our part for the environment (recycle, turn the lights off, walk instead of drive when you can, etc.) I have a feeling my fans don’t come here for those topics. See ‘google’ for more info.

Mascot sex: keen followers know by now that I have a thing for ‘furries’. I first got turned on by this when a gal banged her boyfriend while he was wearing a big mascot costume kind of thing in the movie “The Sweetest Thing”.

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSz3HBPxz2U&noredirect=1

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Mistress T with furry in Vegas Jan 2014.

I love furries!

Geopolitics: yeah, not gonna lie I had to look that one up, it’s the study of the effects of geography (both human and physical) on international politics and international relations.

At this moment I can feel the collective groan from those who were really hoping to find some jerk off material in my blog today. Don’t blame me, blame Steven.

Cuckolding: you guys can’t get enough of this topic, eh? Here’s a funny story. The other day I was doing a web cam session with a guy who said he was into cuckolding. So I started telling him to pretend it was our wedding night & instead of fucking him I’ve fucked his best man…I noticed that his dick was going limp so I asked if there was something wrong. He told me that he was into being my cuckold but for some reason the idea of being married to me didn’t turn him on. *zing* I laughed SO hard.

So you'll suck his cock & eat his cum out of my pussy, but you won't MARRY ME? Worthless cuckold...

So you’ll suck his cock & eat his cum out of my pussy, but you won’t MARRY ME? Worthless cuckold…

Candy crush: sorry Steven. I’m not sure what this is. I googled it & I think it’s a game? Whatever.

Clown Sex: I think this would be a great way for people with a fear of clowns to get over their fear. Or maybe not? I guess it depends on if the clown is any good in the sack. (Try http://www.sugarweasel.com/)

Sugar Weasel, the clown escort! http://www.sugarweasel.com/

Sugar Weasel, the clown escort! http://www.sugarweasel.com/

Men who like……?: You left this one pretty vague Steven. Unfortunately for you I’m now tiring of writing this damn blog entry so I’m not even going to attempt anything witty.

What Steven...WHAT?

What Steven…WHAT?

Sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?: I’m sensing you’re not enthusiastic about fucking your wife Steven? Is the magic gone? This question reveals a lot about you. Unfortunately for you, I’m not a marriage counselor. I just play one in porn films, and in those cases I’m pretty sure I cause more problems then I solve. I’ll take a swing at it though:

Marriage is about a lot more than sex. It’s about sharing a life, intimacy (non-sexual), friendship, companionship, etc. If you love your wife but feel a driving need for sexual satisfaction that you just can’t find at home…fuck an escort or see a Dominatrix (depending on what you’re looking for). Practice the safest sex you can & cover your tracks to save your wife embarrassment.

You’re welcome.

Don't let your wife catch you! (A public service announcement from the NRA)

Don’t let your wife catch you! (A public service announcement from the NRA)

Best,
Mistress T

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Welcome to Bitch World Femdom!

Imagine a place where women rule 24/7 & men are there just to serve them. Authentic, sexy as fuck FemDom. Beautiful, powerful, creative women. Goddess’s. Worship-worthy. The stuff of dreams.

This place has all the toys & tools even the most twisted mind could think of. Bondage equipment, fucking machines, milking machines, kinky medical rooms, dark dungeons & cages, chastity devices to fit anyone, implements of pain, pleasure, torment…

You’ve arrived here to be trained, to learn to serve, to fulfill your purpose of being a slave to women. You will entertain them, please them, suffer for their pleasure.

This place exists. It IS real. A place where many before you have been milked, beaten, broken down & used. Now there is video proof. Welcome to Bitch World. Your new reality.

You will carefully observe the scenes as part of your mental conditioning. You will edge yourself, immerse yourself & only cum when given permission. You will visit Bitch World at least daily, if not more frequently, to pick up new training video’s. You will consume the offers like it’s the air you need to breath….because you do need this. You do. That’s why you’re here. Enter Bitch World FemDom: http://clips4sale.com/66613

Watch this introduction by clicking this link or clicking the image: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/preview-welcome-bitch-world

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Best,
Mistress T

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VLOG2: Halloween Ballbusting, UK & Sex Ed

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Click this link to view the vid: http://www.MistressT.net/freemovie/vlog2-october-28-2013-halloween-ballbusting-uk-sex-ed

Thanks for all the feedback on my 1st VLOG. I received a few requests for more sex ed stuff, guidance for virgins, the inexperienced or any fella wanting to improve sexually. So most of this VLOG covers sex ed tips for beginners.

Remember fella’s: sloooow down. Also respect women & treat them well. Mainstream porn is designed as jerk off material for men, it is NOT designed to teach you to be a better lover….for women. If you want to satisfy a woman sexually usually smacking her ass & slapping her face with your dick is the wrong way to go.

There’s a little ballbusting clip in my VLOG taken just before we all went out to a fetish Halloween party. I did not film something to sell because we were running late so there’s just this little taste.

I make a brief mention of my upcoming trip to the UK. So there it is…feedback is welcome & encouraged. Comment here, tweet me or send an email: MsT@MistressT.net

Thanks!

Mistress T

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Paying for sex…

This post is all about ME paying for sex (not men paying me to have sex with them).

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I’ve long had a fascination of paying for sex. It felt dirty & exciting. In my early 20’s I had a very handsome boyfriend who would play along with one of my fantasies. I liked to imagine that I was a very wealthy woman who attended a high society party where the individuals who were ‘for rent’ sexually wore a certain flower. You could arrange to have the person of your choice join you in your room during or after the party to service your intimate needs.

During sex I would have my boyfriend act professional, polite & service oriented. I would have him say: “Is that the way you like it Ma’am?”

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I have had a variety of occasions to pay for sexual services from both males & females for myself & partners. A Lithuanian prostitute in the red light district in Amsterdam. A high end prostitute in Mendoza, Argentina & a lower end gal in a brothel in Buenos Aires. (In Amsterdam & Argentina I paid for prostitutes to fuck men while I watched.) I’ve paid male service providers for massages with hand releases for myself (rub n’ tug). Etc.

As some of you know, I have filmed almost exclusively with volunteers, fans & personal lovers. I have never paid male talent for my site but I have had the pleasure of working with them for other production companies. I felt that when it came to submissive men it just went against the authenticity to pay them. I’ve received some back lash for that but the show has gone on….I have done just fine with this business model…but then I decided to try something new.

It occurred to me that I am in the position to fuck the men who are the porn Gods of the day. The men that most men want to be. The men that most women want to fuck. I am not just a porn performer who has to fuck who ever the producer tells me to fuck, I am also the producer, in full control of everything & I can fuck whoever I choose.

It was an amazingly powerful feeling when it dawned on me that all I have to do is contact whoever I wanted to fuck & just set up a paid shoot. I get what I want PLUS it’s for business so I’ll make that money back.

With that sense of power coursing through me I thought: “If I could fuck ANY man, who would it be?” Shane Diesel, the biggest black cock in porn, a true professional with a great reputation. Now that’s going to happen. This week!

In a conversation with another female porn producer she told me that she likes paying male talent because then she knows she’s going to get exactly what she wants. Now that’s FemDom.

So it’s with great excitement & a bit of nervousness that I prepare for this occasion. I bought really good lube today, for example. I also had to decide whether to do the scene with him just POV (just the 2 of us) or with a cuckold. Having a cuckold in the scene is always a gamble. The energy between 3 people doesn’t always work. My priority is to have great sex with Shane. This is for me. I’m going to need to be relaxed & comfortable to take that huge cock safely. Dealing with another guy might be distracting. So even though the vid might sell a little better with a cuckold I decided to make all of you my cuckold. As you watch the vid you can imagine you are right there, seeing what you can’t give me.

So I’m paying for sex really & I’m very okay with that. I admit that I like the idea of it being a guys job to fuck me properly. In my head I will likely be playing out fantasies of being a high society lady who pays for sexual services and/or the owner of a plantation (you know where I’m heading with that one.)

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To add to the hotness my current boy toy is really into cuckolding & black bulls. He won’t be accompanying me this time but it’s is hot knowing there is an authentic cuckold I’m close with these days who is very horny about me fucking a black porn star he’s idolized for years. It’s refreshing to be involved with a guy who loves & supports all the kinky stuff I’m into.

So, wish me luck! xo

Best,
Mistress T

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