Follow-up to: Must Love Dommes

Posted on June 24, 2012 by Mistress T

My previous post about looking for a significant other has set records in traffic for my blog & volume of feedback…in just one day. Based on that, I am adding another blog entry to respond to some questions and to clarify a few points.

#1. I am not desperate or lonely and I haven’t been trying (and failing) to find a partner. I posted that blog entry Friday night on a whim as it only just occurred to me that I’m feeling ready to be in a relationship again. I thought it would be an entertaining story if I did find a partner that way but I didn’t really expect to.

#2. Some think that my criteria is too strict?! Really? Because I want a healthy sex life with a decent partner who more-or-less has his shit together? Or is it that I want a guy who is okay with me sleeping with other people occasionally? Because that part is just about having a more honest relationship than most where one or both people cheat on each other.

#3. It’s really no great surprise that I’m still single. What I do for a living is very difficult for most men to deal with. I’m also a very strong woman who intimidates the shit out of a lot of men. I love what I do and I love who I am, so I’m not going to change either just to increase my chances of finding a partner. Being in a relationship does not define my life. I enjoy my freedom and independence. The right guy would be an bonus in my awesome life, he will not BE my life.

#4. I’m not just looking for sex (this time). For those who expressed surprise that I couldn’t get laid, you read this wrong. Come on. Who would really believe that I couldn’t find sex partners?! ANY woman can get laid whenever she wants. That’s just the way the world works. This is about finding a significant other, not a fuck buddy.

By the way, now that I’ve made this mental step of being open to a relationship I will leave the house more *smile*, be more social, maybe do a little online exploring, etc. We’ll see what happens…and I’ll probably blog about it as long as it doesn’t violate the privacy of anyone else.

There’s no shame in being single & looking. I certainly don’t feel any shame about it! I just ended a four year relationship a year ago. I took a year off, had some great sex, dated casually, almost ended up in a relationship with the wrong guy (because I hadn’t thought enough about what was really important to me)…and here I am. I’m open to something more special…and I’ll probably find it. Despite my shortcomings (no one is perfect), for a sexually adventurous, open-minded, self-assured guy, I’m quite the catch *smile*. As much as I might come across as a cunt in some of my writing, in real life I’m actually a very generous, caring and fun person. I’m a great communicator, I’m drama-free and I’m what most guys consider to be a pretty ‘cool’ girlfriend.

So if my initial blog entry made you feel sorry for me or worry about me: don’t. I’m not crying myself to sleep over here, far from it. A big part of me doesn’t even want my life to change as I’ve finally molded it into just what I wanted…but if an awesome guy comes along, I’ll make room for him.

Cheers,

Mistress T (or the women behind Mistress T, really.)
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Gone fishin’

Must Love Dommes

Posted on June 22, 2012 by Mistress T

I know what you’re thinking: “How is it possible THIS woman is single?!”

Loves long walks on the beach…

Now you’re probably thinking that I have an inflated sense of worth & I would probably be a hand full. I can see you are a quick judge of character. I like that.

As I find myself alone on a Friday night it registers that I am single and although happy, maybe I could be happy AND have some fresh romance in my life. Leaving the house would be a good step but it’s raining, so I’ll write a blog entry and see if I get any interesting nibbles.

If you’re reading this and asking yourself if you might be the right man for me, keep reading carefully to find out.

#1. You must be single and available.

#2. You really should live in Vancouver.

#3. You must have an above average cock that works well. (I’m not a patient lover when it comes to erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.)

#4. You must be in good physical health, this usually means you’re at least fairly fit. I don’t mind if you’re missing a limp or in a wheelchair as long as you’re fit otherwise and your cock works/you can fuck.

#5. No drug addicts, alcoholics, cigarette smokers or gambling addicts.

At this point I’m sure some of you are getting excited thinking that you’re perfect…but don’t email me yet. This is where it starts to get trickier:

#7. You must be financially secure. This doesn’t mean you have to be rich as long as you’re responsible with your money…but no deadbeats. I don’t mind paying my own way but I am not paying for you.

#8. Like a lot of women, I like smart guys who are funny. I like interesting conversation and I like to laugh.

#9. You must be a non-monogamist. You must at least be okay with me having sex with other men…you having sex with other women is optional. Not only that, I will likely film myself having sex with other men and put it on the internet. You being in my vids is optional. I know, this is a non-starter for most men…but if you’re an experienced ‘lifestyle’ person or feel an open relationship makes sense for you, I’m a dream-come-true.

#10. You’ll need to be strong. I find that identifying as sub, Dom or switch doesn’t really make a difference. I am naturally Dominant, independent, strong-willed and a bit of a control freak, but I lose respect for guys who let me walk all over them. Whatever role you play sexually, outside of the bedroom you must be able to hold your own without being a dick about it. I love a man with excellent manners who treats a women with respect. A gentleman can do that without being spineless.

#10 – part 2. Regarding being sub, Dom or switch: I’m sexually adventurous. Forget labels and don’t assume you know how I would be sexually in private or how I would be as a partner day-to-day based on my vids. There’s a lot more to me. Mistress T is only a small part of who I really am.

About me: I’m 36. I love yoga and eating well. I’m in excellent health. I have no children and don’t want to give birth to any. I don’t have pets either. (If you have children or pets that’s fine). I live in Vancouver and although there’s no reason I couldn’t relocate, I don’t really want to. I travel a lot (30-50% of the year). I am an atheist. I have a pretty active social life (except tonight *smile*) and a wonderful circle of close friends who I cherish. Some of those close friends are ex boyfriends and previous lovers. That should tell you that even if things don’t work out between us there’s unlikely to be any drama.

Lastly, if you’re reading my blog you already know what I do for a living. You’ll have to be 100% okay with that because I love what I do. I don’t need to be rescued and I don’t plan on ‘retiring’ until I absolutely can’t do this anymore. I don’t need a business partner so you can either contribute to my business somehow or keep yourself completely separate from it. Makes no difference to me.

Want to meet me for a warm or cold beverage? See if we click? Email me:

MsT@MistressT.net

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The face that launched a 1000 ships! Ok, I haven’t launched any ships…

Erections Cause Stupidity

Posted on June 20, 2012 by Mistress T

The primal need to reproduce causes temporarily stupidity. Whether we are actually trying to reproduce or not, our instincts command us to go through the motions. Try to solve a Rubik’s cube or a riddle when your penis is erect or you pussy is oozing lubricant. Good luck.

This is a stream of thought, maybe a ramble, about desire.

I know the “erections = stupidity” statement isn’t exactly a newsflash. Men have been following their dicks into peril for as long as man has existed. You think that we would stop being surprised by now. Yet, when you’re not in a state of arousal it’s easy to forget how little brain power people have when all their blood is redirected to their groins.

Women like me deal with a higher than average percentage of ‘stupid’ men. Men who send emails that make little sense. Who seem to feel the uncontrollable urge to pay a compliment, to reach out and make some kind of connection, any kind with the object of their desire. They tend to be clumsy, not well-thought out emails… and I must constantly remind myself that chances are they were typing with one hand on their meat stick.

In this case women do not seem to be equal. Sure, all kinda of women, this one included have had their moments…but men still outnumber us when it comes to the volume of lust-induced blunders.

I have felt urges that must have been more like a males sex drive than female. On one hand I’m thankful I don’t have those brain-numbing moments very often…but I am happy to know that I have and am able to feel those depths of desire.

I have experienced such desire that I felt unable to make rational decisions. I felt so swept away in it that it felt more powerful than me. I have been so singularly driven by desire that nothing else really existed.

I can’t imagine trying to live your life with such urges on a regular bases…yet if you did have such urges and had no outlet I think it would drive you mad. I mostly come in contact with men with great desires who usually have no other outlet. They chronically masturbate to my vids and think about me in between jerk off sessions. Sometimes they email me and they don’t communicate well. But I remind myself that there often isn’t enough blood to run everything at the same time…

Mistress T

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Isn’t this what we all REALLY want?

What is Financial Domination?

Posted on June 16, 2012 by Mistress T

NOTE: I did not write the below article. This is a re-post from Dr. Sue’s site: http://thedrsuereview.com/what-is-financial-domination/

I think the explanation is excellent and since I get quite a few guys asking me about Financial Domination I wanted to have a blog post I could direct them to.

Personally, I do very little Financial Domination (sometimes called FinDom). My beef with it is that it’s the type of fetish that seems to attract a higher than usual percentage of bullshitting time wasters. Additionally, not being materialistic I don’t think I have the vibe a lot of pay pigs are looking for. I just don’t care enough. Having said that, if you read the below article and you think “It would be so hot for me to be financially dominated by Mistress T!” then go ahead and contact me but be prepared to pay immediately to get my attention or you’ll just be ignored.

Best,
Mistress T

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What is Financial Domination?

July 27, 2009 By Dr Sue 148 Comments

Financial Domination comes from a deep need for a loss of control. Financial Domination can be played in a myriad Financial-Domination of ways but the main idea is a dominant woman seductively or harshly manipulating money from a submissive male.

For the submissive the idea of having a woman take money from him or manipulate him into a state of wanting to give money to her is incredibly erotic. In some cases the submissive male even dreams of complete financial ruination. This is extreme but has been done by many femme dommes in the past. Usually Financial Domination just involves the taking or giving of money either on a scheduled basis, through coercion or blackmail, or just out of an intense need to give.

Now for those of you who are reading this thinking, “you’d have to be nuts to get off on that,” let me remind you that everyone has their own erotic fantasies however if you’ve ever taken a woman on a date, you’ve been financially dominated. If you’ve ever been screwed over in a divorce, you’ve been financially dominated. So don’t be too quick to judge. For some it’s painful, for others it’s very hot.

This is another fetish that has an underlying current of humiliation as well, but again it depends on the individual. To hear a woman laughing and telling you what a sucker you are can be very arousing.

Financial Domination can be done by phone, mail, live sessions or just about any way that’s imaginable. Being a Sugar Daddy is a more controlled form of Financial Domination but usually involved sex. The true fetish doesn’t involve sex at all because the dominant female wouldn’t dream of having sex with an unworthy submissive. The fact that he’s giving to her is simply because he feels that he isn’t worthy of the money but she, being more powerful and beautiful, should be made to enjoy her life with his money but without any tangible benefit to him. The mere fact that he has given the money is the benefit to him.

I use this metaphor a lot when I’m describing the feelings of the submissive in Financial Domination. When you go to a Christian church there is a time in the service where the plate is passed around and every one gives money to help keep the church running. No one there expects anything from that offering. They certainly don’t expect the pastor to get down and say blow the congregation in gratitude. (Lol that’s probably a whole other fetish.) No, in fact you give because you WANT to, you want to make sure your church is there for you next week, that the pastor can eat for the week and the bills can be paid. It’s the exact same thing with submissive men. If it’s done correctly they look at the woman as a goddess, a deity. To offer up money to their goddess is just the right thing to do. Her life is ALL that matters. As a submissive male you want to eat, sleep and breathe this woman. She IS your religion.

Far fetched or closer to reality?

Posted on June 14, 2012 by Mistress T

I was thinking today about how close to reality people like their fantasies to be. Some people enjoy fantasies that are so far from reality that they simply could never actually happen. I would put them close to a 10 on a scale of 1 to 10. For example:

-having sex with a vampire

-becoming a human dildo for a giant Goddess

-having sex with a comic book style super hero or super villain

-having sex with a hybrid half man/half dog/werewolf

Then there’s the other end of the scale where fantasies could very likely happen. For example, fantasizing about a coworker or your friends husband or wife…having a hot threesome or picking up a mysterious stranger from a bar. Sometimes people just fantasize about hot experiences they’ve already had.

What about you? Do you more frequently fantasize about scenario’s that are basically impossible or closer to reality?

Do you fantasize about real people in your life in scenario’s that are unlikely to ever happen? So many of my fans wish their wives would Dominate them, take control and play these kinky games with them…but for whatever reason, maybe they married before they understood their desires or maybe they married someone they loved even though they didn’t share the same kinks. I play the role of their cheating wife, their mean girlfriends humiliating them, their Mothers, their sisters, their teachers, therapists & nurses.

Even more far fetched, I also play the role of a Super Villain, Giantess, Erotic Assassin, evil Hypnotherapist, etc.

People’s fantasies are complex. I could spend a thousand years doing what I do, exploring & learning and still not even scratch the surface. I have always been fascinated with fetishes, kinks and people’s sexuality…and I’m sure I always will be.

To go with this theme I’m sharing a full length (9 minute) FREE vid where I play the role of your girlfriend who skillfully manipulates you into humiliating yourself with the promise of a sexual favor. I don’t mind saying that I felt especially proud of my performance in this vid. I think it’s easy to imagine that I really am your girlfriend and that you would do pretty much anything I suggest…

“Cum On Your Own Face 2” :

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Cum On Your Own Face 2

Best,
Mistress T

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Worship MY Feet!

Posted on June 3, 2012 by Mistress T

“Foot fetishism is the most common form of sexual fetish related to the body.” Quote from Wikipedia.

“Neurologist Vilayanur S. Ramachandran proposed that foot fetishism is caused by the feet and the genitals occupying adjacent areas of the somatosensory cortex, possibly entailing some neural crosstalk between the two.” Quote from Wikipedia.

I probably have the tiniest feet you’ve ever seen on an adult female. They are a US size 4. Most ladies shoes start at 5. That means it’s very difficult for me to find shoes…but barefoot, wow, my feet are something to behold.

I love having my feel worshiped. They are sensitive but not ticklish. There seems to be a direct link to my pussy since when done properly, licking my foot triggers my pussy juices.

Here’s a collection of images to stimulate YOUR genitals. Enjoy!
Best,
Mistress T

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If this takes your breath away…you might be a foot guy…

Can you imagine being my 24/7 foot slave?

How tiny are my feet? VERY.

Below me…

Lick my dirty toes!

How badly do you want to lick that foot?

Beach Feet

Feet Make You Weak (Not released yet)

Foot Fetish Handjob (Now available on my clips store!)

My tiny size 4’s!

Foot Slaves Place 3

Foot Jobs Drive You Crazy

Wanna be a porn star or film slave?

Posted on May 28, 2012 by Mistress T

I was hanging out with my pals at Club Stiletto yesterday and we decided it’s time to recruit some new film slaves here in Vancouver.

Here’s everything you need to know BEFORE you apply to be in MY films:

#1. I never pay any males who appear in MY films.

Film slaves often pay me a tribute or bring me a gift to show their appreciation for my attention. You don’t have to do this…but if you’re of the mind that you should be compensated to serve me than you don’t have the right vibe to be in my films. I aim for authenticity and only film with real fans or personal lovers/friends.

(Club Stiletto might pay a film slave in an extreme scene like CRUEL PONY RIDING with SPURS. We are separate businesses so your arrangement with them would be separate from an arrangement with me.)

#2. IMPORTANT: You must be in VANCOUVER, BC. If you don’t live here you will have to pay your own expenses to come here. If you don’t have the budget for that, don’t apply!

I can’t stress this enough: read the above line. Do not write telling how you would be a perfect film slave if you can not physically be in the same room with me. Don’t waste my time!

#3. Filming is different from a private session. You may get your fantasy fulfilled or get your kink fix, but your priority must be on helping to create a quality film.

#4. Are you valuable to me?

4a: PORN STAR COCK?

-if you have an above average sized cock + a slim or fit build + you cum fairly easily: you might be useful for handjob/footjob/thigh fucking…maybe even sex scenes!

This is a coveted position and I am very fussy. Before you send that email take a hard look at yourself. If you have a gut, if you’re hairy, if your penis isn’t good looking, if you have body odor, if you’re a jerk or a creep: you will just be wasting your time. I’m not desperate.

If you are a premature ejaculator: that’s ok! I can work with that, BUT, if you take forever to cum or you are difficult to get off, etc. please don’t apply. This is a porn business and I need cum shots.

BONUS: if you’re ok with another guy sucking your dick (like in a cuckold scene).

4b: CUCKOLD

-do you have a very small penis? If you’re ok with me making fun of it you might have what it takes to be a cuckold film slave.

BONUS if you are willing to suck cock and/or eat cum (yours or someone else’s.)

Looks don’t really matter as long as you have a small penis.

4c: PAIN SLUT?

-can you take severe head scissoring and full weight face sitting?

-can you handle hard ball busting?

-can you carry women on your back/shoulders like a pony? Can you take spurs?

If so you might be useful to me and Club Stiletto.

4d: WILD CARD/SPECIAL SKILLS?

If you think you would be useful to me in another way feel free to tell me about it. Can you cum on your own face? Cool. Are you into real public humiliation? Awesome. Do you have an unusual collection of chastity devices you like to wear? Interesting.

DO NOT just email me telling me you want to orally worship me. Guys who want to lick me are a dime a dozen. If that’s all you have to offer, it’s not enough.

5. Mask or no mask?

-if you are okay not wearing a mask you will be easier to work with, but this is not a deal breaker.

6. Age verification and model release.

-you must be over 18. You’ll need to show ID which you’ll be photographed with and you’ll need to sign a model release. This is kept confidential.

7. How to apply?

-email me with the information I’m going to need to base a decision on! Be clear!

~ Tell me if you live in Vancouver or if/when you’re planning to be here/if you have the budget to come here. (GEOGRAPHY is the most important thing, isn’t it?!)

~ Tell me what you’re into or what you’re willing to do. Include hard limits.

~ Include relevant pics. If your penis size is important, sure, send a pic of your johnson. Body & face too if you think it will factor into my decision. 90% of the time I’m going to prefer an attractive guy. I can pretty much only use unattractive small-dicked guys as cuckolds.

~ Let me know if you require a mask.

~ Include references if you have them.

NOTE: You will be taken more seriously if you prove you are a real fan who respects my work by either including a receipt for clips you’ve purchased from my clips store:

http://clips4sale.com/studio/23869

Or your username if you’re a member of my site:

http://www.MistressT.net

EMAIL to apply (don’t leave a comment or tweet me): MsT@MistressT.net

Or email Club Stiletto (Pony Riding/Face Sitting/Trampling, etc.) webmaster@clubstiletto.com

Best,
Mistress T

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Is your dick’s nickname: Godzilla? Like gloved hand jobs? You might be of use to me!

Forced Bi Cocksucking? You see how happy it makes me?

Could you cum from a pantyhose foot job? Awesome.

Got a special skill, like being able to cum on your own face? Tell me all about it!

Do you like to be kicked in the nuts?

Head scissoring hurts like hell…can you take it?

My week at The English Mansion…

Posted on May 26, 2012 by Mistress T

My blogging has been heavy on the pics and light on the text lately…today isn’t going to be much different.

I am writing this in the early morning of my first day back in Vancouver. As usual, I am jet lagged & sleep deprived with makes me feel a little high. It’s not a bad place to be as long as you don’t have to do anything that requires you to be very sharp.

In reflecting on the past three weeks I find all that has happened somewhat overwhelming. It was a marathon of filming. I’m happiest when in front of the camera and I love to be productive so I feel pretty awesome, rather than exhausted or drained. I’m excited about editing the footage and reliving some of the many fantastic moments.

I feel especially grateful for the hospitality. I’ve just spent a week at The English Mansion. Their generosity and care made my stay very special. Sidonia & her crew arranged special slaves they thought I would enjoy working with. They made sure I had food that I liked and that I was comfortable. On a personal and professional level I couldn’t have had a better experience.

We filmed for 7 days straight for both of our sites. For my site (www.MistressT.net) I filmed cuckolding scenes, giantess, latex thigh fucking, family fantasy, slave girl, gloved hand jobs, ruined orgasm, etc. Quite a lot of fucking actually…sex slave scenes, etc. For The English Mansion we did more classic FemDom, strap-on, water sports, cross dressing, whipping…plus some sexy stuff like tie & tease, sex slave, etc.

Some of my scenes have already been released on my clisp4sale store! Just copy & paste the link:

http://clips4sale.com/studio/23869

From my week at The English Mansion, already released: “Ruined Orgasm for Freak Cock” & “Slave Girl Audition”:

Still image from video: “Ruined Orgasm For Freak Cock”.

Still image from “Slave Girl Audition”.

Below you’ll find a variety of pics taken over the week…enjoy!

Rubber? Pony play? Just another enjoyable afternoon in the English countryside.
Sidonia Von Bork from The English Mansion, ‘Natalie’ the cross dressed pony, Amica Bentley & myself, Mistress T.

Tie up the maid and make the pony suck her off? Why not? Sidonia Von Bork of the The English Mansion, sub Sophie, Natalie the cross dressed pony, Mistress T & Amica Bentley.

Glory hole forced cock sucking! Mistress T & Amica Bentley.

Sidonia Von Bork & I (Mistress T) watering the garden.

Are you an ass man?

My version of ‘equestrian’. Leather chaps and a ‘horse’.

I could be the girl next door…

No VPL (visible panty lines) here!

Sniff!

Enough with the ass pics already, eh?

Has anyone seen my pants?

Yup, that’s right, yet ANOTHER ass pic…

Love this vintage number I picked up in Paris…

That’s it. The last ass pic. Someone is clearly obsessed with her own ass. Sheesh.

xo
Mistress T

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MmmMuseums!

Posted on May 17, 2012 by Mistress T

Museums can be boring…I’ll save you the trip & just give you the entertaining highlights.

The first one was the Hospital in the Rock museum in Budapest & it was my favorite museum of the four I’ve visited this trip. It was creepy but interesting. We were forbidden to take pictures but I managed to get a couple interesting ones anyway:

They were well-prepared for nuclear attacks with loads of gas masks. Now most of you pervs associate gas masks with fetish attire. Oh, how things change…

There were cases full of old medical tools & equipment…again, most of you pervs will pick out items you’ll find in the dungeons of most Dominatrix’s: a mouth spreader, sounds, clamps, etc.

Yesterday I visited the quirky Museum of Hunting in Paris. Here’s some pics:

A cabinet of dog collars I assume? They would make lovely slave collars, don’t you think?

Of course, there were loads of stuffed animals in a hunting museum!

I just couldn’t BEAR to not take a funny pic…(I know, I know *groan*)

Why stop at just one funny pic? I was just BARELY getting started! Okay, I’m done now. Promise.

What the hell is this? Seriously.

I visited The Louvre today. It’s my third visit to Paris, I had to finally check it off my list. I did not love it. I actually preferred the Museum d’Orsay, which had a lot more pervy paintings. I found The Louvre painfully conservative. Below was the best I could find for kinksters:

Not sexy, but funny. Jesus looks pretty stoned & is showing a little nipple…

I never get tired of pics of Jesus tied up and abused…

Yeah, take it Jesus! Suffer for MY sins! Suffer!

Is it just me or does Satan look pretty fucking hot here? Bible-thumpers need to sex Jesus up a little to compete with Mr. Hell Hunk there…

Ok, last pic of Jesus getting the b’Jesus beaten out of him. I’m obviously not the only one into Jesus bondage & corporal punishment, there sure were a lot of these paintings created!