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This blog was set up for you to get to know me more intimately
A psychologist has asked me questions for a university course he's teaching. I thought some of my fans might be interested in the answers so am making a blog post out of it. Questions: 1. How do you see domination fitting into normal human sexuality? There is a wide spectrum of Domination in
[caption id="attachment_1064" align="alignnone" width="640"] Girl next door?[/caption] Over the years I've had a lot of guys tell me that I remind them of someone from their real lives. I'm not sure how common this is for sex workers/Pro Dommes/escorts, etc.? Often it's an ex girlfriend or a love interest from their past.
[caption id="attachment_2284" align="alignnone" width="640"] Me in flannel PJ's[/caption] For today's un-sexy but intimate blog post I answer a recent question from a fan (& the frequent question of "Does your family know what you do?"): "Since you have spoken a bit about your personal life, I just wondered how a mistress is
[caption id="attachment_2255" align="alignnone" width="584"] "Is that thing going to get hard?"[/caption] I have a lot of interesting stories about filming with fans, friends & regular folks. In case you didn't know already: I don't hire professional performers. I live in Vancouver, not LA, there aren't even pro's here to hire (that
I make myself pretty accessible. I tweet & blog a lot. I really want my fans to see me as a person & not an object (as many women are portrayed in the adult biz). Being accessible can be a double edged sword though. I often get emails that are complimentary
Sometimes I find myself in the awkward position of trying to explain to someone what I do for a living. There is no quick way to explain, like saying you're a dentist, a car salesperson, a criminal lawyer, a bank teller, etc. Sure, I can say that I produce & perform
I read an excellent New York Times article about sex & what we can learn by what people search on Google. Here's the article in its entirety: Searching for Sex http://nyti.ms/1CPxwKV The topic I'm focusing on in this blog post is the issue of penis size. This article says that Google
I usually avoid writing generalized "how-to" guides because although some things are universal I feel that every Domme/sub relationship should be customized. What follows here is only my opinion. I do not speak for all Professional Dominants/online Dommes, regular life non-pro Dommes, etc. I've long said that what I value most in