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And the winner is…

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Some of you may already know that my site has been nominated for an XBIZ award under the category of “Specialty/Alternative Site of the Year”. (XBIZ Awards are given annually to honor “individuals, companies, performers and products that play an essential part in the growth and success of adult entertainment.) The award events are in LA Jan 9-12. Initially it made sense for me to go. A no-brainer, as they say. It would be an excellent opportunity to schmooze with others in the industry, make new connections, etc.

Then I got an invitation I couldn’t refuse: share a (free) room with Ceara Lynch at the AVN awards in Vegas Jan 18-21. (Otherwise known as the ‘Oscars for Porn’). We can film together, schmooze & socialize together. Am I nominated for an AVN award this year? No, but I could have been if I hadn’t dropped the ball on the paperwork. I was in the middle of bouncing from one city to another when I missed a deadline. That’s what happens when you try to do everything yourself: balls get dropped.

Not being nominated for an award doesn’t really matter for AVN anyway. Most people go just to schmooze and get content. It’s a highly productive and fun event. Ceara Lynch is one of my favorite people, highly intelligent and cute like a razor blade. Her journal is brilliant: http://cearalynch.livejournal.com/

She & I are looking for film slaves (male & female) in Vegas. Although our styles are different and my content tends to be more sexual, there are some common things we are looking for in film slaves: unmasked, willing to sign a model release, male slaves must also tribute (females get paid)…shoe/foot worship, spitting, ballbusting, humiliation…other scenes might be possible, just ask.

Scenes with ME for MY site that Ceara may be the camera person for or be a voyeur for could involve more sexual acts like forced milkings/ruined orgasms, forced bi, cum eating, even sexual intercourse with the right, attractive, well-hung, perfectly behaved film slave…sex acts between the female slave (oral service!) & I or sex acts between the female slave & male slave…again, to be clear: Ceara will NOT be getting naked or engaging in sex acts. This part is all about me…but she may be there as a fellow Dominant, voyeur and/or camera woman.

CUSTOM VIDS involving Ceara & I are also possible. We’ve filmed some amazing content together in the past (“Mum Sister Tag Team” is my favorite). You can email a brief outline of your request. I’ll let you know if it’s possible and what the rate will be.

So, I will be at the AVN awards for certain. If you’d like to meet me there send me an email. This invitation is extended to other industry folks who may want to hire me for their content, interviews, etc…as well as those with a big enough budget to have a private session with me. I could extend my stay in Vegas by a day or two one way or the other.

I’m sure that some of what happens in Vegas will stay in Vegas *smile*…but with luck some of it will be filmed & sold on the internet for all the world to see!

Best,
Mistress T

EMAIL: MsT@MistressT.net

Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
PPV: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869
Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet

Mistress T & Ceara Lynch

"Little Ninja vs Ceara and T" featuring Ceara Lynch & Mistress T

"Mum Sister Tage Team" featuring Ceara Lynch & Mistress T

This, that and another thing…

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I have a few random, mostly unrelated things to share on my blog today.

#1. My 2nd scene is live on Kink.com’s DivineBitches.

#2. Telling my new roomie about my work.

#3. Ceara Lynch’s brilliant & helpful journal entry giving advice on approaching online Dommes.

#1. My 2nd scene (only two were filmed) has gone live earlier than expected. Find it on Kink.com’s FemDom site: DivineBitches. You can see the preview, etc. here: http://www.divinebitches.com/site/shoot.jsp?shootId=16653 (Be sure to leave a comment!)

I’m really happy with the end result. Being ‘directed’ by Madeline was a different experience. I’m used to controlling everything but she made it very easy by requesting a lot of input from me. It felt like more of a collaboration then me taking orders from someone else. She works with a great team which helped create a very fun vibe.

Everyone seems to want to know when I’ll be filming more with them. It’s a matter of scheduling but I would be receptive to the idea if it can be coordinated.

#2. This month I have a roomie who I don’t know very well. We had a chance to get better acquainted the other night when she came home tipsy. In her uninhibited state she asked me a lot of questions about what I do. She was fascinated and it was entertaining to see her reaction to my explanation of VORE, Giantess, cuckolding, small penis humiliation, etc. Usually I feel uncomfortable talking about the freaky stuff I do to people who I think are judging me, but she was so obviously enthusiastic about it I was happy to answer her questions. It’s going to be a little different trying to film & webcam with a roomie around. Yesterday she came home while I was standing naked on top of my dresser filming a giantess scene…I was in my bedroom with the door closed but it was still funny to me, the possibility of her walking in and seeing me like that and how ridiculous it would look.

She’s 27 and very hot. She seems interested in getting into the business…but don’t get too excited: I would be very reluctant to bring in someone completely green without them taking a lot of time to think about the long-term potential issues with having their image out there. Not only is this not the right business for a lot of women, very few make good money at it. I often say: “I may have sold my soul, but at least I got a good price for it!”

#3. Ceara Lynch recently wrote a fantastic journal entry giving advice to slaves/fans wanting to interact with online Dommes. It is slightly geared toward Financial Domination but it very much applies to any online Domme. I strongly feel that it should be required reading for any guy who ever wants to contact me…and I’ll explain why, but first, here’s the link, please take the time to read it: http://cearalynch.livejournal.com/109616.html

Now I’ll tell you a story:

A few years ago I was contacted by a fan who wanted to meet me. He offered right away to pay my expenses to Houston, plus a generous tribute. He immediately sent a smaller tribute ($100 if I recall correctly) to demonstrate that he was serious, just to discuss the potential without me having to commit.

The Houston trip went great and about six months later he came to visit me in Vancouver. Again, he gave me a generous tribute and we spent a lot of time together going out socially for drinks, food & fun. It wasn’t a pay-by-the-hour session although there was some private play. It was about the overall experience without pressure or expectations. Two years in a row he has sent very generous birthday tributes to me. Thoughtful ones: a gift certificate for my favorite fancy restaurant in Vancouver (Blue Water) and the next year a fancy hotel room in Paris for three nights.

His name is Dave and he is my favorite all time slave. Why? It’s not just about the money but what it represents. He tributes to show his gratitude. Plus I genuinely like him and enjoy our many email exchanges.

The reason I’m telling you this story is to illustrate the importance of demonstrating you’re respectful of my time & demonstrating that right away. If Dave hadn’t sent a tribute within his first two emails nothing else probably would have happened. Why? Because I am flooded with emails from guys who waste my time.

Does it sound horrible to say that even a nice email just telling me how much you adore me is a waste of my time? Before you get your nose out of joint, please read Ceara’s post (If you haven’t already? She speaks a little more bluntly than I do). Note the part about women like me getting an inbox full of complimentary emails every day and how long it takes to sift through them to find the ones who want to pay for a custom vid, pay for a webcam session, pay for a private session or who are applying to be a film slave. All of those things are a priorities of my business. An email that just says:”I love your vids. You’re so beautiful!” is nice, but takes time away from business.

Dave loved my vids & thought I was beautiful. He has told me that a thousand times, but has also shown his gratitude and respect with tributes and gifts. He doesn’t make demands on my time but is just very grateful for the attention I give him, therefore he gets more attention from me than most. We have pretty much the ideal distance relationship. It feels natural and mutually beneficial.

I could have written a rant about all the different types of time-wasters there are. Instead I decided to paint you a picture of the type of fan/slave who I enjoy the most. I’m sure a lot of fans would like to please me and demonstrate how grateful they are but just don’t know how. I hope this has been helpful.

I don’t have a wish list or a ‘tribute now’ button because I don’t stick my hand out asking for money. If you want to tribute me just email me and ask me how. We’ll find something that works for both of us.

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LA, Maui & beyond…

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I’ve just returned to civilization after being in the county with family for several days. When was the last time you went several days without internet? It made me realize how very addicted I am to the computer, twitter, email, etc.

I might do a blog post about my family adventures this week…I’ll decide later. For now, I have pictures to share from my shoot with MeanBitches in LA! (See below).

Also, my first shoot with Kink.com / Divine Btiches came out this week. See pics, the trailer and forum comments here: http://www.divinebitches.com/site/shoot/16660-Mistress-T-Is-What-You-Crave.html

The pics below are from my shoot with the talented director ‘Glenn’ from MeanBitches/MeanDungeon/MeanWorld. It was a great day with a team that operated like a well oiled machine. Brooke Haven, Glenn’s fantastic Production Assistant picked me up from my hotel & got me set up with the hair & make-up lady who did a professional job (although again, heavier make-up than I’m used to). The slave was a dream to work with. Very easy going with a great sense of humor. The shoot was a lot of fun.

A couple of days later I spent the night at Lexi Sindel’s FemDom Empire (lexisindel.com). Along with Mina Thorne (clips4sale37562), Deviant Kade & Lexi’s useful slave we pounded out a record breaking ten scenes in one evening! (See pics below)

The next morning I flew to Maui where I spent a relaxing week with friends. (See pics below)

I am now in Nova Scotia visiting family (now in a place WITH internet!). I will likely return to Vancouver later this week. (A rolling stone gathers no moss, right?)

Follow me on twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet
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PPV: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869

MeanBitches shoot in LA - A very animated slave!

MeanBitches shoot in LA - a boot cleaning chair? Awesome.

On MeanBitches set in LA

Lexi Sindel, Mina Thorne & I (what slave?)

Lexi Sindel & I (what slave?)

Maui Sunset

Live hard, die young.

Naked snorkeling rocks!

Safety 1st! (Me preparing to snorkel in Maui with fun floaty.)

Twas the night before…

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It’s 9pm the night before my flight to San Francisco. I’m finishing off last minute packing and details.

It’s been an interesting week. I sold my condo. Got rid of most of my furniture. I’m moving out of the temporary apartment I’ve been subletting the last few months. Most of the rest of my stuff is in storage.

It’s been a time of transition since my relationship ended several months ago. I have adjusted to running the business without a camera man and full time stunt cock. I have explored opportunities outside of Vancouver. I’ve had a lot of fun being single.

I wonder how much the casual observer picks up just looking at my vids. Do they notice that I’m different? Do they notice there’s been significant changes? Do they care? (Assuming their orgasm is the only immediate concern).

Tomorrow I fly to San Francisco. Next week I film with Kink.com. I wonder if the experience will be as epic as I imagine? I wonder what will happen next?

The following week I film with Glen from MeanBitches.com in LA which I’m excited about. I’ve seen him work & I like him.

I’ve been overwhelmed with emails from fans in San Francisco and LA wanting to see me and I simply won’t have the energy to see everyone. I’m careful these days to accept meetings only with those who I feel confident I will enjoy spending time with. Of the few I accept I’m anticipating some memorable times.

That basically sums up what the next two weeks will probably be like: memorable times. This is the kind of living that will comfort me in my golden years: “I remember when I was 35 & I went to California…” This is the kind of living I carved out of the lame existence I had during most of my 20’s. I wanted to LIVE my life, not just go through the motions. I wanted adventure, excitement and stories to tell. I’ve certainly gotten that and more….and maybe the best is yet to come!

Stay tuned as I tweet  ( http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet ) and probably blog throughout this adventure. I’ll be staying in a very nice hotel (compliments of a fan) for the first few nights and then moving into the Armory. Exciting!

By the way…if you are in London & you would like to see a Canadian Dominant women (I know many of you love my ‘accent’) I would recommend two lovely Canadian Dommes who I had the pleasure of working with and spending time with:
Lady Bellatrix & Greta Darklight.

Lady Bellatrix: http://www.ladybellatrix.com
Since Lady Bellatrix relocated to London, she has made it her mission to unleash her signature cocktail of pleasure and pain upon the stiff upper echelons of British society. She is elegant, discerning and strict. Specializing in mind control, interrogation and elaborate role play scenarios such as blackmail this Lady will leave you feeling humiliated to the highest degree. She loves to be worshiped and a foot lover’s dream come true with her small but perfectly formed feet. She sessions from a fully equipped dungeon in London W4 but also tours frequently around the UK.

Lady Bellatrix

Greta Darklight: http://gretadarklight.com/

Miss Greta is a sparkling muse, who combines holistic elements of Taoist practices, Tantra, and female domination into her tailored sessions. She is a genuine scholar of Tao, and a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast. One of her particular specialties is the healing release of emotional, physical pain and repression, through her unique practice which can be successfully combined with sensory deprivation and other play.

Greta Darklight

Greta Darklight

California dates set! Oct 26-Nov 10

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Members site: www.MistressT.net

Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet

 

I will be in San Franciso to film with Kink.com/DivineBitches (exciting!) between Oct 26 – Nov 4.

I’ll be attending Kink.com’s Halloween party and staying at the Armory for most of the week! Can you imagine what that’s going to be like? I was there for a few hours last month and I saw all kinds of crazy stuff!

I will have some time to see clients privately and to do some filming of my own, for my own website. If you would like to be a film slave for me, for MY site (not Kink.com) or if you would like to see me privately you can apply by email. NOTE: For anyone I haven’t met before I require either a reference or a deposit to hold your booking.

I will be going to LA after San Francisco (Nov 5-10) to film with MeanBitches (& maybe others). Same as above, I will have time for private bookings and filming for my site.

Email: MsT@MistressT.net

-Include a list of your interests.

-Indicate private or filmed or either.

-***Tell me which CITY you’re in!***

-Request 2 different dates/times that you know you can commit to.

-Send your reference or ask for directions for deposit.

NOTE: I am currently in Vancouver, which is my home base. The above applies here too so if you would like to meet me in Vancouver follow the above instructions and remember to say which CITY you’re hoping to meet me in!

UPDATE: I’ve just confirmed that I will have a STUNT COCK for this trip! Cuckolding scenes (private or filmed) and forced bi (you suck his THICK cock!) will be possible! (California only, not Vancouver).

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Dressed as a Dominatrix IN a dungeon?!

London Highlights!

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I just got back to Vancouver yesterday but I was so excited about the hot stuff I filmed in London I immediately created this ‘highlights’ video to give you a sneak peek. I’ve posted it on the PREVIEWS section of my site. (London Preview!): http://www.MistressT.net/Promos

You can also download the high resolution version from my clips store (it’s a great way to show your support!): www.clips4sale.com/23869

In the next couple of months you’ll also be able to find vids with me wrestling, facesitting and ballbusting on Nikki Whiplash’s sites:

http://www.mistresswhiplash.com

http://www.facesittingbitches.com

http://www.lethalbitches.com

http://www.ballbustingworld.com/

Here’s a bunch of images to get your juices flowin’ (The preview vid is a lot more GRAPHIC!):

I filmed with Nikki Whiplash! http://www.MistressWhiplash.com

Mum teaches special boy about 'the birds & bees'!

Facesitting!

Trampling!

Chastity!

London: So far soooo GOOD!

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Yesterday was a pretty epic day in London! The British have such nice manners. I received this email from the gentleman I had a private session with yesterday:

Hello Mistress Mommy T

i just had to write to say thanks again for an absolutely mindblowing session.  It
was everything i hoped it would be, and more besides!

What an amazing personality You have, and Your voice is totally hypnotic.

i was a little shy and tongue tied meeting You for the first time, but already i am
really keen to see You again - hopefully You will be back in London again soon - i
can quite understand why London loves You so much!  Maybe next time You are here, i
could be allowed to take You to lunch?

Well enjoy the rest of Your time in London. i am secretly hoping that You do spend
more time here in the future as we were chatting about!

Thanks again
Your panty pervert!

In case you’re curious about what I did with him it was a delightfully simple session. He loved panties and was a fan of my ‘Mommy’ vids. So I modeled a few pairs of panties for him, teasing him and guiding him through a masturbation instruction in my Mommy character. He knelt on the floor by the bed wanking himself while I stood above him on the bed, allowing him to get close enough to smell me, I teased him, grazed his nipples through his shirt, toyed with him not letting him cum until I gave him permission…

I also had a couple of great filmed sessions yesterday. One extreme blowjob tease & ruined orgasm with a cuckold twist. I was lucky enough to have a very thick cocked bull and a smaller dicked slave. I won’t give too much away but the vid will be dynamite.

That slave had this to say after:

“Dear Mistress

Hope the day went well for you, i just want to thank you again for being so understanding. I really enjoyed filming with you and as always i’ll still be recovering from the ache in my balls till next week…

Have a great stay, and let me know if you need anything while you are here.

Best wishes

B”

Another film slave I did a combo bondage, satin glove HJ/stiletto trampling with a climax of me sitting on his face while he finished himself off.

He wrote this:

“Hello- thank you for agreeing to see me, it was (obviously!) totally wonderful… Would like to see you again.”

 

I’m off to Club Pedestal tonight accompanied by a wonderful slave from Paris who I met when I was there a few months ago. Tomorrow night I’ll be at Torture Garden with a very cute 18 year old female submissive. If you see me there you’re welcome to say hello just be respectful of my space if I’m having a sexy moment with someone else.

Things are getting pretty booked up this week but there are a few spaces here and there available until Oct 6 (Oct 7 is now fully booked for filming with Nikki Whiplash). Email me if you would like to be a film slave or if you would like to see me privately. I am receptive to just sharing a meal if you would just like to meet me. My first night I had a lovely dinner at a private members club with a fan. Sometimes delicious food and engaging conversation in a beautiful environment is even better than sex!

Double Domme sessions are also possible with Lady Bellatrix  http://www.ladybellatrix.com/home.html

Email to discuss: MsT@MistressT.net

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Black Bull Auditions: London

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I will be in London Sept 28-Oct 7. London has a much higher percentage of kinky black men than Vancouver I’m sure, so I thought it would be a good place to look for a black bull for a cuckolding vid.

For those unfamiliar with cuckolding, the ‘bull’ is the one who gets to fuck the women, usually while the husband watches. There are variations on the theme but usually the wife is very attractive, the bull is well-endowed and fit, the husband is less attractive with a smaller penis. This is one of my favorite fetishes and I enjoyed making cuckolding vids for the last several years with my previous partner. Now that I’m single I still have many ‘husbands’ (slaves who want to play the role of my cuckolded husband) but I don’t have a bull.

The interracial aspect makes it even hotter. Who doesn’t love BBC? (Big Black Cock)

Please apply:

-if you are black, attractive and have a thick cock (must be THICK, length is not as important)

-if you feel confident you can get hard, stay hard & cum while being filmed (production is small and intimate, possibly just the 2 of us with the camera on a tripod, at most a cuckold & a camera person)

-if you have excellent manners (the bull doesn’t have to be submissive or Dominant but I have to like you so if you’re a cocky jerk it’s not going to work out)

Safe sexual practices only, condoms, etc. Interaction between you and the cuckold is optional. NO MASK or HOOD and you must sign a model release & show ID/age verification.

Please send a pic of your face/body & hard cock along with a little introduction to: MsT@MistressT.net

It would be hotter if he was black, right?!

London Bound!

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I’m excited to confirm that I will be in London, England Sept. 28 – Oct 7.

I will be attending Club Pedestal on Sept. 30 and Torture Garden on Oct. 1: http://www.londonfetishweekend.com/home.htm

If you would like to attend one or both of these parties as my own personal pet, slave or play thing email to apply.

I am accepting applications for film slaves and private slaves Sept 28 thru Oct. 7.

Emails should be polite and brief. Include the specific activities you are most interested in, what you would be willing to try for my pleasure and hard limits.

Offer a couple of dates and times that you are sure you can commit to. Be respectful of my time. I network with other Dommes and we share no-see lists. If you have a reference and/or if you offer a deposit to demonstrate your level of interest you will be rewarded.

Email: MsT@MistressT.net

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Strap-on Training: Learn to suck it properly and take it in your man-pussy...

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Boot worship: Lick the filth off of my boots!
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Roleplay: Mom's good boy...

Foot worship

Foot Worship: Lick my feet like you would lick my pussy...

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Spanking: Naked, on hands & knees...

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Trampling: Beneath me, where he belongs!

An Epic San Fran Day

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Yes, I know, I’m still behind in my Burning Man blog…I will get to it and yes, there will be fun pics of me in bizarre costumes…but ‘this’ I can not wait to tell.

Today I met with Kink.com. For those with a short attention span: I got the gig. There is a happy ending.

For those who like to read, I’ll make it worth your while.

For the last year one of my main goals was to have an opportunity to appear on DivineBitches, a Kink.com website. Kink.com being the biggest fetish film producer in the world (as far as I know) located in San Francisco.

I voiced this goal to whoever would listen, including the big time agent I met with in LA last week (the one who did not want to take me on as a client) but he did give me the right contact info for Kink.com…which led to my meeting today.

I arrived at the armory a bit nervous. Yes, they have an entire, historic armory. The talent manager was very nice and the meeting went well but was by no means ‘in the bag’. It depended on if the directors wanted to shoot with me, he said. We talked about everything that needed to be talked about and then it was picture time. I happily disrobed and posed naked in a few positions, especially nailing the butt angles. He complimented me on my ample bottom, and knowing that he didn’t know how famous I was for my ass I just smiled to myself.

We then went downstairs looking for Maitresse Madeline, the director for DivineBitches. We ended up in a dingy, empty basement with crumbling walls and floors. I commented that this would actually make for a great scene: gal comes for a meeting, gets led down to a deserted basement…fill in the blanks. That was not the case though and we did eventually find where Madeline was filming. As soon as we entered the space she recognized me, seemed excited to see me and asked why I was there. The talent manager explained that I wanted to work on DivineBitches and she said: “she’s hired, set it up for as soon as possible.” (I had never met her before but I suppose we both know each other from our online reputations.)

As we walked out the talent manager could probably read a bit of shock on my face so he said it again: “You’re hired. That’s it. We’ll set it up.”

I left feeling a bit shell-shocked but happy. I walked a few blocks, called my mom to tell her the news, got her voice mail and then started looking for a cab. I was standing on the corner looking for a random cab when the window of a parked limo rolled down and a middle-aged hippie rolling a joint asked: “Are you lost?”. I said I was just looking for a cab. He continued to roll his joint and asked where I was going, then said he would take me for $20. I knew my destination was at least a $15 cab ride away and read a dope smokin’ hippie with a limo to be relatively harmless so decided to go for it.

For the fearful and cautious, know that there are more people in this world who would rather hug you than hurt you…and I’m a pretty keen judge of character.

He turned out to be an entertaining dude. He ran a legal marijuana dispensary out of his limo. We even went for lunch.

After lunch I went back to my hotel room, filmed some smut and then it was time to clean laundry. I’ve been traveling for awhile now so it needed to be done. From traveling often I’ve picked up the habit of wearing just a few outfits all the time and really, this simplicity removes a lot of stress from my life.

I had to go to a corner store to get smaller bills for laundry change. Alcohol in corner stores is a novelty to us Canadians so I decided to buy a mini bottle of champagne to celebrate my good news. Booze and laundry? Why not. I was on my own as my travel buddy was off doing his own thing for the afternoon and it was nice to have some alone time to reflect & plan. So while my clothes were being washed I went for a walk, sipping champagne from the bottle feeling a bit reckless thinking that if my fans could only see me now…no doubt they would wonder:

A. Why is a slave not doing your laundry?

B. Why aren’t you drinking the champagne from a crystal flute instead from the bottle?

While my clothes were in the dryer I went looking for food (and more champagne as I had finished my mini-bottle). When I saw a place called ‘The Tipsy Pig” I couldn’t resist. I ended up having a nice chat with an Irish fellow at the bar until my friend arrived. Nothing else of note happened but just one positive meeting at Kink.com is really enough to make a day epic, with or without the booze & laundry fun.

Below: a pic of the sign in front of the the www.Kink.com building, a pic of me in the limo and a pic of me with my mini bottle of champagne. Tell me what’s behind me/where I am and get a free 3 day membership to my website: www.MistressT.net (Either email MsT@MistressT.net or send me a direct message through twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet

Sign at Kink.com

Mistress T in a random limo

Guess my location & win!