It's been a year since my last blog post. And what a year it has been. For the casual observer, things probably look fine. For the careful observer, you likely know that things have been very different for me during the pandemic. I have not been seeing fans in person for
My 44th birthday is coming up. I don't want gifts. This is not a shout out for you to send me stuff. I do want something from you though. On my birthday this year I would like to be showered with stories of kindness, generosity, love. You have a couple of weeks
Hello darlings, It's been awhile so we have much to catch up on! My book came out in December which ended up being more emotional than I had prepared for. If you're one of the many who have now read it you might think it naive for me to say that but
[caption id="attachment_2931" align="alignnone" width="1000"] Okay
I've recently made 2 important improvements to my site: #1. Mobile-friendly! Members can now stream my vids on any mobile device! You can watch my vids on your smart phone, iPad, etc. If you have the space you can download them too but I understand that streaming on smaller devices will
[caption id="attachment_2504" align="alignnone" width="584"]
Me, on the deck of my jungle bungalow.[/caption]
Thailand is wonderful!
The trip is going great so far. I'm not sure that I've ever been quite so good to myself.
I eat delicious, healthy food, including at least one coconut a day. I do yoga every day, sometimes twice. I get a nice Thai massage every few days. I sleep in bungalow in the jungle with a gorgeous fresh breeze off the ocean. I take in some live music a couple times a week, worship at a yummy chocolate temple and do a therapeutic steam/body scrub weekly.
And I write. Blazing fingers, clicking away. It feels amazing.
I'm supported by a really good girlfriend who will be here for the first month. She hangs with me a lot for yoga, eating & social stuff but she's independent & gives me space to write. My boyfriend is the same. Being supportive & encourging.
Whatever happens or doesn't happen with the book I will always have fond memories of the process, at least the start. Writing out here on the deck surrounded by the lush jungle and the symphony of sounds, birds and insects serenading me (when my boyfriend isn't actually serenading me)...looking out at the view, the torquise water and mountains beyond.
So I'm doing well here in Thailand.
Work-wise, everything seems to be going along nicely with that. I am grateful that I set up an auto-responder for my email. I understand that auto-responders rub some guys the wrong way BUT pretty much all of my emails can be answered with it. Guys know immediately that I'm not accepting custom video requests of sessions of any kind, anywhere until the end of March at the earliest. They then also get all the info they need to properly communicate what they want, how to apply to be a film slave, etc. It is actually very helpful & efficient and has made my life so much easier.
So far only one doofus took advantage of the "urgent' option of resending his email to get my immediate attention. His 'urgent' need was to know when I would next be coming to England so he could consume my waste. I admit, I was pretty fucking angry that he would interrupt my vacation with a bullshit 'urgent' request like that. I told him off but it ruined my morning. I couldn't seem to shake the anger that a guy would be so selfish and rude. It made me feel even more grateful for this break from work. I love filming, I could happily sit in front of the camera all day performing, but interacting with a lot of the guys who contact me wears me down. John Q Public, as they say, can been very difficult to deal with.
So, if you want to serve me in a positive way, just don't email me until April. That would be awesome. Thanks.
Here's a smattering of pics from the last couple weeks.
Stay well & keep enjoying my vids. If you're a member of my site or buying them from clips4sale you are helping to support me in doing what I love. Thank you!
Xo
Mistress T
I just tweeted to my 46K followers that I'm taking requests for a blog post today. I quickly received a variety of topics but the one that stood out was this one from @Honeybadger_85 : "@MistressTdotnet I'd love to know if you have a top say 3 places to visit in the
I recently received an email from a mysterious admirer. He explained that he had been a fan for years & with little notice found himself in Vancouver for a couple of days. He asked if I would join him for breakfast the next day at the restaurant at his hotel.
[caption id="attachment_2083" align="alignnone" width="400"] Click the link below to see the free vid.[/caption] Link to vid above: http://www.MistressT.net/free_video Happy (whatever you celebrate)!
[caption id="attachment_27" align="alignnone" width="333"] Looking back