A pain in the neck…

Posted on April 3, 2014 by Mistress T

It all started with a sore neck. I don’t know why but I woke up Sunday morning with a stiff neck & I badly wanted a massage. I was also horny & feeling like some adventure. I decided a massage/orgasm combo would be perfect.

Long-time readers of my blog may recall a couple blog entries I’ve written about my adventures in paying for sexual services or getting “Rub n’ tugs” (Massage with hand release/orgasm):

http://www.mistresst.net/blog/uncategorized/rub-n-tug/

http://www.mistresst.net/blog/my-personal-life/paying-for-sex/

So Sunday I placed an ad on Craigslist looking for a guy with massage skills to work out my kinks with the potential of more if it felt right in the moment. My inbox was immediately flooded with eager applicants. It was difficult to sift through the mess to determine who would actually be any good at massage. I did the best I could wadding through the promises of horny, desperate guys & made a choice.

For anyone with any experience hooking up with random strangers on the internet for free or paid sex or dating, you understand how this often goes:

I show up to the guys place, he opens the door and weighs about 100 pounds more than he did in the picture. So I know I’m not going to fuck him, but my neck does hurt, so what the heck. He’s nervous but obviously over joyed that I showed up looking better than he expected. He starts the massage & it felt like drunk kittens were staggering around on my back. This guy had the massage skills of a fish. I guided him as best I could & when my neck was at least slightly more relaxed I flipped over & told him to lick my pussy. Fat & ugly or not, I could close my eyes & pretend he was someone else.

Happily, his oral skills were decent & it didn’t take me long to cum. I didn’t plan on reciprocating but as he stood up I noticed the wet spot on the front of his pants & on the bed. He had blown his load in his underwear without even touching himself. He was very embarrassed about it. What a stud. I wish I could make this stuff up folks, but I’m telling you, this really happened.

A couple days later I still had a stiff neck & I passed by a massage place that I was pretty sure was one of those (Korean/Vietnamese?) “Rub n’ Tug” establishments. I decided to give it a go. I walked in & was greeted by a slightly confused looking Asian woman. She said they just had ‘a rush’ & it would be about 20 minutes. I said no problem, I would wait. I sat down in the small, kind of grubby front area. A moment later a tall, handsome black guy walked in & looked confused to see me sitting there. I smiled, knowing that he was there for an Asian girl to massage & jerk him off & he was confused to see a Caucasian woman. Another Asian woman came out & was confused to see us both & assumed we were there together. I laughed & said we weren’t together yet. It was a pleasure to see him squirm.

Eventually I was led down a narrow grubby hall into a dark room with a massage table. The linens all looked clean & there was soothing music playing. I disrobed & laid face down. A woman entered & I could tell she barely spoke English. The massage was fantastic! I had lower expectations because I thought they usually focused more on the “tug” then the “rub” but I was very satisfied. I kept wondering if I would get offered “other services” but I didn’t & I felt funny asking so I just enjoyed the massage.

Afterward, when I sat up & looked at her for the first time I was surprised to see a very young looking Asian woman, maybe early 20’s, very slender, no make up but pretty in a plain way. I wondered if this was typical of these places. It felt like I had been transported back to Vietnam or Thailand. A whole different micro culture within modern Vancouver.

When I paid the Madame I confirmed that if my male friends were interested in coming there for a massage it would be possible for them to get ‘other services’. I wanted to be sure it really was ‘that’ kind of establishment.

There are ethical issues around this. There are many massage parlors that do not treat their girls well. I only know a tiny bit about this situation. I know that this one has been around for a long time so my hope is that it is one of the better ones. For what it’s worth, I will go back…& I would recommend Tiffany at Hollywood North on Seymour for a quality massage.

My neck is feeling much better.

Best,
Mistress T

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The English Mansion: Love & Gratitude

Posted on March 23, 2014 by Mistress T

I awoke today with a wave of gratitude so strong it actually brought me to tears. I was thinking about my relationship with Sidonia Von Bork & her crew at The English Mansion. I realized how much I’ve learned from my experiences there & how much I’ve benefited.

Here’s the page on their site that lists all the movies I’m currently in, with more added frequently: http://www.theenglishmansion.com/MistressT

United in shared passions:-)

This was from one of our earliest shoots.

I took this pic…THAT was a fun day of us taking turns using the sex slave for our pleasure.

I have spent a lot of time with Sidonia & she has been generous in both her professional guidance as well as her personal support. I consider her a mentor & a cherished friend. She is an icon in the classic FemDom world. Her brilliant & creative mind is behind the many diabolical scenes & scenarios portrayed in her films. Her intelligence & deep understanding of the deviant is evident in her excellent blog.

Sidonia Von Bork & I using a slave’s man pussy.

Thanks to the generous promotion from The English Mansion I have become very popular in England & throughout Europe. Every day I get applications from fans in the UK asking to be in my films or to meet me personally. To show my appreciation for The English Mansion & to separate the serious applicants from the rest I am now requiring an important step in application: you must be a member of TheEnglishMansion.com before I’ll even discuss meeting you in person.

A dungeon of delights…

I will be back in the UK within the next few months (I come every spring & fall) but I will no longer be publicly announcing specific dates. I will no longer answer random emails asking when I’ll be in the UK. You must send your membership ID to prove you have a current membership for The English Mansion. If you do not support the fine work they do & you’re not familiar with my vids on their site than you do not deserve my attention.

Serious applicants who send their membership ID for The English Mansion will also be given a 3 day free premium membership to my site: www.MistressT.net.

There is a limited number of opportunities to meet with me for a private session or to film with me, so no guarantees that you’ll be accepted but I can guarantee that without verification that you’re a paying supporter of the work I’ve done with The English Mansion you will not even be considered.

The English Mansion is the #1 site in the world for classic FemDom. It showcases legendary top Domina’s as well as fresh faces & has a long-standing solid reputation for having the most quantity & highest quality classic FemDom porn all under one ‘roof’. You should already be a member anyway!

To apply to see me in the UK (I will not be touring anywhere else in Europe) email MsT@MistressT.net with the following info:

#1. Your membership ID for www.TheEnglishMansion.com (I will only use it for verification that you are a paying member.)

#2. Indicate: film slave, private session only or both/either?

#3. List preferred activities & hard limits.

#4. If applying for film include a nude torso pic with erect penis.

Cheerio,

Mistress T

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A little discussion on Piracy

Posted on March 17, 2014 by Mistress T

Arrrrrr there any pirates out here?

I am not going to lecture, don’t worry. This is only a discussion on an interesting topic.

A topic that pretty much no one cares about except for the business’s it effects…so I suspect this will be my least popular blog entry ever *smile*. Although a blog I did a year ago on a similar topic generated quite a few comments: http://www.mistresst.net/blog/uncategorized/pay-what-you-want/

I recently tweeted a link to an article written by a video game producer who conducted an experiment on piracy: http://www.greenheartgames.com/2013/04/29/what-happens-when-pirates-play-a-game-development-simulator-and-then-go-bankrupt-because-of-piracy/

It was a fascinating social experiment but I don’t think I got a single comment on that tweet. Why? Because nearly everyone participates in file sharing in one way or another (music, movies, TV shows, video games…PORN, etc.) & its become so normal for most people that we don’t even think of it as being wrong or illegal. Even I am guilty of it.

Here’s a great quote from that video game article: “To be fair, there are still individuals who either can’t make a legal purchase because of payment-issues or who genuinely cannot afford the game. I don’t have a quarrel with you.”

I echo that. For a variety of reasons, for some guys it is just not possible to buy my vids through clips4sale or to join my site. Here’s a nod to the guys who actually mail me cash to join my site or make other efforts to pay when options are limited.

I contract the services of not one but two different companies to scour the internet for my illegally distributed content & they get thousands of links removed weekly. THOUSANDS. My stuff is very popular it seems…but despite that, business is good. Would it be better with less piracy? Who knows.

Some argue that those who watch the free stuff would never pay anyway…and some argue that the free stuff IS promotion & it brings paying customers to me. Those two statements contradict each other yet they are the two most common responses I get when discussing piracy with those who engage in file sharing. Kind of funny.

We’ve seen how the internet & file sharing has impacted the music industry. Musicians have had to change their business model to adapt.

Netflix was created in this new environment. Before Netflix I streamed TV shows illegally. I didn’t feel good about it but I didn’t have a television anymore & it seemed like the only viable option. When Netflix came along I was happy to pay $8/month to get a good quality option for watching TV shows & movies.

So what will happen to porn? How can we adjust to the changing behaviors of the consumer? How do we continue to make a living when more & more porn consumers get used to getting their jerk fix for free? If the majority of porn watchers don’t pay…& many porn producers stop producing porn…then there won’t be porn to share & watch for free. That seems logical, doesn’t it? Or does it?

Things are actually fine for me right now & I don’t lose sleep over piracy. I do worry about the future though. I worry about the generation that has never paid for porn & believes that full access to endless free porn is their right. I have had too many conversations with guys in their 20’s who think paying for porn is for suckers. They find the thought appalling.

Here’s another great quote from that video game article: “We are not wealthy and it’s unlikely that we will be any time soon, so stop pretending like we don’t need your 8 dollars! We are just two guys working our butts off, trying to start our own game studio to create games which are fun to play.”

I know some of you see me as a celebrity but I am not a big faceless Corporation. I’m basically a one-woman show here. I produce my own vids (I set up the scene, lights, & put the camera on a tripod). I edit my own vids & do all my own marketing. I deal with all my own email, custom vid requests, twitter, blog, etc. I use the services of a few people to do what I can’t do: a webmaster, an accountant, bookkeeper, lawyer, graphic designer and a couple of companies to help me deal with piracy. I occasionally pay performers in the traditional sense, I usually trade services. I live humbly on a fraction of what I make & save/invest the rest knowing that there is a fast-approaching expiry date on the face & body y’all love to jerk off to. Long before I’m mentally ready to retire I will not be able to do this job anymore & I will only be about half way through my life. I got a late start in this business, when many porn stars retire at 30, I was just getting started. I’ll soon be 38 & you can probably count on 1 hand how many years I have left in front of the camera. No, I’m not sure what I’ll do after. I’ll probably have more options than the average retired porn star but at this point I don’t have a firm exit plan.

So keep that in mind if you’ve enjoyed my vids…but realize you’ve never paid a cent for that pleasure.

Here’s what I ask:

#1. Don’t share my vids. (If you’ve watched them for free, at least don’t contribute to the problem more by passing them along.)

#2. If you have never paid & you have no way of ever paying: do NOT email me. I get dozens of well-meaning emails every day that in reality just waste my time. Do not add insult to injury by illegally watching my vids for free….then take up my valuable time emailing me to tell me how much you worship me. I don’t need your compliments. I know that sounds harsh but think about it for a minute.

#3. Feel free to email me links to my pirated content when you find it (but don’t expect a reward.) MsT@MistressT.net

#4. Promote me. Pirates often cut my watermark off & are careful to not say it’s a Mistress T vid. Fuck them. If there’s a place for you to type it (in the forum or comments on a tube site, etc.) tell them: “That’s Mistress T! She’s awesome!” If guys find my stuff thru piracy & want to figure out where to go to pay for it, at least give them a fighting chance.

#5. To be blunt: Pay. Support my efforts. If you really love what I do & want to support it there are numerous ways you can show your support. Email me & ask how if you’re not sure. I love getting emails from fans who want to show their appreciation through tributes or gifts. If you want to pay, no matter what the challenge (no credit card? discretion required? etc.) I will find a way to get your money *smile*.

To the vast majority of you who have been supportive of my work/art/passion: THANK YOU! Without you it wouldn’t be possible for me to do what I love. xoxox

Okay, sometimes doing what I love means causing some guy loads of discomfort. Oops. *smile*

Best,
Mistress T

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Rant-a-licious

Posted on March 12, 2014 by Mistress T

Are you fucking kidding me?

This is a rant. I don’t usually go on rants, well, at least not online. Some of you won’t agree with me here. Some of you will think less of me after reading this & I don’t give a damn.

I received a message on Fetlife from a guy saying that he couldn’t believe I was still looking, that he was pretty intimidated by me but thought he’d take a shot at contacting me anyway. I liked how he wrote & although I don’t usually message guys back (I’m a bit of an asshole that way) him saying that he was intimidated by me hit a nerve. I know it takes a lot of balls to approach a woman so I thought I’d give him a chance.

His picture left everything to the imagination. I could basically just make out that he was human. His profile said he was camera shy so I didn’t press for more pictures. I simply offered to meet up sooner rather than later to see if there was chemistry.

A few hours before we were set to meet he messaged me to say he was searching online for my vids to watch. I asked him to not contribute to piracy/file sharing by downloading my stolen, pirated content. So, we didn’t get off on the right foot. I wondered how clueless someone could be?

Within 20 seconds of meeting him I understood the gravity of my mistake. The combination of the lack of pics & his opening line about being intimidated by me should have been a screaming red flag.

The hope that we would at least have a pleasant conversation quickly evaporated as he rambled without pause for 10 minutes straight about a topic I only expressed a vague interest in.

He also talked a lot about himself & I soon learned he was in his early 40’s, unemployed with limited prospects, no plans, & seemed to think the right thing to wear when trying to impress a woman was an old hoodie & unflattering jeans.

I had plenty of time to try to think of an exit plan as he rambled on and on without noticing I was hardly paying attention anymore. When I finally had an opportunity to speak I mentioned that perhaps he should start a blog about the topic he had been rambling about and he actually said: “I should blog. As you can tell, there’s no shortage of things I have to say.”

As I abruptly thanked him for coming to meet with me he started going on about how lovely I am and how much he would like to see me again. All the while I was slowly shaking my head no. But that wasn’t enough for him. He wasn’t picking up the clues. I actually had to say that I wasn’t feeling it. Not interested. Ouch. But anyone else would have clearly picked up the obvious clues (especially me abruptly ending the meeting).

He later messaged me trying to find some way, any opportunity to spend more time with me. Really?!

He seems like a nice enough guy. Maybe the kind of guy who would do anything for ya. I’m note sure. Hell, he could be a complete bastard too. It doesn’t matter. Here’s my rant:

From now on, if a guy says that he’s intimidated by me I’m going to take that as a clear sign that on some level he knows he’s not good enough for me. GOOD: BE INTIMIDATED. Some people are out of your league or just in a different league. I know that a politician or a guy from a high profile rich family who cares about public image is not going to marry a Dominatrix/porn star. I know that if a guy really wants a bunch of kids & a house wife baking cookies for the Church fundraiser that I’m not right for him.

If you’re an unemployed, unattractive guy with shitty social skills & can’t be bothered to be presentable for a first impression DON’T approach an ambitious, well-traveled, independent, beautiful, groomed, successful business woman who has a reputation for chewing men up & spitting them out. What the fuck are you thinking? It’s like hunting big game with a pellet gun.

It’s ironic that the guy I met with today started his correspondence saying that he couldn’t believe I’m still looking. Did he think that I must be desperate enough by now to settle for anything?

I recently received an email from someone who reads my blog saying that I’ll always be single because I’m a dirty whore. I’m not sure if it was hate mail or fan mail but no one can deny that I’m a pretty damn successful whore and a guy who wants to be with me better have his shit together too.

I’m not perfect & I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for realistic compatibility. Just because I have a fucked up occupation doesn’t mean that I’m going to settle for anyone with a pulse.
Grrr.
Mistress T

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PS: For those who follow my blog closely & are confused because you thought I was seeing someone…well, it’s complicated. He’s still in my life but I’m still seeking… he is a bit of a cuckold & we’ve never been exclusive, sooo….maybe I’ll write a blog entry about non-monogamy & poly relationships at some point.

The FemDomme Uniform

Posted on March 8, 2014 by Mistress T

How do you recognize a truly Dominant woman?

The ultimate Pro Domme accessory is a slave.

Many imagine a woman wearing leather or latex, maybe a corset, certainly severe high heeled boots or shoes. Maybe stockings & garters, leather or latex gloves, red lipstick & holding a whip. This is the cliche image of a Dominatrix.

My favorite Domme outfit.

Some in the traditional ‘scene’ feel that a real Dominatrix doesn’t get naked. The many Financial Dommes (Fin Dommes) have taken their own twist on that. They never get naked but they will tease in tiny bikini’s or lingerie, slutty dresses, jeans, etc. but rarely in BDSM fetish attire.

Boss of the year?

Being Dominant is about being in control, so some men feel a powerful business suit puts the woman in the drivers seat. On International Women’s Day it’s interesting to note that when it comes to politics, owning or running large corporations or holding senior management positions…the vast majority of the decision makers of the world are still male. Isn’t it a shame that men don’t have more Sarah Palin’s to jerk off to? (That’s sarcasm folks.)

You’ll never look at flannel pj’s the same way again.

Since before anyone gave me permission I’ve been plying my craft in casual attire, domestic clothing, naked…& recently, in my pj’s. This may seem extreme to some but the reality is that many of my fans are more interested in ME than my attire. The majority of guys who want to connect with me on web cam want to talk to me like a real person. They don’t want me to put on a show…which is fortunate because I’m not interested in that either. I perform for the camera when I make vids and I love it, but when it comes to one-on-one connections I prefer to actually have a personal connection.

A lot of guys fantasize about serving me in real life. Well, ya know what? I don’t hang around my home in latex & high heeled boots. My downstairs neighbor is grateful that I wear comfy socks instead.

Need all the bell’s & whistles?

I understand for some guys their fetish is the clothing. They need that traditional Dominatrix outfit to get off. That’s fair & that’s why I go for that look sometimes too. It feels good to get all sexed up & know it makes a man’s knees weak…but if you think that I’m any less Dominant or in control in flannel pj’s, think again.

So, how do you recognize a Dominant woman? The only answer is within you. Does she make you feel submissive?

Best,
Mistress T

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Interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx

Posted on February 27, 2014 by Mistress T

“Kissing & Breast Worship” vid with Kyaa: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Go directly to “Kissing & Breast Worship” on my clips store: http://clips4sale.com/23869/7815159

Now that I have your attention…

While in Vegas recently I interviewed Domme Kyaa & her sister Princess Nyx.

Here’s the interview:

Click to watch the interview with Domme Kyaa & Princess Nyx.

Click the pic or click here: http://www.MistressT.net/free_video

Here’s some more eye candy:

Princess Nyx & Domme Kyaa.

Domme Kyaa, Princess Nyx & I encourage you to jerk off..as if you needed much persuasion.

Link to the above vid: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/princess-nyx-triple-jerk-off-challenge-full-hd/122546#.Uwf80_ldVgg

Domme Kyaa & I get better acquainted. (FYI: her sister filmed this vid!)

Buy the above clip here: http://clips4sale.com/23738/10469685
Or here: http://www.kinkbomb.com/p/domme-kyaa-making-out-with-mistress-t/

I’m 4 foot 11.5 & Kyaa is 5 foot 11. Tall or petite we still wouldn’t want YOU!

Click to find “Height Humiliation” (my newest release): http://clips4sale.com/23869

Want to find more of Domme Kyaa? Here’s her links:

Twitter: http://twitter.com/dommekyaa
Website: http://GoddessKyaa.com
Buy Clips:
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/DommeKyaa
http://www.clips4sale.com/store/23738

Want more of Princess Nyx? Here’s her links:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/PrincessNyx1

Blog: http://theprincessnyx.wordpress.com/

Buy clips:

http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Spoil_Princess_Nyx
http://clips4sale.com/studio/63457/Princess-Nyx-s-Domain/#startingpoint

I really enjoyed interviewing these interesting ladies. If you like this sort of thing & you want me to interview anyone else (probably via skype) make a comment to let me know.

Cheers,

Mistress T

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Ask random questions, get random answers.

Posted on February 21, 2014 by Mistress T

At this moment I have no idea what this blog post is going to be about. I felt a desire to write one today but wasn’t sure what to write about.

Will chewing this pen help the juices to flow? CREATIVE juices, you fucking pervert.

Looking for inspiration I tweeted to my 20K twitter followers:

Mistress T ‏@MistressTdotnet 4h

Throwing it out there: got a request for a blog topic?: tweet me. Ask me a question, ask me2discuss a topic/fetish, etc. No promises:-)

Out of 20K followers I got only a few responses, which I wasn’t terribly surprised with. My fans tend to be a quiet bunch. Silently enjoying my vids or pics. Saying little, providing very little feedback, often leaving me feeling like I’m on stage performing with bright lights in my face, unable to tell if there’s an audience there or not. Of course, the vids continue to sell, so I know you’re out there. Jerking off, loving me. Your wallets give you away.

“steven” tweeted:

global warming,mascot sex,geopolitics…..cuckolding…candy crush…clown sex….men who like …….? sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?

Okay Steven, why not? Here we go:

– Global warming: beyond saying that it’s real & we should all do our part for the environment (recycle, turn the lights off, walk instead of drive when you can, etc.) I have a feeling my fans don’t come here for those topics. See ‘google’ for more info.

– Mascot sex: keen followers know by now that I have a thing for ‘furries’. I first got turned on by this when a gal banged her boyfriend while he was wearing a big mascot costume kind of thing in the movie “The Sweetest Thing”.

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSz3HBPxz2U&noredirect=1

Mistress T with furry in Vegas Jan 2014.

I love furries!

– Geopolitics: yeah, not gonna lie I had to look that one up, it’s the study of the effects of geography (both human and physical) on international politics and international relations.

At this moment I can feel the collective groan from those who were really hoping to find some jerk off material in my blog today. Don’t blame me, blame Steven.

– Cuckolding: you guys can’t get enough of this topic, eh? Here’s a funny story. The other day I was doing a web cam session with a guy who said he was into cuckolding. So I started telling him to pretend it was our wedding night & instead of fucking him I’ve fucked his best man…I noticed that his dick was going limp so I asked if there was something wrong. He told me that he was into being my cuckold but for some reason the idea of being married to me didn’t turn him on. *zing* I laughed SO hard.

So you’ll suck his cock & eat his cum out of my pussy, but you won’t MARRY ME? Worthless cuckold…

– Candy crush: sorry Steven. I’m not sure what this is. I googled it & I think it’s a game? Whatever.

– Clown Sex: I think this would be a great way for people with a fear of clowns to get over their fear. Or maybe not? I guess it depends on if the clown is any good in the sack. (Try http://www.sugarweasel.com/)

Sugar Weasel, the clown escort! http://www.sugarweasel.com/

– Men who like……?: You left this one pretty vague Steven. Unfortunately for you I’m now tiring of writing this damn blog entry so I’m not even going to attempt anything witty.

What Steven…WHAT?

– Sex with your wife or husband….no….not interesting. Is it still relevant?: I’m sensing you’re not enthusiastic about fucking your wife Steven? Is the magic gone? This question reveals a lot about you. Unfortunately for you, I’m not a marriage counselor. I just play one in porn films, and in those cases I’m pretty sure I cause more problems then I solve. I’ll take a swing at it though:

Marriage is about a lot more than sex. It’s about sharing a life, intimacy (non-sexual), friendship, companionship, etc. If you love your wife but feel a driving need for sexual satisfaction that you just can’t find at home…fuck an escort or see a Dominatrix (depending on what you’re looking for). Practice the safest sex you can & cover your tracks to save your wife embarrassment.

You’re welcome.

Don’t let your wife catch you! (A public service announcement from the NRA)

Best,
Mistress T

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Camping Feb 2014

Posted on February 11, 2014 by Mistress T

Lovely camping weather!

Camping in Canada in February? Sounds pretty crazy, doesn’t it? Well, it’s do-able if you have a heated camper, lots of wood for a campfire & the most important thing: hot springs! Some people call that “glamping” (glamorous camping).

A girlfriend & I have been camping together a few times a year for nearly 10 years. We usually go in the spring & fall but once in awhile we go in the winter. This time we had a couple of days of very cold, sunny weather with no snow. The last morning we woke up to beautiful snow! So we got the best of both.

There’s nothing like sitting in the hot springs with good friends & a couple of drinks.

Here’s a little vid of my trip. You can click on the pic or click this link: http://www.mistresst.net/freemovie/camping-feb-2014

Click to view the vid!

Best,
Mistress T

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Hump Day

Posted on February 6, 2014 by Mistress T

Love & laughs…

My girlfriend brought over her newest lover. Like a shiny new toy she wanted to present to me. She loves to share her toys.

He was trim & virile. Keen but not as experienced as us. It was novel being with two women. We planned to only let him dip his toe in the water. Work him in slow. Boys minds are so easily blown.

We stood giggling in the tub all defrosting our feet in hot water. This is foreplay during Canadian winter.

I lubricated myself with vodka. Being typically unprepared I was using frozen raspberries as both ice & mix.

We cuddled in bed, touching by candlelight, listening to the “sophisticated indie” mix off Songza. I refused to remove my toque. Just to be weird. Being the only one drinking I joked that it was my rheumatism medication. At this stage of my life I have a hard time taking sex seriously. I like to laugh & I constantly, sometimes annoyingly, make jokes throughout. No one has kicked me out of bed for it yet, so obnoxiously, I continue.

She goes down on him. I know her mouth well. She has created magic on my pussy many times over the years. Talented, skilled, magic…whatever you call it, it’s fucking amazing. I can see she’s giving the same treatment to his cock & I’m not surprised at his reaction.

He pulls me in. I stroke his head with one hand & baby my drink in the other. It’s my bed, I’m careful to not spill booze in it. I kiss him. Slowly. His mouth is just a little more eager, a little faster than my pace. “Calm down cowboy, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.”

She’s working his cock like a champ, taking the whole thing all the way to the hilt, great hand-mouth coordination, she looks beautiful, sexy, slutty & powerful all at once. It’s something to behold. I observe, noting her technique, admiring her deep throating which I struggle with…I take a sip from my drink & the taste of raspberries takes me back to my youth, picking raspberries from the bush in the summer, eating them right there, brushing the bugs off, being careful of the thorns. I wonder if most people have ever eaten raspberries warmed by the sun…& then I feel guilty for letting my mind wander in the middle of an amazing moment & I wonder if that’s normal or if there’s something wrong with me?

I come back to the moment & observe his cock, wondering how it would feel in my pussy, wondering if it would look good on film…noting that I’ve come to a place where I simultaneously assess men for the potential to please me as well as their usefulness in my business. But there’s no doubt, this is a hot moment, a memory I’ll always cherish no matter what my conflicting thoughts are.

While I kiss him, and I love kissing, she brings him to the edge. He indicates he’s close & I pull away from his beautiful face to look at his cum shot, in case I decide to film with him, I need to know what his projection is like. I only feel bad about this for a second then say fuck it…my job is my life & if his dick or cum shot isn’t right for filming I’ll just use him for my pleasure anyway, it doesn’t matter…

I haven’t spilled a drop of my drink. I sip it in the afterglow & we cuddle. I love her so much. For all that she is. Her sexual freedom. She knows herself & she makes no apologies. She can have any man she wants & she gives & gets beautifully.

I am grateful for the life I’ve created, the people who I’ve surrounded myself & for random Wednesday night romps.

My boyfriend will be here soon & I’ll tell him all about what happened. I’ll remove my pants for the first time tonight…& we’ll probably have sex….but if we don’t, that’s okay too. Just having someone in my life I can share everything with, without drama or guilt is more important than an orgasm. Intimacy & sex play is about so much more than just orgasms…
Best,
Mistress T

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The Cupcake Girls

Posted on January 26, 2014 by Mistress T

Meggerz & I enjoying cupcakes after our massage.

On my recent trip to Las Vegas I received an enticing twitter invite from ‘The Cupcake Girls’ to come to a VIP suite at The Hardrock hotel & eat cupcakes & enjoy a variety of services for FREE. They had me at cupcakes…but there were also professionals available to do massage, hair, make-up, nails, etc.

I figured there must be a catch, but no! I even offered tips to the women who massaged me & did my make up, but they refused. It was a completely free service. WHY?

Here’s what their website says:

“For women working in the adult entertainment industry, non-judgmental support, consistent caring, and community resources are seldom, if ever, provided. In 2009, after a trip to Las Vegas opened our eyes to the needs of these women, we started knocking on doors of strip clubs with little more to offer than love and a box of cupcakes. Much to our surprise and delight we were not only invited in, we were invited back, and today we offer our unique brand of caring and support to women working in strip clubs in Las Vegas and Portland, and brothels in Nevada.”

So, this is an organization that supports women in the adult industry. Very cool.

Meggerz & I went twice during the week & enjoyed amazing, professional massages & professional make up application. We ate (they had lots of food, not just yummy cupcakes!) & chatted with interesting women. We were even given grab bags at the end with free Mac make-up & other great stuff!