1st day of filming with Kink.com

As I write this I am in the air, between LA & Hawaii. So much has happened in the last two weeks. This blog entry will just cover a small part (more to follow!).

My first day filming with Kink.com’s DivineBitches (their FemDom site) in San Francisco last week:

My excitement kept me from getting a great night’s sleep but the same excitement kept me alert. Adrenaline doing what adrenaline does.

I wasn’t sure what to expect. When I initially met with HR they advised me that I would need to take direction from Madeline (the Director). They understood I was used to doing things my way and wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to be a control freak, I suppose? However, I had only been given a vague outline of what the scene would entail: corporal, strap-on, B/G, which meant some kind of sex between the slave (boy) & myself (girl).

In the green room, waiting to go through make-up & wardrobe I met the male performer, Dutch Bardoux, who I would be working with for the first time. I found it fascinating that I would be having sex with this guy, who I just met, in a few hours. He was built like a brick shit house, thick and muscular. Handsome. Nice manners. Maybe a little bit shy? I didn’t know what to say. This was my first ‘porn’ shoot where someone else decided who I would have sex with. That part was actually very sexy for me. Later it was confirmed by Madeline: she had chosen very carefully who to pair me with. Another Dominant women choosing a beautiful, greek god for me to fuck. Thank you.

After make up & wardrobe I was a touch uncomfortable with my image. I wasn’t used to wearing that much make-up and I felt it cheapened me. There was nothing to be done about it and I trusted that this was a look they wanted and one that would translate well on film.

The set was beautiful. There was a huge painting of Adam & the serpent. Madeline was lovely. Her production assistant and camera woman were also fantastic. I loved that it was an all-female crew.

Madeline explained that she wanted this shoot to be about debuting me, Mistress T. Me enjoying this gorgeous, obedient slave. She gave me free reign to do as I pleased and made anything I wanted available to me. The slave stood in the middle of the room while he was adorned by chains then buffed to a shine with oil. This big hunk of a man was there for MY pleasure. He was ready to do whatever was asked of him. His demeanour was perfectly compliant.

I won’t ruin the experience of watching the video by giving you a play-by-play of exactly what we did. I’ll just touch on a couple of my highlights:
-while caning the slave I enjoyed how animated he became. It made me want to hurt him more. It was a delight to get such a reaction. He eventually and genuinely called mercy which delighted me and disappointed me at the same time. Mercy didn’t mean ‘stop’ but it did mean that he was nearing his limit. I continued anyway, trying to get him to count down but he was so flustered he kept getting the count wrong…which gave me the opportunity to beat him more. This was not set up, he really did mess up the count several times!
-there is a scene where he was over my knee while I administered a bare handed spanking, then used a paddle. The image of this naked, gleaming, chained adonis over my tiny lap will likely be a powerful one on video.

Everything went very well that day. I felt like I delivered a performance that made Madeline happy and that Kink’s members would enjoy. I certainly had a great time!

Dutch had seemed somewhat shy & reserved during the shoot so I was surprised to receive a phone call from him out of the blue a few days later. He simply wanted to say it was a pleasure to work with me. I invited him out that night. We went to see some live music and have some drinks with friends. It was great to see him again, to talk about our experience and get to know each other better. He shared his first impression of me, that I looked so small and innocent (I am only 5 feet tall and 100 pounds!). He thought I was quiet and reserved. He was very surprised to see how I changed in front of the camera. Especially my verbals. I laughed as I hear this often. You can’t judge a book by it’s cover and my physical appearance doesn’t really give much hint of what’s going on inside my perverse head.

So that was my first day of filming with Kink.com and my experience with Dutch Bardoux. I have lots more to share…

Suited up & painted for DivineBitches

Dutch Bardoux & I on set at DivineBitches/Kink.com

San Francisco – the first week

Happy Halloween! I’m writing this from my beautiful Edwardian bedroom on the Upper Floor of Kink.com’s Armory in San Francisco.

I’ll back up a bit. I arrived last Wednesday, October 26 and stayed in a gorgeous hotel for the first three nights, compliments of a very generous and appreciative cuckold slave.

I am fortunate this trip to be accompanied by a useful thick-cocked bull who is a joy to be around. He’s been well-used as a film slave and camera man. I also enjoy his company a great deal (the sex is fantastic!) which has made this trip even more pleasurable! We’ve filmed some amazing smut & had a couple of private meetings with slaves that have been VERY memorable.

We took advantage of the upscale hotel room to take photo’s & I’ve attached a couple below.

We arrived at The Armory on Saturday afternoon as things were buzzing, preparing for their big Halloween party. I was in awe of the stunning bedroom we were set up in. I love antiques, four poster beds, lush rugs, high ceilings, ornate lamps, etc. The Armory is HUGE. I still haven’t seen all of it. They give tours to the public so if you get to San Fran I encourage you to come have a look for yourself. You can also see it in Kink’s many video’s. They certainly have the best set’s in the biz.

The party was full of action. My favorite part was when the two new Upper Floor sub girls were brought in, crawling on their hands and knees. I love exhibitionism and I can just imagine the thrill of being humiliated like that in front of over 100 strangers. What followed was a marathon of humiliating acts, corporal, spankings and sex (cock sucking, finger fucking/squirting, female masturbation, intercourse, etc.) It was a very sexually charged evening and it continued on after the camera’s were turned off. The party was broadcasted live and the vids will be up on the site so you can watch them and probably catch me in the background. I was wearing my latex nurse’s dress (see below).

Tomorrow is my first filming day for Kink.com’s Divine Bitches (FemDom site). I’m excited to work with the director Maitresse Madeline & the film slave Dutch Bardoux. Am I a little nervous? At this point, no (maybe tomorrow?). I’m a big fan of Kink.com’s Divine Bitches and am familiar with their style. I’m naturally a great fit and I feel confident it’s going to go very well and be a blast! Wish me luck!

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In my Edwardian bedroom, Upper Floor of Kink.com's San Francisco Armory!

Putting my feet up after shopping in San Fran...

Enjoying a fancy hotel room in San Fran...

My date & I for Kink.com's Upper Floor Halloween Party in San Fran Oct. 29, 2011

Twas the night before…

It’s 9pm the night before my flight to San Francisco. I’m finishing off last minute packing and details.

It’s been an interesting week. I sold my condo. Got rid of most of my furniture. I’m moving out of the temporary apartment I’ve been subletting the last few months. Most of the rest of my stuff is in storage.

It’s been a time of transition since my relationship ended several months ago. I have adjusted to running the business without a camera man and full time stunt cock. I have explored opportunities outside of Vancouver. I’ve had a lot of fun being single.

I wonder how much the casual observer picks up just looking at my vids. Do they notice that I’m different? Do they notice there’s been significant changes? Do they care? (Assuming their orgasm is the only immediate concern).

Tomorrow I fly to San Francisco. Next week I film with Kink.com. I wonder if the experience will be as epic as I imagine? I wonder what will happen next?

The following week I film with Glen from MeanBitches.com in LA which I’m excited about. I’ve seen him work & I like him.

I’ve been overwhelmed with emails from fans in San Francisco and LA wanting to see me and I simply won’t have the energy to see everyone. I’m careful these days to accept meetings only with those who I feel confident I will enjoy spending time with. Of the few I accept I’m anticipating some memorable times.

That basically sums up what the next two weeks will probably be like: memorable times. This is the kind of living that will comfort me in my golden years: “I remember when I was 35 & I went to California…” This is the kind of living I carved out of the lame existence I had during most of my 20’s. I wanted to LIVE my life, not just go through the motions. I wanted adventure, excitement and stories to tell. I’ve certainly gotten that and more….and maybe the best is yet to come!

Stay tuned as I tweet  ( http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet ) and probably blog throughout this adventure. I’ll be staying in a very nice hotel (compliments of a fan) for the first few nights and then moving into the Armory. Exciting!

By the way…if you are in London & you would like to see a Canadian Dominant women (I know many of you love my ‘accent’) I would recommend two lovely Canadian Dommes who I had the pleasure of working with and spending time with:
Lady Bellatrix & Greta Darklight.

Lady Bellatrix: http://www.ladybellatrix.com
Since Lady Bellatrix relocated to London, she has made it her mission to unleash her signature cocktail of pleasure and pain upon the stiff upper echelons of British society. She is elegant, discerning and strict. Specializing in mind control, interrogation and elaborate role play scenarios such as blackmail this Lady will leave you feeling humiliated to the highest degree. She loves to be worshiped and a foot lover’s dream come true with her small but perfectly formed feet. She sessions from a fully equipped dungeon in London W4 but also tours frequently around the UK.

Lady Bellatrix

Greta Darklight: http://gretadarklight.com/

Miss Greta is a sparkling muse, who combines holistic elements of Taoist practices, Tantra, and female domination into her tailored sessions. She is a genuine scholar of Tao, and a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast. One of her particular specialties is the healing release of emotional, physical pain and repression, through her unique practice which can be successfully combined with sensory deprivation and other play.

Greta Darklight

Greta Darklight

California dates set! Oct 26-Nov 10

Members site: www.MistressT.net

Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet


I will be in San Franciso to film with Kink.com/DivineBitches (exciting!) between Oct 26 – Nov 4.

I’ll be attending Kink.com’s Halloween party and staying at the Armory for most of the week! Can you imagine what that’s going to be like? I was there for a few hours last month and I saw all kinds of crazy stuff!

I will have some time to see clients privately and to do some filming of my own, for my own website. If you would like to be a film slave for me, for MY site (not Kink.com) or if you would like to see me privately you can apply by email. NOTE: For anyone I haven’t met before I require either a reference or a deposit to hold your booking.

I will be going to LA after San Francisco (Nov 5-10) to film with MeanBitches (& maybe others). Same as above, I will have time for private bookings and filming for my site.

Email: MsT@MistressT.net

-Include a list of your interests.

-Indicate private or filmed or either.

-***Tell me which CITY you’re in!***

-Request 2 different dates/times that you know you can commit to.

-Send your reference or ask for directions for deposit.

NOTE: I am currently in Vancouver, which is my home base. The above applies here too so if you would like to meet me in Vancouver follow the above instructions and remember to say which CITY you’re hoping to meet me in!

UPDATE: I’ve just confirmed that I will have a STUNT COCK for this trip! Cuckolding scenes (private or filmed) and forced bi (you suck his THICK cock!) will be possible! (California only, not Vancouver).


You could have THIS view!

Dressed as a Dominatrix IN a dungeon?!

An Epic San Fran Day

Yes, I know, I’m still behind in my Burning Man blog…I will get to it and yes, there will be fun pics of me in bizarre costumes…but ‘this’ I can not wait to tell.

Today I met with Kink.com. For those with a short attention span: I got the gig. There is a happy ending.

For those who like to read, I’ll make it worth your while.

For the last year one of my main goals was to have an opportunity to appear on DivineBitches, a Kink.com website. Kink.com being the biggest fetish film producer in the world (as far as I know) located in San Francisco.

I voiced this goal to whoever would listen, including the big time agent I met with in LA last week (the one who did not want to take me on as a client) but he did give me the right contact info for Kink.com…which led to my meeting today.

I arrived at the armory a bit nervous. Yes, they have an entire, historic armory. The talent manager was very nice and the meeting went well but was by no means ‘in the bag’. It depended on if the directors wanted to shoot with me, he said. We talked about everything that needed to be talked about and then it was picture time. I happily disrobed and posed naked in a few positions, especially nailing the butt angles. He complimented me on my ample bottom, and knowing that he didn’t know how famous I was for my ass I just smiled to myself.

We then went downstairs looking for Maitresse Madeline, the director for DivineBitches. We ended up in a dingy, empty basement with crumbling walls and floors. I commented that this would actually make for a great scene: gal comes for a meeting, gets led down to a deserted basement…fill in the blanks. That was not the case though and we did eventually find where Madeline was filming. As soon as we entered the space she recognized me, seemed excited to see me and asked why I was there. The talent manager explained that I wanted to work on DivineBitches and she said: “she’s hired, set it up for as soon as possible.” (I had never met her before but I suppose we both know each other from our online reputations.)

As we walked out the talent manager could probably read a bit of shock on my face so he said it again: “You’re hired. That’s it. We’ll set it up.”

I left feeling a bit shell-shocked but happy. I walked a few blocks, called my mom to tell her the news, got her voice mail and then started looking for a cab. I was standing on the corner looking for a random cab when the window of a parked limo rolled down and a middle-aged hippie rolling a joint asked: “Are you lost?”. I said I was just looking for a cab. He continued to roll his joint and asked where I was going, then said he would take me for $20. I knew my destination was at least a $15 cab ride away and read a dope smokin’ hippie with a limo to be relatively harmless so decided to go for it.

For the fearful and cautious, know that there are more people in this world who would rather hug you than hurt you…and I’m a pretty keen judge of character.

He turned out to be an entertaining dude. He ran a legal marijuana dispensary out of his limo. We even went for lunch.

After lunch I went back to my hotel room, filmed some smut and then it was time to clean laundry. I’ve been traveling for awhile now so it needed to be done. From traveling often I’ve picked up the habit of wearing just a few outfits all the time and really, this simplicity removes a lot of stress from my life.

I had to go to a corner store to get smaller bills for laundry change. Alcohol in corner stores is a novelty to us Canadians so I decided to buy a mini bottle of champagne to celebrate my good news. Booze and laundry? Why not. I was on my own as my travel buddy was off doing his own thing for the afternoon and it was nice to have some alone time to reflect & plan. So while my clothes were being washed I went for a walk, sipping champagne from the bottle feeling a bit reckless thinking that if my fans could only see me now…no doubt they would wonder:

A. Why is a slave not doing your laundry?

B. Why aren’t you drinking the champagne from a crystal flute instead from the bottle?

While my clothes were in the dryer I went looking for food (and more champagne as I had finished my mini-bottle). When I saw a place called ‘The Tipsy Pig” I couldn’t resist. I ended up having a nice chat with an Irish fellow at the bar until my friend arrived. Nothing else of note happened but just one positive meeting at Kink.com is really enough to make a day epic, with or without the booze & laundry fun.

Below: a pic of the sign in front of the the www.Kink.com building, a pic of me in the limo and a pic of me with my mini bottle of champagne. Tell me what’s behind me/where I am and get a free 3 day membership to my website: www.MistressT.net (Either email MsT@MistressT.net or send me a direct message through twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MistressTdotnet

Sign at Kink.com

Mistress T in a random limo

Guess my location & win!

More fun in San Francisco…

I kept in touch with the male Dom who I met at The Power Exchange…he who flogged me first. He invited me to come back and I can resist anything except temptation.

On one trip I brought my boyfriend at the time. This turned out to be a poor choice but a worthwhile learning experience, but I’ll get to that. First I’ll tell you about meeting the famous “Midori” ( www.planetmidori.com ) Among other things, she’s known for being the author of “The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage”. She was doing a rope bondage stage performance at a big fetish bash and I had the opportunity to help out behind the scenes body painting some of her victims/models. I got to meet her and received a signed copy of her recent CD of erotic stories. She was lovely and it was a thrill meeting someone so well known in the fetish community.

During this event I also had an opportunity to ‘bottom’ under some very talented Doms. I loved being strung up in front of a crowd. I was spanked, flogged and experimented on (electro-play, etc.). To be honest, I didn’t care for the acts (other than flogging) as much as I loved being watched.

I had been having my fun, checking in with my boyfriend from time-to-time. It was a big party, he was wandering off and coming back and I thought he was having a good time. I was deep in ‘sub space’ being flogged in front of a large crowd when I caught his eye and noticed something was off. I went up to him and asked. Things were NOT okay. He had just had enough of watching me ‘getting beaten’. He looked disgusted. People were watching us talk, they could read the situation. I was humiliated and ashamed. I felt like a freak for enjoying myself. I felt selfish for not realizing he wasn’t having fun. I was emotionally vulnerable after hours of ‘play and excitement’. It was like being dropped from a 10 story building. I just broke down.

That was about 10 years ago and I was not then who I am today. Now, at 35 I would likely not get myself into such a situation and if I did, I would react differently. Then, however, it was crushing. I cried in the cab all the way back to the hotel and cried all night. He did not try to comfort me. I felt like a disgusting human being for being into kinky stuff.

Obviously, we didn’t stay together, but that doesn’t even matter. The important lesson I learned was about emotion and the vulnerability of  ‘sub space’. It helped me later on to be a good Domme.

My journey in learning to accept my kinky side has not been a straight path. I had my set backs and uphill battles. Maybe you, my reader, have similar stories? I invite you to comment here if you like. I know I’m not alone in my love of kink anymore…you are not alone either *smile*.

MistressT Fetish Goddess