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Sex & cuckolding in reality

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I film a lot of crazy stuff. Cuckolding is one of my own personal fetishes and can be played out in many different ways.

I have recently been spending more time with a boy who I’ve known for awhile…as a friend & occasional film slave. He’s kinky & submissive…also pretty cute. He’s in his mid 20’s & I find his youth refreshing.

His sexuality is complex. The times that I’ve considered taking him as a lover his penis wouldn’t cooperate for regular sex. He worships me & is intimidated by me sexually. He gets plenty hard when I kick him in the balls or when he’s worshiping my feet but when I’ve actually tried to fuck him he’s gotten all flustered. Kinda cute.

I haven’t really cared. I have other lovers & I genuinely enjoy his company & service. I love the way he dances (often silly/goofy on purpose which I find entertaining & strangely arousing.)

Yesterday I was out with friends. A couple I’ve had a strong friendship & occasional sexual relationship with for many years. We spent the day hanging out, eating, shopping, going to the beach & flirting. Here’s a snap from yesterday:

Mistress T at the beach

Beach time with my cherished, sexy friends…

At the end of the day she went to have a tryst with a lover. He & I headed back to my place for some fun & I texted the boy to come over immediately. I decided to cuckold him. The conditions were perfect.

While we waited the fuck stud licked my pussy expertly. Mmmm…& just as I came the boy arrived. I kissed him deeply & told him today he was going to see how a real man fucks me. He watched as I licked & sucked the fuck-stud’s cock. Then I told him to suck it a little for me. I wanted him to feel how big it was in his mouth so he would understand how his cock would stretch my pussy.

I licked the shaft while the boy gently sucked the head, our lips & tongues touching.

I had moments of awe…that I’ve played these scenes out so many times in vids & here I was doing it in real life & it was just as hot, hotter even, than the vids. Reality surpassing fantasy.

I wanted that big cock inside of me & I loved the fuck stud’s technique…I was excited to get on with the fucking.

He rolled on the condom & positioned himself so the boy could see his cock entering me. He told him to watch & learn. The fuck stud is the perfect combo of assertive & dirty while still being a really caring & nice guy. He wasn’t some douche who would get off on degrading the boy if he didn’t see how much it turned the boy on.

He fucked me, slow at first, gradually increasing the intensity, depth & speed. The boy was rubbing himself through his shorts & I gave him a foot to worship as I was getting fucked.

After a thorough & truly satisfying rogering from the fuck stud…who fucks in such a manly way, physically assertive, holding me down firmly & using his rock hard cock like a weapon…while looking at me with such compassion…his eyes rolled as he pressed hard against me and came.

As he went to clean up the boy & I kissed sweetly. I wanted to feel his buttery soft young skin against me & told him to undress. I could pet him for hours he feels so good.

Warm hugs for both of us as the fuck stud left to pick up his wife from her lovers place.

The boy & I cuddled & kissed in bed. He was so nervous & overwhelmed. His cock fluctuated between hard & soft as I touched it. I know many guys reading this are rock hard & imagine that they would be rock hard 100% of the time in my presence…while others who understand reality know that often guys struggle with erectile difficulties for all kinds of reasons…none of which include not being attracted to their bed partner.

I liked the idea of having him enter me after my other lover had just stretched out my pussy with his bigger cock. I kicked him in the balls a few times & his cock grew to full attention. (I warned you, his sexuality is complex.) I rolled the condom on & we started to have sex but he quickly lost his erection. I kicked him a few more times & then straddled him, riding his cock while punching him in the balls.

I confess, this was more novel than arousing for me at this point so I told him to lick my pussy. He’s somewhat inexperienced but takes instruction well & I soon had my second delicious orgasm.

As it turns out, bizarrely, there is a sexual position that works for him & once we got going it was surprisingly hot. Probably most exciting as this was the first time we had successful intercourse. He looked so intensely passionate by candle light, so beautiful…

I certainly felt satisfied after hours of ‘play’. Sure, the sex act with the stud was more satisfying, but I got a great deal pf pleasure in a different way with the boy. He truly worships me & has other things to offer. I always enjoy my time with him.

I could have left out all this fumbling around & ended the story after I got fucked properly by the fuck stud…but I thought it was more interesting to explain the rest. Porn messes a lot of people up thinking that sex always runs smoothly. It doesn’t. Sometimes you have to have patience & get used to someone before sex works at all. If there’s chemistry it can be worth the effort.

So, what happens now? Will the boy become my cuckold because he doesn’t quite sexually satisfy me but I like him a lot anyway? Will he start to satisfy me sexually so we have great sex but have an open relationship? He’s quite likely way too young to be a serious partner, he’s more of a play thing…but is he falling too hard for me to be treated so casually?

Who knows…but if anything blog-worthy happens you’ll be sure to hear about it.

xo
Mistress T

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Method To My Madness

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I could also say the madness in my method. I’m talking about how I create my vids. I’ve often been asked what my process is, if I follow a script, where I come up with my ideas, how I choose the film slaves or other performers, etc.

Mistress T mixing up another great vid.

Behind the scenes…the making of a Mistress T vid…

I have performed in well over a thousand vids over the 6 years I’ve been in front of the camera. Most of those for my own site but at least a few hundred for other producers. When I started with Club Stiletto I already possessed a strong understanding of fetish. I had been a Professional Dominatrix for years. Before that an avid reader of fetish erotica & a deviant experimenter of fetish in my personal life.

From the first shoot with Club Stiletto they would just say: “Talk to the camera about foot fetish for about 8 minutes & show your feet.” or “Be mean to this guy who’s playing your uncle & sit on his face in a bratty way for about 10 minutes.” and I would just do it.

The shoots were very casual & unstructured. I was given lots of creative freedom & positive reinforcement. It was fun.

When I started making vids for my own site I didn’t know how to do it any other way. I would start with a basic idea (cuckolding, small penis humiliation, boot fetish, etc.) I would just start the scene with a loose story line & it would usually turn out well. This could be a bit frustrating for those I filmed with because I would often go off in other directions mid scene & they would have to keep up. If you are a member of my site & you look at the vids I filmed 4 or 5 years ago compared to the last couple of years you can see that I’ve improved, I’ve become more skilled, but my style isn’t that different.

Over time I have had the opportunity to film with quite a few different producers (Kink.com, Mean Dungeon, FemDom Empire, etc.) & the privilege to film extensively with the best in the biz: The English Mansion. I learned that there are many different ways to do what I do. I’ve been on shoots where the whole scene was story-boarded & scripted. Very organized. I’ve filmed with producers who wrote out several complex scenes with multiple slaves & Dommes for the whole day. I’ve filmed where they kept stopping the scene every time the camera person changed angles & I had to remember the last thing I said & continue the dialogue as if there wasn’t a pause. Very challenging!

After all I’ve seen & learned I still do things the way I have from the start. Loose & casual. If I’m making a custom vid I accept brief outlines but refuse to follow scripts or memorize lines. I do things in my own style. I get a lot of repeat custom vid buyers so that seems to be working.

When I film with a film slave things get a little more complicated.

I’m a lot more careful about who I film with these days. My preference is usually fit men with above-average cocks. Bigger cocks just look better in porn, there’s more real estate to work with & since I do a lot of ‘small penis humiliation’ to the viewer it makes sense that the guy I’m filming with is larger. Over the years the numbers have proven without a doubt: bigger cocks equal more sales.

Many of the guys you see in my vids are actually personal lovers & friends. If you look closely you’ll see some of the same guys in various vids. All the other guys in the vids are real fans who email me to apply to be in my vids. I have never paid professional male performers for my vids but in the right circumstances I would consider it. I loved working with Wolf Hudson when I filmed with Kink.com & Deviant Kade when I filmed with the FemDom Empire. They are both true professionals worthy of being paid for their talent.

The first time I film with a new guy I ask them what they’re into. It can be nerve-wracking for a 1st time film slave & I do my best to ensure they are comfortable. As long as what they’re into is something I think will sell for me we’ll do that. Usually a hand job. That’s an easy one for most guys. Sometimes a ruined orgasm or humiliation or ball busting, etc. Once we get more comfortable with each other we can do different or more complicated scenes.

I do all my own filming. That means that I coordinate the shoot, set up the lighting, put the camera on the tripod, if there’s a film slave I give him basic instructions, hit the start button & away I go. I usually only have the most basic idea of what the scene will be at the start. Sometimes I have a moment of concern that maybe this will be the time I just don’t know what to say…but I always seem to figure it out. I think it gives my scenes a more realistic feel, since I’m making it up as I go along, just as most people do in real life.

I do my own editing as well & occasionally I’ll use a little editing magic to spruce up a vid. Recently I did a scene where I basically just gave a blow job for 8 minutes. (This was a personal lover & it was his 1st time being on film. For him, a blow job was my best chance to get a cum shot.) I couldn’t talk with my mouth full so I thought the vid was a little boring with no vocals. I decided to record a voice over (Masturbation Instruction) with lots of sensual, teasing verbals: ta-da! It turned out great & has been my best selling vid this month: “You Crave My Mouth”.

So there ya go. I’m not sure if you’ll be disappointed or amazed at how I create my vids. Maybe you’ll wish there was still some mystery to it…but really, it’s very fly by the seat of my pants most of the time. When I’m wearing pants anyway…and I like it that way.

Best,
Mistress T

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Ballet & Fuck Marathon

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I have two different blog topics for today but decided to combine them into one. So, kind of a double hitter.

First is regarding the big news story this week of the ballet dancer who got punted from the Royal Winnipeg Ballet for being in a porn film.

More details & related video’s:

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/story/2013/07/09/mb-jeppe-hansen-rwb-porn-reaction.html

Royal Winnipeg Ballet dancer gets fired for doing porn.

Ballet dancer gets sacked for doing porn.

In a nut shell, a very talented & successful ballet dancer decided to express himself artistically in a different way by doing porn & then lost his prestigious job as a ballet dancer for it.

A great quote by one of his friends: “So many people are watching porn but people are not supporting the people making it. You’re still allowed to look down on them, which isn’t really fair.”

Jeppe Hansen (the ballet dancer turned porn performer) says that he hopes this opens up the discussion of what art is & the parameters around how sexuality is expressed artistically…especially considering how much sexuality is in mainstream media like music video’s, movies & commercials.

I applaud Jeppe & am confident this young man will do very, very well in life even without the Royal Winnipeg Ballet, which can go fuck itself really…because how the hell does one of their dancers doing porn effect how he performs as a dancer in one of their performances?!

NEXT TOPIC: Fuck Marathon.

In other news, twitter followers got a taste of my often bizarre personal life this week as I tweeted live from a fuck marathon. Here’s the full story, or at least as much as I’m willing to share publicly.

On Wednesday I received a text from a girlfriend asking if I wanted to have a dirty day the next day…get a few guys over…ya know. Sure, why not?

She has been a very dear friend of mine for years. She & her husband have a relationship that inspires me. They’ve been together for many years & have the healthiest relationship I’ve ever seen. They love the heck out of each other, still have tons of passion for each other, they’re best friends, work like a team…& yes, they have sex with other people.

Between her & I we rounded up three different guys to come over at different times. The first guy came back a second time later on…and she actually started the day having sex with her husband in the morning. So, it was a pretty full day for her! I confess, the day was really more about her. Sure, I had some fun myself but I didn’t actually have sex with all those guys, not that I wouldn’t have if it had felt right in the moment. I just let her enjoy the majority of the days offerings.

Mistress T with people having sex.

Let the games begin!

Mistress T in a threesome.

That’s it, put your back in to it!

I did enjoy the sexual freedom & naughtiness of the whole thing. I loved texting my lovers & asking them to come over for a threesome with my hot bi friend. I loved blowing their minds. I loved laying in bed naked with them eating the dark chocolate, raspberries, strawberries & blueberries they brought as gifts…as the sun was setting, all the smiles & touching…I loved being propped up against pillows, holding my wine glass while he licked my pussy & my girlfriend sucked his cock. I felt like a Queen being entertained & spoiled by her subjects…her sex slaves.

Mistress T being orally pleased by a black man.

Feeling like royalty…

Often sex for me is less about the actual act & more about all the surrounding moments. The lead up, the hunt, the flirting, kissing, touching, skin on skin…the play of candlelight against skin, the look on my lovers face as they climax, the giggles, the debauchery, the freedom. The next day, the replay, the memories.

Interracial sex with Mistress T.

This was so beautiful to watch. I do love to see a black man sexually servicing a white Goddess.

There’s so much more to sex than just penetration.

I feel blessed to have wonderful friends in my life who are on the same page, who challenge me to be even dirtier than I already am.

Keep being dirty my friends.

“You only live once but if you do it right, once is enough.” ~ Mae West

xo

Best,
Mistress T

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How To Introduce Kink Into Your Relationship

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MILF Mistress T in a business suit.

“You want to know what?!”

I often get emails from guys asking my advice on how to introduce their kinks to their partners. To which I respond: “I’m not fucking Ann Landers!”. Okay, I’ve actually never said that, but for a moment you thought I was a bit of a dick, didn’t ya?

You might be surprised how communicative & friendly I’ll be for a generous tribute…so if you’d like to benefit from my years of experience feel free to contact me for personal, customized assistance. MsT@MistressT.net (Tribute button is on my clips store: http://www.clips4sale.com/23869)

For free, I’ll share a few general tips for you right now. See, I’m not a dick. *smile*

If you’ve been jerking off to some kinky porn, feeling like a freak secretly & fretting that you’ll never be able to have your fantasies come true, you might be right. Especially if you’re into the Giantess fetish, Vore, castration fetish, or something especially tricky. If you’re just into feet, getting pegged (strap-on/bum play), getting peed on, giving up control, cuckolding (fantasy, at first at least)…those kinds of things might be doable within your relationship.

Of course every relationship & gal is unique. These are only guidelines.

#1. Be really fucking good to your lady. Whatever that means to her. Help out around the house, make her a meal, fix something, move something, give her a back rub, draw her a bath, take her to that place she likes to go, basically: suck up. Be a gentleman & make her feel cherished. A woman tends to be more receptive to accommodating what you’re into if she feels like she’s gotten everything she wants.

#2. Make sure she’s sexually pleased. Find out what she wants & give it to her. However she wants it. Let her know she can ask you for ANYTHING & you won’t judge, you’ll do your best to make her sexually satisfied. (Similar to #1 but you should do BOTH sexual & non-sexual things to make her happy.)

#3. Read Savage Love articles together & discuss what advice you would give before you read his responses. This opens up a dialogue & gets you both thinking about alternative sex stuff. You can probably even find articles dealing with your specific kink! That’s a great way to introduce your gal to it & measure her reaction without making yourself too vulnerable.

#4. Have a drink or two together. Don’t get shit-faced. Just 1 or 2 drinks to relax you both.

#5. Bring it up lightly. Low pressure. Something like: “I’ve got a confession…I’ve been getting turned on by _____ lately for some reason. It might be fun to explore. What do you think of that?” NOTE: Obviously start at the lowest level of whatever you’re into. If you want her to pee on you, start with asking if you can lick her clean after, that you just want to taste a drop. If you want her to fuck you with a strap-on, start with a condom-covered finger. If you want to worship her feet, even if you like them dirty/smelly, start with kissing her toes in the bathtub. If you want her to take control just suggest she tie you up with some neck ties or scarfs & have her way with you/use you like a sex toy. If you want her to sleep with other men (cuckolding) ask her to just pretend she’s been with another guy & role-play telling you during sex. If you want to cross dress, Halloween is a great time to start gently.

#6. Don’t pressure her. If it turns her off, leave it alone. Let her know the lines of communication are open if she wants to discuss why you have this interest or whatever. If she thinks about it for a bit & discusses it more it might marinate into something she gets excited about exploring too. But not if she feels pressured.

#7. Be grateful for ANY effort she makes. Even if it’s not playing out perfectly or taking longer to get to where you want to go be sure to let her know how much it means that she’s indulging you. Positive reinforcement. Keep being really good to her. Don’t be a douche & sulk or punish/guilt her if you’re not getting what you want.

Sex should be fun for both of you. Make sure you communicate that clearly. This is play, it’s fun, it’s recreation, exploring, checking things off your sex bucket list, etc. If you both have a healthy attitude about sex you’re probably fine.

Be prepared for a negative reaction. She might be grossed out or turned off. If that happens don’t freak out. Handle it with grace. It seems to be rare that even couples with healthy functioning relationships also have sexual interests that match up perfectly. If she’s not receptive, you’ll make do like so many others, watching porn, seeing Professionals, having affairs or breaking up & looking elsewhere. Such is life.

Good luck!
Mistress T

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Random Thoughts on Cuckolding

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Savage Love’s column today inspired me to blog: http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=16951589

I was very interested in the 1st piece about cuckolding. In a nut shell: a wife complaining about her husbands obsession with wanting her to fuck other men & cuckold him. She wasn’t interested. Fair enough.

It’s unfortunate that there are so many mismatched couples. There are supposedly monogamous relationships where one or both are cheating behind the others back.  There’s are also people who wish their spouse would sleep with other people but the spouse isn’t interested in anyone but them. In my profession I often speak with men who wish their wives would sleep with other men…often these are men who are seeing me behind their wives back. Either they want to be cuckolded or they just think it would be hot to see their sexy wife getting fucked by another guy.

I have been fascinated with non-monogamy for as long as I can remember. My first boyfriend lied about NOT being a virgin & the thought of him being with another girl turned me on. (I later discovered that I was his first). Sure, I’ve had my moments of jealousy but I have more often been turned on by the thought of my lovers being with others. I like to hear about it & use my imagination, but sometimes I like to watch too.

When I discovered cuckolding I took to it like a duck to water. It combined several of my personal kinks. I enjoy creating cuckolding vids & delving into this fetish deeper & deeper.

Mistress T in Honeymoon Cuckolding.

Is that a close enough look cuck?

The next natural step is for me to be with a black man. This is a very powerful image for many, many cuckolds. The black stallion ravaging a white lady. For many the black male represents the ultimate in virility. Men of African descent are known to (often) have larger cocks than men of other ethnicity. I could go on & on but at the end of the day if the idea & visual of interracial cuckolding turns you on that’s all that matters.

I will mention, as a matter of interest, that I have received a little racist hate mail regarding my interracial vids. For all I know it could just be one guy as it sounds basically the same. I find it somewhat amusing to hear a hater say that I’m lowering myself by having sex with a black man. The only black man I’ve had sex with in my vids is of higher pedigree than most. He was raised upper-middle class, is well-educated & works hard in white collar job. He takes very good care of his health (you can see that by looking at him) & he’s a very sweet guy with a positive attitude. He’s not a thug, gangster, drug dealer, pimp, criminal, low life, etc. He joined me in Vegas in January & attended numerous social engagements with me. I was proud to have a well dressed & well mannered nice guy on my arm. He was well-liked. He is black. That might make him a sex symbol in some circles but this is for certain: being black doesn’t make him less than any of you. In fact, because I have decided he’s worthy of fucking me you all should bow down to him.

Haters are gonna hate though…& racists are going to continue to be ignorant.

If you want to be a cuckold (filmed or private) the black bull is visiting me in Vancouver this month! Email: MsT@MistressT.net

Feel free to add a comment but I will not allow racist comments on my blog so don’t bother typing them out. No one wants to hear it.

Best,
Mistress T

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Mistress T with a big black bear.

As they say: Once you go black you never go back!

 

I will have a black stud in June!

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Exciting news for fans of interracial porn/black bulls in cuckolding scenes: the black fellow I filmed with before is coming to visit me in Vancouver in June!

Ceara Lynch on 1 side...on the other side the hot black guy I met during my Xmas vacation...yes, we filmed together in Vegas:-)

Ceara Lynch on 1 side…on the other side the hot black guy I met during my Xmas vacation…yes, we filmed together in Vegas:-)

Here’s the back story: he & I met while on vacation in December 2012. We ‘clicked’ & while fooling around in front of a mirror he suggested we film ourselves. He had never done porn before & the whole thing came about naturally. The first vid we filmed was a huge hit. We had a lot of fun together that week so he came to visit me while I was in Vegas in January. We filmed again & spent a few awesome days together.

Mistress T with black slave.

We hit it off pretty well right from the start! (We met at a tropical resort in December.)

He lives pretty far away so it’s a big deal that he’s coming to visit me in Vancouver. I haven’t been able to find another black guy I felt comfortable filming with so his visit is even more appreciated.

The way I produce my ‘porn’ is a little different than the larger production companies. I only have sex with guys in my vids who I want to have sex with. My own personal lovers, etc. They are not professional porn performers. So sometimes it’s hard to just ‘fill a role’ if I don’t have the right person in my life at that time.

Mistress T with black slave.

Ebony and ivory…

If you are reading this & thinking that you would LOVE to see us in action in person, that you would like to play the role of a cuckold or voyeur in person (filmed or private) here’s what you need to know:

#1. We are only available together in Vancouver June 12-16. (Don’t ask me/us to come to your city or ask for other dates).

#2. We use condoms so there will be no creampie to clean up. To be clear: no cum in/on my pussy for you to lick up.

#3. He’s straight & will not want you to suck his cock.

#4. You may be able to eat his cum…out of a condom or off of my hand or other body part.

#5. Nothing is free. A vid with just us fucking will sell well without a cuckold in it so as much as I might enjoy having you here I don’t need you. It will cost significantly less if you are willing to be filmed than private but you will pay something for the privilege. A deposit will be required right away to demonstrate you are serious.

Creatively there are a lot of things we CAN do…I love to have my feet worshiped by a slave while I’m being fucked…cock comparison & small penis humiliation is fun…maybe cross dressing you & humiliating you in front of my black stud would be amusing…oh my, the options!

CUSTOM VIDS or WEB CAM are also possible!

EMAIL me (don’t tweet) to order custom vids with the black guy or to arrange a web cam session with us…or to apply to see us in person:

MsT@Mistress T.net

Best,
Mistress T

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Mistress T fucking a black stud.

From our maiden voyage: “Black Magic”. My 1st porn vid having sex with a black guy…his 1st porn ever!

Mistress T with black bull & female cuckold.

From the vid: “Cuckolded Girlfriend vs. BBC”. Featuring Cheyenne Jewel.

Mistress T with a black bull

From the popular vid: “Serviced By A Black Bull”

Cock Hunting.

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I’ve written blog entries before about looking for film slaves/male film performers…why not one more? This time less of an application form & more of an ‘adventures of’.

It’s been easier for me to do most of my filming elsewhere because frankly, Vancouver has very slim pickings for film slaves…but I’d prefer to not travel for a bit so here I am, in Vancouver looking for cock. Really, that’s what it comes down to.

The ideal fella has a large cock, cums easily & a lot, has a decent body, has nice manners & is reliable. This can be remarkably hard to find in Vancouver for some reason. Elsewhere I usually have plenty enough fans volunteering & I like that. I think that the vids are more authentic feeling if the guy is a real fan & really into me.

I’ve been criticized for not paying male performers (the critics are anonymous online commentors & seem very angry…not sure who they are or why they care so much?) To be fair, if I had easy access to truly professional male performers like Wolf Hudson (who I loved working with at Kink.com) & Deviant Kade (who I work with when I film with FemDom Empire) I would happily pay.

Vancouver is not LA however.

I’m specifically looking for black studs for interracial vids right now.

I have been trying online dating sites, ads for male escorts, etc. It can be awkward approaching men to ask if they’re interested in doing porn.

A comedy of errors in the search for BBC:

1. Awhile ago I met a cute black guy at a party. He asked me out. Over lunch he mentioned something about the whole ‘BBC myth’. I took it from that he had a small black dick. I told him I was looking for a BBC for adult films & he hooked me up with one of his friends. After chatting for a few minutes I discovered he was actually just looking for some no-strings-attached action behind his girlfriends back & only pretended to be interested in film to get me into bed. It didn’t work.

2. At another party a very hot black guy started dancing with me & soon his cock was so hard it was brushing against me even though he wasn’t touching me otherwise. I could tell it was huge so took him aside to ask if he’d be interested in doing porn. If you’ve seen Boogie Nights & remember the scene where Burt Reynolds approaches Dirk Diggler about doing porn…it wasn’t that glamorous. We’re still discussing over email but it’s not looking good.

3. I met with a guy who I found on a dating site. We had an awkward lunch interview. He had sent me pics of his dick so I knew he had a decent sized BBC. After lunch I tried to end the meeting but he was a clinger. He wanted to hang out longer & chat. I told him we didn’t need to do that, that he was fine & we could set up a time to film. He hooted with excitement & then asked seriously if he could feel my ass. We were standing on a busy street in broad daylight…although my answer would have been the same in any circumstance: I told him he just blew it.

4. Months ago I ran into a male erotic dancer I had known years ago. Way back then we had kissed one night so I took the opportunity to pick up where we left off & asked him out. One thing led to another…we discussed making a video, he was game. He had a great body & a nice BBC. He promised that he could go & go like a champ…but not with a condom. What? He couldn’t stay hard with a condom? So he was just fucking random chicks bareback all the time & thought that since I do porn I’d be down with that. Um, no. Good-bye.

The one black guy I have filmed with was great. I met him on vacation. We filmed there & then he came to visit me in Vegas where we filmed again. He might come to Vancouver soon for a visit which would be awesome: more filming! I know a lot of my fans really enjoyed seeing me with that black stud & he is a genuinely nice & respectful fella so I like spending time with him.

Mistress T with black slave.

Ebony and ivory…

The search continues. For those who are craving more interracial action: I’m working on it…& think it’s kind of funny that it’s THIS hard for me to find the right black guy to perform in my vids. I am beginning to understand how a lot of guys feel when they’re trying to get laid!

So, if you are in Vancouver or can come here…if you are fit with a big black or white cock that gets hard, stays hard & cums easily…email me: MsT@MistressT.net

Maybe you’ll get to check “Be a porn star” off your bucket list:-)

Best,
Mistress T

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An unusal day in the life…

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It’s been an unusual day (for me).

I woke up at my Mothers house in Nova Scotia on my last day of my family visit. I opened my email & found out that I’d been dumped (more on that later). Mom drove me to the airport where we had our usual teary farewell before I spent the rest of the day traveling to an American city for a session I’ll have tomorrow.

I’m sitting in my swanky deluxe hotel suite reflecting on my family visit, my dying uncle, my dead relationship & mentally preparing for tomorrow. Between civilized conversations I’ll be administering extreme corporal punishment (beating him with various implements like paddles, canes, etc.), strap-on ass fucking/ass stretching with large butt plugs…& defecating in his mouth if I feel so ‘moved’. He has paid a ridiculous sum to have me come here…as is the case these days. “Make me an offer I can’t refuse” is my new slogan to those who want me to travel to their city for a session.

Another fancy hotel room...such extravagance...heavens-to-betsy.

Another fancy hotel room…such extravagance…heavens-to-betsy.

As for getting dumped this morning…it didn’t come as the biggest surprise. The ‘relationship’ barely had a chance to get off the ground before I left on this trip & I predicted it wouldn’t survive a month away. I’m a hellava drug, but my pull decreases with time & distance. We both knew that we weren’t compatible in the long term but the sex was fantastic enough to keep us both in play anyway. Well, until this morning when the dear boy finally mustered the courage to walk away from the best sex he’s ever had to seek a more compatible mate…one who wants kids (I don’t) & one who’s naked caboose isn’t all over the internet. Yes, as turned on as he was by Mistress T, he felt he could never introduce me to his family, friends & business associates.

When you’re married to your work all other relationships are just affairs. The combination of what I do & how much I travel is poison for relationships. This isn’t the 1st one I’ve lost because I’m not in town enough. It is the 1st one who has had that big of a problem with me being a Dominatrix/Fetish Film Performer. Probably won’t be the last.

“The best way to get over a man is to get under another.” ~ Mae West

I am lining up suitable candidates for when I’m back in Vancouver:-)

Nova Scotia was good except the whole terminally ill uncle thing. Heart breaking.

Here’s some random snaps of other moments like a lobster feed, farm fun & you know you’re at grandma’s house when the toilet paper has it’s own pretty basket.

Wish me luck tomorrow, ya know, with the whole bodily function thing.
Mistress T

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A Nova Scotia visit wouldn't be complete without a good feeding of lobster!

A Nova Scotia visit wouldn’t be complete without a good feeding of lobster!

An old barn that used to be so important for over 100 years, now just a home to cats.

An old barn that used to be so important for over 100 years, now just a home to cats.

Baby lambs: awwww.

Baby lambs: awwww.

Grandma's house...such a contrast to how I'll use the toilet tomorrow.

Grandma’s house…such a contrast to how I’ll use the toilet tomorrow.

Pay what you want?

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I watched an interesting Ted Talk by the musician Amanda Palmer. I strongly recommend you take the 13 minutes to watch it. It’s really fantastic & the rest of my  blog post will make more sense if you’ve seen it.

Here it is:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amanda_palmer_the_art_of_asking.html

In a nutshell, she discusses the concept of asking people to pay what they want for her music (or music in general) rather than trying to make people pay for it.

I wonder if this would work for porn? Maybe not all porn…but would it work for mine?

We all know that the internet & file sharing has changed how we access music, movies, TV shows, games, education…& yes, porn. I don’t want to discuss piracy too deeply but would rather focus on the concept of letting people pay what they want. What would happen?

If I started a website with free access but asked people to just donate or tribute what they wanted to…what would happen? I know a lot of my fans feel like my content is worth a lot more than they pay for it. For example, I have a lot of custom vid buyers who have no problem paying $150 or more for a vid that others can then watch for $15 or less.

Naturally many would take advantage. BUT would there be enough others who paid a little or a lot to equal or exceed what I currently make charging a monthly membership fee?

Please comment. I’d like your feedback. What would you pay for access to my members site if you could pay whatever you wanted?

Best,
Mistress T

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English Mansion UK: lots of pics!

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Wow, look at all the pretty pics! Lots of eye candy in this blog entry.

I’ve been at The English Mansion for the last week & a bit…& I’m here for another week. I love it here so much. Friends, fetish fuckery, filming, feline, food…& hot tubbing. I don’t have an ‘f’ word for that. A big THANK YOU to Sidonia Von Bork & Co. at The English Mansion for taking such good care of me.

We’ve filmed some great stuff in the last week for their site & mine…at a very civilized pace. We’ve still gone out for some nice meals, relaxed in the hot tub, spent lots of time chatting/connecting…even an outing to Mark’s & Spencer is a pleasure for me. Oh, how I wish we had a Mark’s & Spencer in Vancouver.

I’ve always said the UK has the best film slaves. I love filming with all the pervvy Brits here. They’re up for just about anything it seems. Today I had mud licked off of my boots & feet, severely caned a slave in the garden, had a slave jerk off on my feet & lick it up….& nearly drowned another one using him as a toilet. Four different wonderful slaves in 1 day! Yesterday I had the pleasure of using a young, fit one for more sexual scenes…bondage sex, encouraged bi cock sucking/facial & cum eating, etc. Another day this week I did some kinky scenes in a prison cell & in an autopsy room!

I also have had the pleasure of meeting Princess Neive Harper. What a devious vixen she is! She’s in her early 20’s & pulls off the Dominant brat girl thing too well really. Cute like a razor blade: http://www.princessneive.co.uk/

So, all is well here. Very well. I’m looking forward to this coming week. Follow my twitter for more pics & updates as events unfold.

If you’re wondering if there’s an opportunity to meet me this week, either privately or for filming email me to apply. Things look pretty booked but I know from experience that things change. I can usually squeeze in someone if they’re keen enough & flexible: MsT@MistressT.net

(Communicate clearly in any email to me. Tell me where you are, what you’re into/what you would be useful for, when you’re available. Send pics if you want to be a film slave.)

Cheers,

Mistress T

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Mistress T and Sidonia Von Bork.

Sidonia Von Bork & I…pointing out your inadequacies…again…

Mistress T making a slave suck cock.

It’s like a FemDom version of ‘Bobbing For Apples’!

Mistress t with pussy licking slave.

…an Easter egg hunt gone wrong…

Mistress T in a latex nurse's outfit.

“Yes, it’s an autopsy table…but don’t worry, I’m a Professional…”

Mistress T with slave in prison.

A prisoner doing ‘hard’ time…

Mistress T & Neive Harper

Princess Neive Harper & I ‘pretended’ to be lesbian lovers for a scene…ah, my job is SO hard. ha ha

Mistress T with SophieDoll.

Let’s see what’s under SophieDoll’s skirt…

Mistress T in lingerie.

Couch potato. Laying around in my underwear…

Mistress T as a prison guard.

“Damn prison guard budget cuts…can’t even get a full pair of pants anymore…”

Mistress T in stockings showing feet.

“Sniff that. See if you can guess what I stepped in…”

Mistress T in lingerie.

“Fuck, did I forget to wear panties AGAIN? I’ll just casually hold my hand there, no one will notice….”

Mistress T with a cat.

Token pussy pic. Too obvious? Seriously, one of my favorite things about being here: The Mansion Cat:-)

xoxox